Should I ask her out?

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  • JonnyPistachio
    JonnyPistachio Florida Posts: 10,219
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    PJ_Soul wrote:
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    Turning 29 this year. Not exactly young and I have grey hairs. Tick tock time is running out for me.
    No it's not - not even close. Many men aren't getting married until their mid to late 30s these days, if that. Don't worry about it. Plus, time is running out for what exactly?? It's not like you have to worry about not being able to get pregnant if you wait too long.

    When I am all grey hairs and wrinkly noone will want me.
    I am under pressure from family to get married, it is a cultural thing as well.

    I thought like that for a little while. I got married when I was 37. I'm sooooo glad I waitedseriosly. It was the best thing that ever happened to me to wait and bump into the best person i've ever met at 36 years old. And I was single for long stretches (from 27-30, 32-35). You'll be fine, but you need to change your attitude a bit.

    And I suggest tha you should forget your family and their pressure. Do things your way... dont force things or think about them too much. it will fuck it up. You have to be selfish in this department, dont do anything relationship related in terms of family, culture, or any outside pressure, whatsoever.
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  • mydogmookieblaylock
    mydogmookieblaylock Posts: 2,996
    my grandpa's 4 criteria of a good woman:

    1st you see how she can cook
    2nd you see how she pays her bills
    3rd see if she can clean
    4th you see how she is in bed.

    Not sure if that is the correct order - but that is his 4.

    and if she is good at 3 out of 4..... that ain't bad
    #justsaying

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