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  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,801
    You should be proud of yourself -- when one day at a time amounts to a milestone like '1 year' it is wonderful.
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • oftenreading
    oftenreading Victoria, BC Posts: 12,856
    hedonist said:
    I am happy (?) to bump this thread, as today is my official one-year without alcohol.  I typically acknowledge the monthly milestones on the first, but fuck it.  As I told the dear friend who congratulated me this morning, I've earned every day of it.

    As I said to my husband earlier, I may not have avoided the hospital this past year (just got out a few days ago), but I have stayed away from the booze for 365 days.

    So while I may not be in good physical health, I'm pretty fucking proud of myself :)

    (and ever grateful for the warmth extended during this odyssey)

    You deserve every bit of that pride in yourself, and more! You've earned it. Congratulations, hedo :joy:
    my small self... like a book amongst the many on a shelf
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    You two :hug:
  • Matts3221
    Matts3221 Posts: 658
    hedonist said:
    I am happy (?) to bump this thread, as today is my official one-year without alcohol.  I typically acknowledge the monthly milestones on the first, but fuck it.  As I told the dear friend who congratulated me this morning, I've earned every day of it.

    As I said to my husband earlier, I may not have avoided the hospital this past year (just got out a few days ago), but I have stayed away from the booze for 365 days.

    So while I may not be in good physical health, I'm pretty fucking proud of myself :)

    (and ever grateful for the warmth extended during this odyssey)


    You deserve to scream for joy at the sky. Seriously no one will ever know how hard it is if they have not been through it. I personal don't know you but you put a smile on my face.

    CONGRATS!

  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Thanks, Matts!  Your smile gave me one :)
  • njnancy
    njnancy Posts: 5,096
    I am so proud of you and so happy for your happiness!!  One year is a long way to travel from your last drink to today and you have been wonderful in expressing yourself  and asking for help or just checking in. I'm glad that you are out of the hospital on your sober anniversary and I hope that your health improves with time, or at least does not get any worse. 

    We need wonderful people like you around here. Happy, happy one year!!! :joy:
  • Fifthelement
    Fifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,965
    Congratulations on one year hedo!  


    Also, congrats to you Mickey.  I missed it when you originally posted.
    "What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Thank you both!  And amen to that, Nancy :prayer:
  • Malroth
    Malroth broken down chevrolet Posts: 2,556
    I am rooting
    The worst of times..they don't phase me,
    even if I look and act really crazy.
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,333
    2nd year is hardest. Chin up though.


    hehehe.

    congrats!!!!
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  • SD48277
    SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    hedonist said:
    I am happy (?) to bump this thread, as today is my official one-year without alcohol.  I typically acknowledge the monthly milestones on the first, but fuck it.  As I told the dear friend who congratulated me this morning, I've earned every day of it.

    As I said to my husband earlier, I may not have avoided the hospital this past year (just got out a few days ago), but I have stayed away from the booze for 365 days.

    So while I may not be in good physical health, I'm pretty fucking proud of myself :)

    (and ever grateful for the warmth extended during this odyssey)
    Have I mentioned recently how awesome I think you are? Congratulations!
    ELITIST FUK
  • Hobbes
    Hobbes Pacific Northwest Posts: 6,438
    Hedo :hug:

    Be proud; I'm proud. I am honored to call you my friend.

    Love. Respect. Gratitude.
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Thank you :lucky:
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,333
    they do say progress not perfection......

    sometimes I still revel in being an asshole. Usually after patience and tolerance  has worn super thin.

    almost permanently losing the privilege (was seeming like that was the case) to post saddened me cuz I wouldnt be able to continue contributing here. This thread is one of the more important things I have done in sobriety, but actions have consequences, dont they.....
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    Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
    memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
    another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Gah, damn anger.  Still working on that damned nut here.

    I'm glad to see you back, mickey.  I would've been very disappointed had you been "gone" for good.
  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,801
    edited June 2019
    And...don't let the Troll get you going.  It is the goal of The Troll to annoy the crap out of everyone until a sharp response is written...and then The Troll goes to the mods to try and get some sort of strange pleasure from reprimands given out.
    The Troll is an odd creation of the internet / modern times.
    The Troll would not be tolerated irl.  Better
    to just set any posters you think are trying to play The Troll to "ignore" and let them try to get under the skin of others.
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,876
    I get annoyed very easily now. And i dont post hardly anywhere  . I dont want to let these people win.


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  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,333
    And...don't let the Troll get you going.  It is the goal of The Troll to annoy the crap out of everyone until a sharp response is written...and then The Troll goes to the mods to try and get some sort of strange pleasure from reprimands given out.
    The Troll is an odd creation of the internet / modern times.
    The Troll would not be tolerated irl.  Better
    to just set any posters you think are trying to play The Troll to "ignore" and let them try to get under the skin of others.
    pre-internet the troll got the shit beat out of him cuz he trolled in person.
    _____________________________________SIGNATURE________________________________________________

    Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
    memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
    another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,333
    hedonist said:
    Gah, damn anger.  Still working on that damned nut here.

    I'm glad to see you back, mickey.  I would've been very disappointed had you been "gone" for good.
    may have to collect contact info, stored elsewhere, in case I lose my mind again....

    no access to pm's on timeout.....
    _____________________________________SIGNATURE________________________________________________

    Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
    memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
    another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,801
    edited June 2019
    mickeyrat said:
    And...don't let the Troll get you going.  It is the goal of The Troll to annoy the crap out of everyone until a sharp response is written...and then The Troll goes to the mods to try and get some sort of strange pleasure from reprimands given out.
    The Troll is an odd creation of the internet / modern times.
    The Troll would not be tolerated irl.  Better
    to just set any posters you think are trying to play The Troll to "ignore" and let them try to get under the skin of others.
    pre-internet the troll got the shit beat out of him cuz he trolled in person.
     Accountability used to be a real thing.
    Post edited by F Me In The Brain on
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