as it seems all will tell you the same...ask he out..
from the moment you know her brother,then go slowly,with a coffee first..
if goes ok,and want to see eachother again,better be hosest to the brother..
trust me,is better he hears first from you,than someone see you out with his sister and tell him about it
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
You are telling us about the con's but you're not telling us the pro's. You need to weight this out in your own mind.
What do you have in common?
Our ethnicity lol.
I have to talk to her more to see if we have more common ground.
I find it hard to meet women, so she's the only one I know who I have contact with and who is single.
To be honest I don't have much in common with anyone, noone likes the music I like, or art, or guitar...
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
Our ethnicity lol.
I have to talk to her more to see if we have more common ground.
I find it hard to meet women, so she's the only one I know who I have contact with and who is single.
To be honest I don't have much in common with anyone, noone likes the music I like, or art, or guitar...
You may have more in common than you realize. Ask her out.
as it seems all will tell you the same...ask he out..
from the moment you know her brother,then go slowly,with a coffee first..
if goes ok,and want to see eachother again,better be hosest to the brother..
trust me,is better he hears first from you,than someone see you out with his sister and tell him about it
I know dude. I am not like that, I'd tell him, I'd even go over to his house or call him.
For just a catch up over coffee I don't think he needs to know, if I were to tell him before asking her out then it would imply that I want a romantic relationship and that might scare her away.
This is all too complicated, my life is that way. :(
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
This is all too complicated, my life is that way. :(
Keep it simple. As 81 says, this isn't a wedding--you are just getting together to catch up and hang out with someone you like. Don't put unnecessary pressure on yourself.
In the fields of philosophy and æsthetics, the term philistinism describes the social attitude of anti-intellectualism that undervalues and despises art, beauty, spirituality, and intellect; ‘the manners, habits, and character, or mode of thinking of a philistine’. A philistine person is the man or woman who is smugly narrow of mind and of conventional morality whose materialistic views and tastes indicate a lack of and indifference to cultural and æsthetic values
I've typed up my message but too chicken shit to hit the send button.
I've always chickened out in life when it comes to girls. :fp:
I guess that is what an anxiety disorder does to the mind.
as it seems all will tell you the same...ask he out..
from the moment you know her brother,then go slowly,with a coffee first..
if goes ok,and want to see eachother again,better be hosest to the brother..
trust me,is better he hears first from you,than someone see you out with his sister and tell him about it
I know dude. I am not like that, I'd tell him, I'd even go over to his house or call him.
For just a catch up over coffee I don't think he needs to know, if I were to tell him before asking her out then it would imply that I want a romantic relationship and that might scare her away.
This is all too complicated, my life is that way. :(
sure,dont tell him now,but if goes more than a coffee,then,tell him..its always better in the end
he will apreciate it
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
In the fields of philosophy and æsthetics, the term philistinism describes the social attitude of anti-intellectualism that undervalues and despises art, beauty, spirituality, and intellect; ‘the manners, habits, and character, or mode of thinking of a philistine’. A philistine person is the man or woman who is smugly narrow of mind and of conventional morality whose materialistic views and tastes indicate a lack of and indifference to cultural and æsthetic values
???? :(
I would hope not.
We've seen each plenty times at parties and amongst groups of mutual friends but we have never really talked on a deep level.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
sure,dont tell him now,but if goes more than a coffee,then,tell him..its always better in the end
he will apreciate it
I would hope so, plus I'd be a real gentlemen.
On the other hand he may attempt to strangle and punch me.
Hasn't heard from me and now I re-appear to get his okay to see his sister.
This is the main reason I haven't asked her out yet.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
You are telling us about the con's but you're not telling us the pro's. You need to weight this out in your own mind.
What do you have in common?
Our ethnicity lol.
I have to talk to her more to see if we have more common ground.
I find it hard to meet women, so she's the only one I know who I have contact with and who is single.
To be honest I don't have much in common with anyone, noone likes the music I like, or art, or guitar...
Do you get out at all? Theres plenty of art and music and creativity out there. There will be plenty of events like that comming up in Spring. Ampel time to get a fun day together. In the mean time,find out more about her likes and dislikes over COFFEE!
sure,dont tell him now,but if goes more than a coffee,then,tell him..its always better in the end
he will apreciate it
I would hope so, plus I'd be a real gentlemen.
On the other hand he may attempt to strangle and punch me.
Hasn't heard from me and now I re-appear to get his okay to see his sister.
This is the main reason I haven't asked her out yet.
i understand..
im the big brother so i know..i always want the best for my sister,but most of all to be happy..
she is married with 2 kids but still i want to "protect" her..
its logic...but most of all i want her happy..
so if this girl likes you,and having good time with you,in the end the brother will be ok..
all is in your hands.
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Yeah, of course ask her out. Worst thing that could happen is her saying no.
And no, it's not creepy just to send a message to someone. Just don't ask her out online. Remember, that pocket computer is also a telephone. Give her a call.;) Oh, and re your isolated lifestyle I just read about... just suck it up and do it and get busy living. The more people you have contact with, the higher your odds of fun shit happening to you go. Take risks.
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With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
Yeah, of course ask her out. Worst thing that could happen is her saying no.
And no, it's not creepy just to send a message to someone. Just don't ask her out online. Remember, that pocket computer is also a telephone. Give her a call.;) Oh, and re your isolated lifestyle I just read about... just suck it up and do it and get busy living. The more people you have contact with, the higher your odds of fun shit happening to you go. Take risks.
Yeah, of course ask her out. Worst thing that could happen is her saying no.
And no, it's not creepy just to send a message to someone. Just don't ask her out online. Remember, that pocket computer is also a telephone. Give her a call.;) Oh, and re your isolated lifestyle I just read about... just suck it up and do it and get busy living. The more people you have contact with, the higher your odds of fun shit happening to you go. Take risks.
Listen to boobs
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
In the fields of philosophy and æsthetics, the term philistinism describes the social attitude of anti-intellectualism that undervalues and despises art, beauty, spirituality, and intellect; ‘the manners, habits, and character, or mode of thinking of a philistine’. A philistine person is the man or woman who is smugly narrow of mind and of conventional morality whose materialistic views and tastes indicate a lack of and indifference to cultural and æsthetic values
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from the moment you know her brother,then go slowly,with a coffee first..
if goes ok,and want to see eachother again,better be hosest to the brother..
trust me,is better he hears first from you,than someone see you out with his sister and tell him about it
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Given the choice, i would prefer her online, but offline is ok ...
Maybe something super simple like...
Hey, just thinking....we should go out for a drink sometime...here's my number, feel free to text and we can figure out the details
Our ethnicity lol.
I have to talk to her more to see if we have more common ground.
I find it hard to meet women, so she's the only one I know who I have contact with and who is single.
To be honest I don't have much in common with anyone, noone likes the music I like, or art, or guitar...
Just do it
I know dude. I am not like that, I'd tell him, I'd even go over to his house or call him.
For just a catch up over coffee I don't think he needs to know, if I were to tell him before asking her out then it would imply that I want a romantic relationship and that might scare her away.
This is all too complicated, my life is that way. :(
They are twins, twins are close.
I missed that
Would you like to go out for coffee sometime? SEND
Not complicated
In the fields of philosophy and æsthetics, the term philistinism describes the social attitude of anti-intellectualism that undervalues and despises art, beauty, spirituality, and intellect; ‘the manners, habits, and character, or mode of thinking of a philistine’. A philistine person is the man or woman who is smugly narrow of mind and of conventional morality whose materialistic views and tastes indicate a lack of and indifference to cultural and æsthetic values
???? :(
hit send with your foot not your mind
he will apreciate it
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Or give me your log on and i will
I would hope not.
We've seen each plenty times at parties and amongst groups of mutual friends but we have never really talked on a deep level.
Sent you a PM...
I would hope so, plus I'd be a real gentlemen.
On the other hand he may attempt to strangle and punch me.
Hasn't heard from me and now I re-appear to get his okay to see his sister.
This is the main reason I haven't asked her out yet.
Do you get out at all? Theres plenty of art and music and creativity out there. There will be plenty of events like that comming up in Spring. Ampel time to get a fun day together. In the mean time,find out more about her likes and dislikes over COFFEE!
im the big brother so i know..i always want the best for my sister,but most of all to be happy..
she is married with 2 kids but still i want to "protect" her..
its logic...but most of all i want her happy..
so if this girl likes you,and having good time with you,in the end the brother will be ok..
all is in your hands.
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Nope I never go out.
I have 1 friend, we just hang out at his place.
I live a sad life. If only there were more people like the one's here in my community.
And no, it's not creepy just to send a message to someone. Just don't ask her out online. Remember, that pocket computer is also a telephone. Give her a call.;) Oh, and re your isolated lifestyle I just read about... just suck it up and do it and get busy living. The more people you have contact with, the higher your odds of fun shit happening to you go. Take risks.
that's racist.