Should I ask Agnes out on a date?
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NoSpiritual_Chaos said:0
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NoFrom his amateur Peeping Tom days. I thought you got rid of that photo album, S_C!0
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YesHas anyone ever seen Bad Dreams? A lot of it is very similar film to ANOES 3: Dream Warriors but without Freddy Krueger. It does have Chainsaw in it from Summer School.
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YesOffSheGoes35 said:
That's a good idea. I'm going to try that. I usually put on a guided meditation video by Thich Nhat Hanh on YouTube.dankind said:I meditate with music, usually 20th century minimalist composers (Glass, Reich, Riley, extended early Pink Floyd jams).
I don't like group therapy for depression or mental health issues, I prefer to have a one on one therapist and also a psychiatrist (to prescribe meds, watch that I'm not having side effects, or if I'm really off the rails). I like group therapy when it comes to AA and other issues where peer to peer support is crucial.
I don't have a therapist or a psychiatrist right now. After having a long term shrink, I went to a practice where one doctor specialized in trauma, and he was great. But about a year in he left to go the VA and I switched doctors 3 times, none of them were really helping and I also was cycled through 3 different therapists so I finally had enough. When someone is dealing with trauma, change is not a good thing. You're starting from scratch every 6 months.
I've searched for someone who is a trauma specialist and it is hard to find one that takes my insurance. I could easily find one if I didn't have a specific need at the moment - as long as I like their vibe and approach, I'm really open.
The longer I go without a doctor, the worse I get cause negativity is easier to feed than light. And this is a new animal, I've learned how to live with my other ones.
Anyway - self affirmation books are really great too. There are gobs of them for all kinds of people/issues. I find that reading a daily meditation and thinking and writing about that thought is helpful in keeping me on track (I just need to get back on the rails. )0 -
YesOffSheGoes35 said:From his amateur Peeping Tom days. I thought you got rid of that photo album, S_C!0
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Yesdankind said:I meditate with music, usually 20th century minimalist composers (Glass, Reich, Riley, extended early Pink Floyd jams).
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Yesbootlegger10 said:dankind said:I meditate with music, usually 20th century minimalist composers (Glass, Reich, Riley, extended early Pink Floyd jams).0
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LongestRoad said:Spiritual_Chaos said:
"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"0 -
YesOffSheGoes35 said:Has anybody tried group therapy, a support group, or a meditation group?Give Peas A Chance…0
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Nobootlegger10 said:dankind said:I meditate with music, usually 20th century minimalist composers (Glass, Reich, Riley, extended early Pink Floyd jams).
Music recommendations are one of the best benefits of posting/lurking here!
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Nonjnancy said:OffSheGoes35 said:
That's a good idea. I'm going to try that. I usually put on a guided meditation video by Thich Nhat Hanh on YouTube.dankind said:I meditate with music, usually 20th century minimalist composers (Glass, Reich, Riley, extended early Pink Floyd jams).
I don't like group therapy for depression or mental health issues, I prefer to have a one on one therapist and also a psychiatrist (to prescribe meds, watch that I'm not having side effects, or if I'm really off the rails). I like group therapy when it comes to AA and other issues where peer to peer support is crucial.
I don't have a therapist or a psychiatrist right now. After having a long term shrink, I went to a practice where one doctor specialized in trauma, and he was great. But about a year in he left to go the VA and I switched doctors 3 times, none of them were really helping and I also was cycled through 3 different therapists so I finally had enough. When someone is dealing with trauma, change is not a good thing. You're starting from scratch every 6 months.
I've searched for someone who is a trauma specialist and it is hard to find one that takes my insurance. I could easily find one if I didn't have a specific need at the moment - as long as I like their vibe and approach, I'm really open.
The longer I go without a doctor, the worse I get cause negativity is easier to feed than light. And this is a new animal, I've learned how to live with my other ones.
Anyway - self affirmation books are really great too. There are gobs of them for all kinds of people/issues. I find that reading a daily meditation and thinking and writing about that thought is helpful in keeping me on track (I just need to get back on the rails. )0 -
NoMeltdown99 said:OffSheGoes35 said:Has anybody tried group therapy, a support group, or a meditation group?0
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YesI did group therapy. It wasn't very good.
this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -0 -
YesMy problem with group is that it seems to lead to deeper depression or an overwhelming desire to help others within your group instead of focus on yourself -- at least if you're an empath.I SAW PEARL JAM0
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dankind said:My problem with group is that it seems to lead to deeper depression or an overwhelming desire to help others within your group instead of focus on yourself -- at least if you're an empath.Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0
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Yesdankind said:My problem with group is that it seems to lead to deeper depression or an overwhelming desire to help others within your group instead of focus on yourself -- at least if you're an empath.
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YesHfD I agree. Empath some us up
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Nodankind said:My problem with group is that it seems to lead to deeper depression or an overwhelming desire to help others within your group instead of focus on yourself -- at least if you're an empath.0
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OffSheGoes35 said:dankind said:My problem with group is that it seems to lead to deeper depression or an overwhelming desire to help others within your group instead of focus on yourself -- at least if you're an empath.
when someone is going through something, some people feel sad that the person feels sad. but when you leave the presence of that person and situation, that sadness stays there and you go on your way. with me, it comes with me. it can sometimes consume me. not in an obsessive way, I'm not sure how to explain it. it feels like it's MY pain. for example: if a friend's mother dies, in addiiton to feeling for them, I am also sad about my own mother dying, even though she's alive and well. it's really strange. and it feels irrational. I actually have to go through the stages of grief for someone I don't even know. it's bizarre, and it is EXHAUSTING.
so the people that I have had to "let go" in my life are those that have constant issues in their life and refuse to help themselves.Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0
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