Homosexuals letting everyone know...

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  • dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    chime wrote:
    Jo wrote:
    When was the last Hetrosexual parade you ever saw?
    You know, the parrade we all go to wearing our jocks and Bras and not give a shit about the way we look?
    I have 4 male children and I'm doing my utmost to ensure they grow up Hetrosexual........
    WHY?
    Because I see sexuality the way I see it.
    There is nothing natural about a penis up an Arse. That goes for both Men and Women of any age.

    My view is that sex between anyone has been devalued.

    This made me think of the polar opposite which was a news story in the UK today when a TV presenter was asked what he would do if one of his children bought home a same sex partner (and yes it does say something that this should still be news)

    His response:

    "My eldest daughter is gay, so that's a question which I've dealt with on a regular basis already, which is, providing it's a nice woman, I'm thrilled. I've got no problems at all, obviously."

    "Certainly, their sexuality is a, really none of my business and b; certainly none of my concern. I just want them to be good, happy, stable people and so far, all three of them seem to be that."

    http://celebrity.uk.msn.com/news/articl ... =155894137


    wow... Jonathan Ross is 'lucky enough' to have a gay daughter. ;)
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • JOEJOEJOEJOEJOEJOE Posts: 10,483
    My aunt used to cringe when I brought non-Jewish girls to Passover. I wanted to shock her by bringing a gay Jewish man as my date one year!

    "My date will be Jewish, but he is a boy!"
  • dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    Wilds wrote:
    dunkman wrote:
    Wilds wrote:

    Plenty of my gay friends have kids. And from what I hear the grandparents are thrilled. :roll:

    'Plenty of my gay friends?' where do you live... on the set of Glee? ;)

    i wasn't meaning adopted or surrogate children... more biologically from the same gene pool kinda kids...

    Neither was I.


    At least not exclusively. Some friends have biological children and some adopt. The grandparents of each love them equally as much.


    EDIT: And the Xmas presents are abundant.

    i'm not surprised the xmas presents are abundant... what with the grandparents being lucky enough to have a gay son.

    wouldnt bother me one bit if one of my 2 kids were to be gay... but i would never consider myself 'lucky enough' for one of them to be gay... just seemed an odd thing for Pandora to say to Jo.
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    dunkman wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    Perhaps if you are lucky enough though, one of your fine young men may be gay
    and will open your heart to a love that exists between same sex people.


    lucky enough? are you saying that the holy grail of parenting now is to be 'lucky enough' to have one of your kids turn out gay?

    won't be 'lucky enough' to have their own kids though huh? perhaps Jo would like to have grandkids at some point and perhaps if she were 'lucky enough' to have ALL of her sons turn out to be gay she might not have those grandkids... that'd be lucky... save a fortune on Christmas presents right enough.
    Did you mean to miss the entire point Dunkman? or to just fit it just for you?
    You are 'lucky enough' when you meet your greatest fear and learn from it ....was the message
    it's all in the heart... learning to love everyone
    and yes we teach each other.
  • this whole "lucky enough to be gay" thing
    reminds me of a scene from The Family Stone
    where the girl is asking the mother of the gay son, surely you wanted him to be normal didnt you?
    really awkward scene, great film though
  • LizardLizard Posts: 12,091
    Back to the topic....doesn't bother me if gay people want to put little rainbows all over their car. I will probably only be behind that car for 30 seconds or less.
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • comebackgirlcomebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Jo wrote:
    When was the last Hetrosexual parade you ever saw?
    You know, the parrade we all go to wearing our jocks and Bras and not give a shit about the way we look?
    I have 4 male children and I'm doing my utmost to ensure they grow up Hetrosexual........
    WHY?
    Because I see sexuality the way I see it.
    There is nothing natural about a penis up an Arse. That goes for both Men and Women of any age.

    My view is that sex between anyone has been devalued.
    Being gay isn't really about sex...it's about someone's identity. There are gay men who have never had sex with another man...and there are straight men who have. Sexuality is really only a piece of it. There really is nothing you can do to ensure your children grow up heterosexual. Either they are or they aren't. What you can ensure is that they will feel shame about it and hide it, however. I agree that sex has been devalued in many, many ways...but wasn't your initial post about having your pornos ruined? Color me confused. :?
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  • LizardLizard Posts: 12,091
    Jo wrote:
    When was the last Hetrosexual parade you ever saw?
    You know, the parrade we all go to wearing our jocks and Bras and not give a shit about the way we look?
    I have 4 male children and I'm doing my utmost to ensure they grow up Hetrosexual........
    WHY?
    Because I see sexuality the way I see it.
    There is nothing natural about a penis up an Arse. That goes for both Men and Women of any age.

    My view is that sex between anyone has been devalued.
    Being gay isn't really about sex...it's about someone's identity. There are gay men who have never had sex with another man...and there are straight men who have. Sexuality is really only a piece of it. There really is nothing you can do to ensure your children grow up heterosexual. Either they are or they aren't. What you can ensure is that they will feel shame about it and hide it, however. I agree that sex has been devalued in many, many ways...but wasn't your initial post about having your pornos ruined? Color me confused. :?

    Yea---that was very odd to me.
    And as others have said--the environment is not going to make your child gay.
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    I think most of us can agree that the OP meant to title this thread, "I am only comfortable with gays that have accepted the negative social stigma and are ashamed to let anyone know about it."
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  • Black DiamondBlack Diamond Posts: 25,107
    eyedclaar wrote:
    I think most of us can agree that the OP meant to title this thread, "I am only comfortable with gays that have accepted the negative social stigma and are ashamed to let anyone know about it."
    That's a mouthfull.
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  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    eyedclaar wrote:
    I think most of us can agree that the OP meant to title this thread, "I am only comfortable with gays that have accepted the negative social stigma and are ashamed to let anyone know about it."
    That's a mouthful.


    That's what he said...

    Oh wait, that will make some people uncomfortable around here.

    I meant, that's what she said.
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  • Black DiamondBlack Diamond Posts: 25,107
    eyedclaar wrote:
    eyedclaar wrote:
    I think most of us can agree that the OP meant to title this thread, "I am only comfortable with gays that have accepted the negative social stigma and are ashamed to let anyone know about it."
    That's a mouthful.


    That's what he said...

    Oh wait, that will make some people uncomfortable around here.

    I meant, that's what she said.
    Well done.
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    Jo wrote:
    When was the last Hetrosexual parade you ever saw?
    You know, the parrade we all go to wearing our jocks and Bras and not give a shit about the way we look?
    I have 4 male children and I'm doing my utmost to ensure they grow up Hetrosexual........
    WHY?
    Because I see sexuality the way I see it.
    There is nothing natural about a penis up an Arse. That goes for both Men and Women of any age.

    hahaha And now she has an issue with anal sex in general! :lol:

    It's sad that there are people like you still out there. I wonder what shit you've sprouted in your childrens' minds to ensure they grow up heterosexual?? Poor little things. :|
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    edited January 2011
    DP.....

    Edit:

    *Jo starts hyperventilating and runs away in fear.....Double Penetration...... :shock: :shock: ......UNNATURAL BUM SEX on my forum......arrrggghhhh!!!*

    No, it stands for Double Post actually....but keep on running. ;)
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  • voidofmanvoidofman Posts: 4,009
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Jo wrote:
    When was the last Hetrosexual parade you ever saw?
    You know, the parrade we all go to wearing our jocks and Bras and not give a shit about the way we look?
    I have 4 male children and I'm doing my utmost to ensure they grow up Hetrosexual........
    WHY?
    Because I see sexuality the way I see it.
    There is nothing natural about a penis up an Arse. That goes for both Men and Women of any age.

    hahaha And now she has an issue with anal sex in general! :lol:

    It's sad that there are people like you still out there. I wonder what shit you've sprouted in your childrens' minds to ensure they grow up heterosexual?? Poor little things. :|


    Trying to force your beliefs on your kids will only make them want to run away from them more.
  • Who PrincessWho Princess Posts: 7,305
    Jo wrote:
    When was the last Hetrosexual parade you ever saw?
    You know, the parrade we all go to wearing our jocks and Bras and not give a shit about the way we look?
    If you visit New Orleans during Mardi Gras, I think you'll see one. I don't identify with the women there who earn beads when they respond to people yelling "Show your tits!" I have many gay friends and they generally dislike the stereotypes presented by some gays. But they also respect the people who are flamboyant because those are the ones who stand up for who they are in the face of abuse.

    At my advanced age, I've seen plenty of heterosexuals acting inappropriately in public. Most people just turn away. I've never heard anyone complain about those people "flaunting" their sexuality. What do you think is too much overt behavior from gays? Kissing? Holding hands? Is it possible that gay people would like to show the same degree of affection for their loved ones that most of us take for granted?

    I'm straight and I've been married 32 years to the same man. But I received my nickname of Princess when I worked at an AIDS organization for 5 years. I was told by my gay co-workers that they considered me "family" because I fit in so well. I was proud that the people I worked with held me in that kind of regard and it still means a lot to me.

    I've also marched in a gay pride parade, as a volunteer for the NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt. The parade was about as outrageous as a 4th of July celebration. Which is to say it wasn't.

    I'm not one for bumper stickers but if somebody wants to decorate their car with them, so what? And if you see the car in traffic, does that mean the driver is gay just because the car is plastered with rainbows? Suppose he borrowed it from a friend or co-worker? Suppose he just bought it? And whose business is it, anyway?
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  • DissidentmanDissidentman Posts: 15,378
    VoidOfMan wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Jo wrote:
    When was the last Hetrosexual parade you ever saw?
    You know, the parrade we all go to wearing our jocks and Bras and not give a shit about the way we look?
    I have 4 male children and I'm doing my utmost to ensure they grow up Hetrosexual........
    WHY?
    Because I see sexuality the way I see it.
    There is nothing natural about a penis up an Arse. That goes for both Men and Women of any age.

    hahaha And now she has an issue with anal sex in general! :lol:

    It's sad that there are people like you still out there. I wonder what shit you've sprouted in your childrens' minds to ensure they grow up heterosexual?? Poor little things. :|


    Trying to force your beliefs on your kids will only make them want to run away from them more.

    This is why I make my kids use foul language, force them to watch South Park, only allow them to eat candy and drink soda, and don't provide them with toohbrushes.
    ;)
  • EilianEilian Posts: 276
    Whilst I fully appreciate the comedy value of someone "ensuring thier children grow up to be heterosexual", am I the only one that thinks the original post has been somewhat unfairly judged and exaggerated?

    I'm sure, with the exception of those that think homosexuality can be avoided by sitting your kids down in front of Die Hard, five times a week, we would all agree that we would dearly love to live in a world where your orientation was completely irrelevant to the wider world, yes?

    That being said, at what point in progress does pinning so much emphasis on the way you swing that you define yourself by it become counter-productive? Genuine question. At some point, in the not too far distant future perhaps, will constant public announcements that you're gay to people that probably don't care, whether they come in the form of car stickers, or disingenous effeminate mincing start retarding the progress we've already made? Or is it already happening?
  • nuffingmannuffingman Posts: 3,014
    Eilian wrote:
    Whilst I fully appreciate the comedy value of someone "ensuring thier children grow up to be heterosexual", am I the only one that thinks the original post has been somewhat unfairly judged and exaggerated?
    No your not. As often happens the subject matter of the OPs post has been stretched and twisted beyond belief. Makes it fun though.
  • EilianEilian Posts: 276
    nuffingman wrote:
    Eilian wrote:
    Whilst I fully appreciate the comedy value of someone "ensuring thier children grow up to be heterosexual", am I the only one that thinks the original post has been somewhat unfairly judged and exaggerated?
    No your not. As often happens the subject matter of the OPs post has been stretched and twisted beyond belief. Makes it fun though.


    Much like the manhandled bumholes that keep ruining porn?
  • Jason PJason P Posts: 19,138
    Eilian wrote:
    I'm sure, with the exception of those that think homosexuality can be avoided by sitting your kids down in front of Die Hard, five times a week, we would all agree that we would dearly love to live in a world where your orientation was completely irrelevant to the wider world, yes?
    I would suggest alternating between Die Hard 1, 2, and 3 to avoid complacency. Avoid the 4th movie though as that may have the opposite affect. ;)
  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    Jason P wrote:
    Eilian wrote:
    I'm sure, with the exception of those that think homosexuality can be avoided by sitting your kids down in front of Die Hard, five times a week, we would all agree that we would dearly love to live in a world where your orientation was completely irrelevant to the wider world, yes?
    I would suggest alternating between Die Hard 1, 2, and 3 to avoid complacency. Avoid the 4th movie though as that may have the opposite affect. ;)

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  • EilianEilian Posts: 276
    Jason P wrote:
    Eilian wrote:
    I'm sure, with the exception of those that think homosexuality can be avoided by sitting your kids down in front of Die Hard, five times a week, we would all agree that we would dearly love to live in a world where your orientation was completely irrelevant to the wider world, yes?
    I would suggest alternating between Die Hard 1, 2, and 3 to avoid complacency. Avoid the 4th movie though as that may have the opposite affect. ;)


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  • Jason PJason P Posts: 19,138
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Jason P wrote:
    Eilian wrote:
    I'm sure, with the exception of those that think homosexuality can be avoided by sitting your kids down in front of Die Hard, five times a week, we would all agree that we would dearly love to live in a world where your orientation was completely irrelevant to the wider world, yes?
    I would suggest alternating between Die Hard 1, 2, and 3 to avoid complacency. Avoid the 4th movie though as that may have the opposite affect. ;)

    That's what happened to my cousin...
    The poor soul.

    Please don't tell me you found your cousin with a copy of Indiana Jones and The Kingdom of the Crystal Skull as well ... if so, it is too late. Nothing can be done to stop the process now ....
  • ZiggyStar wrote:
    hahaha And now she has an issue with anal sex in general! :lol:
    pink sock. :shock:
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  • Jason P wrote:
    Please don't tell me you found your cousin with a copy of Indiana Jones and The Kingdom of the Crystal Skull as well ... if so, it is too late. Nothing can be done to stop the process now ....
    ha... i just tried to watch 5 min of that on tv and felt physically ill... don't even get me started
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  • DissidentmanDissidentman Posts: 15,378
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Jason P wrote:
    Eilian wrote:
    I'm sure, with the exception of those that think homosexuality can be avoided by sitting your kids down in front of Die Hard, five times a week, we would all agree that we would dearly love to live in a world where your orientation was completely irrelevant to the wider world, yes?
    I would suggest alternating between Die Hard 1, 2, and 3 to avoid complacency. Avoid the 4th movie though as that may have the opposite affect. ;)

    That's what happened to my cousin...


    :lol::lol:
  • Who PrincessWho Princess Posts: 7,305
    Eilian wrote:
    That being said, at what point in progress does pinning so much emphasis on the way you swing that you define yourself by it become counter-productive? Genuine question. At some point, in the not too far distant future perhaps, will constant public announcements that you're gay to people that probably don't care, whether they come in the form of car stickers, or disingenous effeminate mincing start retarding the progress we've already made? Or is it already happening?
    I think "announcing" one's orientation is something of a phase or cycle that will eventually die out or evolve into something else. I don't think most gays have any interest in such public declarations or if they do, they eventually get over it. (The public stuff, not being gay.)

    I once kidded a gay friend about not having a rainbow sticker on his car. He said, "I've been through that phase in my life."

    I still don't see what's the big deal about someone being stereotypically gay or making their orientation known. It's not very typical behavior for most gays and why be concerned about the few who do? For milennia societies have declared how gays should behave and I still say it takes a lot of guts to go against what most people are telling you to do. I've seen plenty of people who over-advertise their political beliefs on their vehicles. Or their sports affiliations, as someone already pointed out. Not my thing, although I do have some dog stickers on my car.

    At least we've gotten past burning gays at the stake.
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  • chiquimonkeychiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    I've seen plenty of people who over-advertise their political beliefs on their vehicles. Or their sports affiliations, as someone already pointed out.
    Right on. How is this any different?

    I just don't get how it matters to anyone. I think a problem a lot of people have is the misconception that everything is about them. There's a whole world out there that is functioning without your input at all, and people going on with their lives irrespective of how you live...what makes you so special that people have to hold back what they think or feel, or how they express it, just because you have some hang-up about it?
  • 8181 Posts: 58,276
    I've seen plenty of people who over-advertise their political beliefs on their vehicles. Or their sports affiliations, as someone already pointed out. Not my thing, although I do have some dog stickers on my car.


    saw an suv in the parking lot a few days ago that was buried in bears stuff. on the hood, on all the doors, on the fendors, on the back. :roll:
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