I'll ask tomorrow. But at the same time I don't want to ruin our "share a beer once everY 2 months"-relationship. Either.
Whatever. She'll saY no.
Soooooo? What's the verdict?
I'll ask tonite... Not completely ready for rejection just yet.
Be brave dude!!
I just want to add, to be transparent to this fine group, that I don't really care about being rejected in life or whatever... it's more that we are pretty good friends. That's why it for once in my life feels stupid.
"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
I say use humour . Like said above. Girls in general like a guy who can make them smile or laugh. I'm a fuckin clown. And I have lots of female friends. Be the clown
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I'll ask tomorrow. But at the same time I don't want to ruin our "share a beer once everY 2 months"-relationship. Either.
Whatever. She'll saY no.
Soooooo? What's the verdict?
I'll ask tonite... Not completely ready for rejection just yet.
Be brave dude!!
I just want to add, to be transparent to this fine group, that I don't really care about being rejected in life or whatever... it's more that we are pretty good friends. That's why it for once in my life feels stupid.
Do you have a mutual friend who can act as a go-between? Someone who can feel her out, so you wouldn't have to worry about weirdness if she just wants to stay friends?
Fake your own death and see how emotional she is at your phony funeral. This is your only reasonable option to keep the friendship if she doesn't have those feelings for you.
Or, you could tell her a story that you have this friend who has been hanging out with this girl every once in a while and wants to ask her out. He is concerned though if she says no it could make things awkward. If she says he should go for it, then you bust out "well, this friend was actually me" and then you are golden from there. Is she says no than your friend is stuck. Another foolproof plan from the Bootlegger.
Fake your own death and see how emotional she is at your phony funeral. This is your only reasonable option to keep the friendship if she doesn't have those feelings for you.
Now this made me laugh. Very good
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I'll ask tomorrow. But at the same time I don't want to ruin our "share a beer once everY 2 months"-relationship. Either.
Whatever. She'll saY no.
Soooooo? What's the verdict?
I'll ask tonite... Not completely ready for rejection just yet.
Be brave dude!!
I just want to add, to be transparent to this fine group, that I don't really care about being rejected in life or whatever... it's more that we are pretty good friends. That's why it for once in my life feels stupid.
Do you have a mutual friend who can act as a go-between? Someone who can feel her out, so you wouldn't have to worry about weirdness if she just wants to stay friends?
Final idea from the Bootlegger: Print out this message board thread for Agnes to read. And then after she reads it and looks up, you have your arms out Peter Griffin style and say a couple times, "come on.....come on...". See clip below as I cannot upload memes or photos.
I'll ask tomorrow. But at the same time I don't want to ruin our "share a beer once everY 2 months"-relationship. Either.
Whatever. She'll saY no.
Soooooo? What's the verdict?
I'll ask tonite... Not completely ready for rejection just yet.
I have been Agnes in this kind of scenario, and I can guarantee you that asking now is far better than not asking, or waiting indefinitely because you fear rejection. That will not end well, I promise.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
I'll ask tomorrow. But at the same time I don't want to ruin our "share a beer once everY 2 months"-relationship. Either.
Whatever. She'll saY no.
Soooooo? What's the verdict?
I'll ask tonite... Not completely ready for rejection just yet.
I have been Agnes in this kind of scenario, and I can guarantee you that asking now is far better than not asking, or waiting indefinitely because you fear rejection. That will not end well, I promise.
Just wanna point out, I just have a little "why not, she's cute and fun" crush. I'm not:
The only thing more romantic than creating a poll in a girl's honor is the "why not, she's cute and fun" sentiment...like you're hitting on someone in an orphanage.
The only thing more romantic than creating a poll in a girl's honor is the "why not, she's cute and fun" sentiment...like you're hitting on someone in an orphanage.
Good point.
Sounds like you've known her for years S_C, and you've only gotten to the "cute and fun, why not?" stage... maybe she's not for you after all...
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
The only thing more romantic than creating a poll in a girl's honor is the "why not, she's cute and fun" sentiment...like you're hitting on someone in an orphanage.
Good point.
Sounds like you've known her for years S_C, and you've only gotten to the "cute and fun, why not?" stage... maybe she's not for you after all...
Maybe not. But she was open to watching A Nightmare on Elm Street. And at 34 and miserable -- THATS GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME!
And yeah, I studied with her for two years. And after that we've kept in touch. She even tried to get me a job at her agency. So she's cool.
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"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
The only thing more romantic than creating a poll in a girl's honor is the "why not, she's cute and fun" sentiment...like you're hitting on someone in an orphanage.
Good point.
Sounds like you've known her for years S_C, and you've only gotten to the "cute and fun, why not?" stage... maybe she's not for you after all...
Maybe not. But she was open to watching A Nightmare on Elm Street. And at 34 and miserable -- THATS GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME!
And yeah, I studied with her for two years. And after that we've kept in touch. She even tried to get me a job at her agency. So she's cool.
Wait, the two of you watched a movie alone? That s a date in my experience.
The only thing more romantic than creating a poll in a girl's honor is the "why not, she's cute and fun" sentiment...like you're hitting on someone in an orphanage.
Good point.
Sounds like you've known her for years S_C, and you've only gotten to the "cute and fun, why not?" stage... maybe she's not for you after all...
Maybe not. But she was open to watching A Nightmare on Elm Street. And at 34 and miserable -- THATS GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME!
And yeah, I studied with her for two years. And after that we've kept in touch. She even tried to get me a job at her agency. So she's cool.
Wait, the two of you watched a movie alone? That s a date in my experience.
I go and see movies with guys all the time, and they're not dates. I just had a man over to my place on Friday night and we watched a movie there. He's a friend. Men and women can do stuff platonically. It's only a date if both parties know it's a date, lol.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
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Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.
I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.
I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
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A handsome greek man said I am wise. It doesn't get any better than that! I should visit this place more often.
Or, you could tell her a story that you have this friend who has been hanging out with this girl every once in a while and wants to ask her out. He is concerned though if she says no it could make things awkward. If she says he should go for it, then you bust out "well, this friend was actually me" and then you are golden from there. Is she says no than your friend is stuck. Another foolproof plan from the Bootlegger.
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hartford 06
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nijmegen 07
this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.
I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
Final idea from the Bootlegger: Print out this message board thread for Agnes to read. And then after she reads it and looks up, you have your arms out Peter Griffin style and say a couple times, "come on.....come on...". See clip below as I cannot upload memes or photos.
I am single handily ruining your thread. I apologize.
I have been Agnes in this kind of scenario, and I can guarantee you that asking now is far better than not asking, or waiting indefinitely because you fear rejection. That will not end well, I promise.
And yeah, I studied with her for two years. And after that we've kept in touch. She even tried to get me a job at her agency. So she's cool.
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But like PJSoul saYs , I have several female friends Ive watched films etc with