Should I ask Agnes out on a date?
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YesPJ_Soul said:I go and see movies with guys all the time, and they're not dates. I just had a man over to my place on Friday night and we watched a movie there. He's a friend. Men and women can do stuff platonically. It's only a date if both parties know it's a date, lol.I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0
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NoPJ_Soul said:Probably makes sense for the miserable person to give it a shot, but it's not great to start dating someone who is miserable.Post edited by OffSheGoes35 on0
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Yesmcgruff10 said:Hmmmm interesting. I would assume that would be a date. So spiritual, you watched a movie with this woman, why is it so hard to ask her out? You need me to fly to Sweden to teach you how to talk to women?Dates are romantic affairs. If there isn't any romance, it's just two friends hanging out. Don't you have any female friends?If he's solidly in the friend-zone as far as she is concerned, asking her out could end the friendship. I think that's probably where the concern is....With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata0
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YesPJ_Soul said:Dates are romantic affairs. If there isn't any romance, it's just two friends hanging out. Don't you have any female friends?If he's solidly in the friend-zone as far as she is concerned, asking her out could end the friendship. I think that's probably where the concern is....I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0
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Yesmcgruff10 said:Allie if I told my wife I am going out for a drink or watch a movie with another woman I would probably be calling a divorce lawyer the next day lol. I am friendly with lots of woman at work but I d never meet up with them anywhere alone. That is a recipe for disaster!!
Post edited by PJ_Soul onWith all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata0 -
YesScruffy thinks he has enough game for a “disaster.”
You’re lucky two women have said yes, you big doofus.
Most of my friends are women. My wife has always been OK with that. Some are even exes.I SAW PEARL JAM0 -
Yesdankind said:Scruffy thinks he has enough game for a “disaster.”
You’re lucky two women have said yes, you big doofus.
Most of my friends are women. My wife has always been OK with that. Some are even exes.
You are friends with your exes?! Wow.I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0 -
NoPJ_Soul, it really says a lot about you that you are able to maintain those friendships in such a way. You must be extremely trustworthy and loyal.
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Yesmcgruff10 said:Hmmmm interesting. I would assume that would be a date. So spiritual, you watched a movie with this woman, why is it so hard to ask her out? You need me to fly to Sweden to teach you how to talk to women?"A smart monkey doesn't monkey around with another monkey's monkey" - Darwin's Theory0
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Yesmcgruff10 said:Allie if I told my wife I am going out for a drink or watch a movie with another woman I would probably be calling a divorce lawyer the next day lol. I am friendly with lots of woman at work but I d never meet up with them anywhere alone. That is a recipe for disaster!!
Hanging together alone is a recipe for things to happen."A smart monkey doesn't monkey around with another monkey's monkey" - Darwin's Theory0 -
Yesdankind said:Scruffy thinks he has enough game for a “disaster.”
You’re lucky two women have said yes, you big doofus.
Most of my friends are women. My wife has always been OK with that. Some are even exes.
"A smart monkey doesn't monkey around with another monkey's monkey" - Darwin's Theory0 -
YesI think I'm insecure.
I am friends with my ex wife
My partner is not friends with her ex husband (he mistreated her )
When I was married I had female friends and my partner she had male friends. One of them me.
I no longer think I could handle my wife/partner goimg out with men and likewise I wouldn't want to go out with just women. Uncomfortable for me. My problem I know . But I've seen what can happen. I must stress neither of us have ever cheated . We were with our previous partners 20 plus years. And both separated and friends before we got together.Post edited by lastexitlondon on
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mcgruff10 said:Allie if I told my wife I am going out for a drink or watch a movie with another woman I would probably be calling a divorce lawyer the next day lol. I am friendly with lots of woman at work but I d never meet up with them anywhere alone. That is a recipe for disaster!!
You never had female buddies in like college or whatever?
Is it another US-Sweden cultural difference? ... hehe"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"0 -
Spiritual_Chaos said:People have friends of another gender...
You never had female buddies in like college or whatever?
Is it another US-Sweden cultural difference? ... heheAthens 2006. Dusseldorf 2007. Berlin 2009. Venice 2010. Amsterdam 1 2012. Amsterdam 1+2 2014. Buenos Aires 2015.
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YesSpiritual_Chaos said:People have friends of another gender...
You never had female buddies in like college or whatever?
Is it another US-Sweden cultural difference? ... hehe0 -
YesSpiritual_Chaos said:People have friends of another gender...
You never had female buddies in like college or whatever?
Is it another US-Sweden cultural difference? ... hehe
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YesAnnafalk said:I understand mcgruff10, what he says makes sense to me. If I would go to the movies with one male friend it would be kind of strange towards your partner. It's different if it would be a group of people though.I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0
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PJ_Soul said:Well that sucks. I have many male friends whose wives I'm also friends with. They don't mind their husbands going out with me at all, and it happens regularly. The guy who was over at my place on Friday, just the two of us, is one of my best friends, and his wife is another of my best friends. She was home with their kids. I went out just with her last weekend so he could stay home with the kids. My male friends' wives trust me and their husbands. And there is absolutely no chance whatsoever for disaster. Such a "disaster" is literally impossible because me and my friends would never do such a thing, period.
"Going where the water tastes like wine!"0 -
Nolastexitlondon said:I think I'm insecure.
I am friends with my ex wife
My partner is not friends with her ex husband (he mistreated her )
When I was married I had female friends and my partner she had male friends. One of them me.
I no longer think I could handle my wife/partner goimg out with men and likewise I wouldn't want to go out with just women. Uncomfortable for me. My problem I know . But I've seen what can happen. I must stress neither of us have ever cheated . We were with our previous partners 20 plus years. And both separated and friends before we got together.0 -
Yesdarwinstheory said:I literally just vomited in my mouth.I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0
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