Pearl Jam turned Better Man into a cream puff song

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  • dwhite76
    dwhite76 Posts: 2,801
    Big Bank Hank wrote:
    Ty wrote:
    All red and angry about people enjoying a song, doing what they did for "Alive"... build a bridge, Dude! A very odd and angry post. Take a chill pill. And there ain't too much positive about the other songs you listed... :fp:
    lets see one song is a bout a kid who didn't get to know his father, however that was something he overcame, but that was his own inner struggle, I use to see Better Man for what it was speaking out against domestic violence, and I always thought it was an advocacy for that, yeah lets end domestic violence, and it was one of my favorite Pearl Jam songs, now it's current form, and the way people sing the lyrics hollow, with no sense of what the song is really about, just sad, go ahead and sing it if you want and celebrate women getting the crap out of them, because is what the song is about, I guess if you never grew up around it, then of course you wouldn't get it


    I think you totally forgot the Alive also refers to the moms sick incestual love for the kid. Yes Eddie described Alive as that being apart of the meaning of the song too. Then again Ed has said a lot of things.
    I don't think he wanted us to take his meaning of a song as our own. PJ wants us to interpret music into our own way. Sometimes it helps us heal, cry, and even get pissed off. One of the main reasons they wont do videos.
    Some words when spoken...Can't be taken back...
  • TroubledSoul
    TroubledSoul Posts: 1,374
    You lost me when you said we should celebrate "positive songs.. ..like black".
    Yeh I've seen Pearl Jam, too. But I can't remember the dates.
  • dwhite76
    dwhite76 Posts: 2,801
    TroubledSoul wrote:
    You lost me when you said we should celebrate "positive songs.. ..like black".


    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
    Some words when spoken...Can't be taken back...
  • danny
    danny Posts: 2,283
    great song!
    danny d
  • ckravitz
    ckravitz NJ Posts: 1,668
    Ty wrote:
    All red and angry about people enjoying a song, doing what they did for "Alive"... build a bridge, Dude! A very odd and angry post. Take a chill pill. And there ain't too much positive about the other songs you listed... :fp:

    Seriously.
  • ckravitz
    ckravitz NJ Posts: 1,668
    ForceofNature101 wrote:
    The version from MSG II in 2010 is my favorite, the crowd singing along is what makes it for me

    I don't see it as trivializing the meaning of the tune but rather the unification of the crowd by singing along to a song they love from a band they love who is playing right in front of their eyes.

    I mean it looks obvious that Eddie himself loves it when the crowd sings along, that pretty much speaks for itself

    Well said.
  • Dr. Delight
    Dr. Delight Posts: 11,210
    Bonkers.
    And so you see, I have come to doubt
    All that I once held as true
    I stand alone without beliefs
    The only truth I know is you.
  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 27,165
    Can I wear a Pearl Jam T-Shirt, when I sing along to this song, while at a concert?
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • badbrains
    badbrains Posts: 10,255
    Ty wrote:
    Only clicked on this in hope that Puscifer had covered Better Man.

    Hahahahaha I wonder how Maynard would sound! :corn:
  • badbrains
    badbrains Posts: 10,255
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    Can I wear a Pearl Jam T-Shirt, when I sing along to this song, while at a concert?

    Who gives a rats ass what speedy wears!!!!!
  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 27,165
    badbrains wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    Can I wear a Pearl Jam T-Shirt, when I sing along to this song, while at a concert?

    Who gives a rats ass what speedy wears!!!!!
    Good Point.
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • Empty Glass
    Empty Glass In Rob's shed Posts: 12,329
    seems like the older fans who are always up front can't win. They get blamed for "just standing" there throughout the show and when they do "rock out", they choose the one Pearl Jam tune you shouldn't dance too :lol:
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  • pandora
    pandora Posts: 21,855
    I cringe when I hear young men sing the song ...
    especially 'as he looks her over' seems to be a favorite line for some,
    a little over zealous.
    It's my least favorite song but the one I can do the best karaoke, ironic.

    I keep in mind everyone can be a Betterman ... person.
  • EdsonNascimento
    EdsonNascimento Posts: 5,531
    But in exposing abuse, couldn't you say the song is a celebration of those that have risen above and give hope to those that feel helpless? I mean c'mon. You could interpret the freaking song a million ways. And none of it goes to folks singing along promoting violence. If that's the case, then couldn't you argue that's what Eddie was doing when he wrote the damn thing in the first place?

    I think you may need to step back from your keyboard for a bit. Now I need message board jockeys' permission to sing at concerts. :roll:
    Sorry. The world doesn't work the way you tell it to.
  • lyears
    lyears Posts: 212
    edited February 2013
    Eddie Vedder to the crowd at Hyde Park before Betterman: "You feel like taking this one?"

    He is encouraging the crowd to sing. So I don't think there is room for any moral high ground here!
    Hyde Park 25/06/10 - Manchester 20/06/12 - Leeds 08/07/14
  • Big Bank Hank
    Big Bank Hank Seattle, WA Posts: 8,639
    EdsonNascimento wrote:
    But in exposing abuse, couldn't you say the song is a celebration of those that have risen above and give hope to those that feel helpless? I mean c'mon. You could interpret the freaking song a million ways. And none of it goes to folks singing along promoting violence. If that's the case, then couldn't you argue that's what Eddie was doing when he wrote the damn thing in the first place?

    I think you may need to step back from your keyboard for a bit. Now I need message board jockeys' permission to sing at concerts. :roll:
    nope, not at all, all I am saying is think about the the lyrics, I have said that throughout the thread, don't be one of these idiot chicks on Twitter who think it is a love song, if you know the meaning of the song and still want to sing it, cool, the main point of this thread was to bring to light the actual meaning of the song which has been lost, and to get people to think, not saying don't sing, go ahead and sing, just remember there are women in this world who are still getting the crap beat out of them and that was Eddie's original intention was to bring that to light when he wrote that song we should never lose sight of that fact, so sing, but never forget
  • EdsonNascimento
    EdsonNascimento Posts: 5,531
    Big Bank Hank wrote:
    EdsonNascimento wrote:
    But in exposing abuse, couldn't you say the song is a celebration of those that have risen above and give hope to those that feel helpless? I mean c'mon. You could interpret the freaking song a million ways. And none of it goes to folks singing along promoting violence. If that's the case, then couldn't you argue that's what Eddie was doing when he wrote the damn thing in the first place?

    I think you may need to step back from your keyboard for a bit. Now I need message board jockeys' permission to sing at concerts. :roll:
    nope, not at all, all I am saying is think about the the lyrics, I have said that throughout the thread, don't be one of these idiot chicks on Twitter who think it is a love song, if you know the meaning of the song and still want to sing it, cool, the main point of this thread was to bring to light the actual meaning of the song which has been lost, and to get people to think, not saying don't sing, go ahead and sing, just remember there are women in this world who are still getting the crap beat out of them and that was Eddie's original intention was to bring that to light when he wrote that song we should never lose sight of that fact, so sing, but never forget

    Relax with the font. You don't need to be the lyrics meaning police. I mean, have you ever heard of folks using Every Breath You Take as their WEDDING song? I mean if that's not the dumbest thing, what is? A song about a stalker being used as a WEDDING song. Yet, 10's of thousands of idiots did that in the 90s.

    You can't police stupidity. If this is your biggest concern in that realm, than you're missing a whole wide world of it.
    Sorry. The world doesn't work the way you tell it to.
  • EdsonNascimento
    EdsonNascimento Posts: 5,531
    And BTW, I find your choice of words in your thread title amazingly ironic considering the soap box you're standing on. :lol:
    Sorry. The world doesn't work the way you tell it to.
  • Big Bank Hank
    Big Bank Hank Seattle, WA Posts: 8,639
    EdsonNascimento wrote:
    And BTW, I find your choice of words in your thread title amazingly ironic considering the soap box you're standing on. :lol:
    BTW, off topic, I was always a big Pele' fan
  • rival.
    rival. Chicago Posts: 7,775
    :crazy:

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