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  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,895
    I have to assume there were more problems than just this one instance of her staying out without calling.
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    PJ_Soul said:
    I have to assume there were more problems than just this one instance of her staying out without calling.
    Yeah it seems that way...
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,895
    Breaks ups suck, sorry man.
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,017
    Its so hard when one person moves on before the other. Pain. Pain. Pain


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    edited March 2018
    PJ_Soul said:
    Breaks ups suck, sorry man.

    Thank you...but what I described happened while we were together...and yes Break ups do suck...and being treated like shit during the relationship also suck...
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,017
    I can only say if thats how she treated you . In time you will realise she is wrong for you


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,017
    As glen hansard says ... time will be the healer


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    lastexitlondon said:
    I can only say if thats how she treated you . In time you will realise she is wrong for you
    Thank you very much for your kind words...very wise words :)
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,895
    edited March 2018
    i_lov_it said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Breaks ups suck, sorry man.

    Thank you...but what I described happened while we were together...and yes Break ups do suck...and being treated like shit during the relationship also suck...
    Yeah, gotcha (I can't comment too much, as partying with a bunch of Irishmen until 5am sounds like something I would do, lol. Although I would certainly call my live-in BF to say I was going to be really late! That's the part where she fucked up!).
    Yes, being treated like shit in relationships sucks too. I've had a few doozies in my time. It can really turn your life upside down.... especially when the break up happens, for some reason. Break ups often aren't any easier, or maybe even harder, when the relationship has been a roller coaster ride... Especially because that situation tend to lead to messier break ups with more turbulent emotions.
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,017
    You can't be a door matt . No matter how much you feel an attraction to someone. Can i ask how old you are?


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    edited March 2018
    lastexitlondon said:
    You can't be a door matt . No matter how much you feel an attraction to someone. Can i ask how old you are?
    That's exactly right something I'm trying to work on...I'm in in my late 30's
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    PJ_Soul said:
    i_lov_it said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Breaks ups suck, sorry man.

    Thank you...but what I described happened while we were together...and yes Break ups do suck...and being treated like shit during the relationship also suck...
    Yeah, gotcha (I can't comment too much, as partying with a bunch of Irishmen until 5am sounds like something I would do, lol. Although I would certainly call my live-in BF to say I was going to be really late! That's the part where she fucked up!).
    Yes, being treated like shit in relationships sucks too. I've had a few doozies in my time. It can really turn your life upside down.... especially when the break up happens, for some reason. Break ups often aren't any easier, or maybe even harder, when the relationship has been a roller coaster ride... Especially because that situation tend to lead to messier break ups with more turbulent emotions.

    I understand what you are saying :)
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,017
    Release me. Ffs Release me


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • Meltdown99
    Meltdown99 None Of Your Business... Posts: 10,739
    lastexitlondon said:
    You can't be a door matt . No matter how much you feel an attraction to someone. Can i ask how old you are?
    This is exactly right...you can not let someone use you a doormat...


    Give Peas A Chance…
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,017
    I need more help than i can get. Today i saw a new person. Im not sure her title. But i can't get through to any of them . Im loosing my memory and the confusion is at a level i can't get through a day. Im now faced with rotting away and being an absolute bind on my partner. I told this lady im close to ending it all. 
    They all say oh its just a bad patch . You will get better nobody is listening  so far out of my depth . If not for love i would be drowning.  


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    Meltdown99 said:
    lastexitlondon said:
    You can't be a door matt . No matter how much you feel an attraction to someone. Can i ask how old you are?
    This is exactly right...you can not let someone use you a doormat...



    Exactly...it took me awhile too relise...
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    edited March 2018
    lastexitlondon said:
    I need more help than i can get. Today i saw a new person. Im not sure her title. But i can't get through to any of them . Im loosing my memory and the confusion is at a level i can't get through a day. Im now faced with rotting away and being an absolute bind on my partner. I told this lady im close to ending it all. 
    They all say oh its just a bad patch . You will get better nobody is listening  so far out of my depth . If not for love i would be drowning.  

    I'm sorry to hear what you're going through...I hope you get better and find a way out of feeling like this...
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  • Meltdown99
    Meltdown99 None Of Your Business... Posts: 10,739
    i_lov_it said:
    Meltdown99 said:
    lastexitlondon said:
    You can't be a door matt . No matter how much you feel an attraction to someone. Can i ask how old you are?
    This is exactly right...you can not let someone use you a doormat...



    Exactly...it took me awhile too relise...
    I’m in your situation now ... I feel I’m being used a doormat.  Which is why I prefer less people in my life.  Good luck to you....
    Give Peas A Chance…
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,017
    Is anyone here in England?


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • Annafalk
    Annafalk Sweden Posts: 4,004
    lastexitlondon said:
    I need more help than i can get. Today i saw a new person. Im not sure her title. But i can't get through to any of them . Im loosing my memory and the confusion is at a level i can't get through a day. Im now faced with rotting away and being an absolute bind on my partner. I told this lady im close to ending it all. 
    They all say oh its just a bad patch . You will get better nobody is listening  so far out of my depth . If not for love i would be drowning.  
    I wonder if you can focus on something that gives you strength. Like something you can hold on to when the wind gets rough. A positive thought, something strong, filled with love. And maybe you can start to build from there so you get stronger and stronger.  
    Im sorry if it sounds fuzzy or strange but I’m just typing my thoughts. Strength to you friend.

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