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  • SD48277
    SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    The date got moved to tonight. Rushed home from work, shaved, dressed nice and freshened up. She suggested tonight but was still ok with tomorrow. Less than 1 hr to go. Wish me luck! We are dining as well.
    Good luck!! You are going to do better than you imagine. Looking forward to hearing how things went.
    ELITIST FUK
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Went really well guys/girls. We were there for almost 3 hrs time flew. She can talk so the evening barely went without silence and I didn't have to worry about topics it all just flowed. We actually didn't even have coffee. Dinner and wine. I paid and walked her safely to her car in the dark side street. She drove me to my car and we said bye with a kiss on the cheek. She said she will pay for the next time, I didn't even suggest a next time (does that mean she likes me?).
    She was happy and bubbly all night which put me at ease.

    So yeah will most likely see her at the movies with others on Monday night.
    Will text her tomorrow to tell her I had a great time and say something like "should do it again soon".

    A big thank you to all for your kind advice. You are all amazing. :)
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 27,073
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    Went really well guys/girls. We were there for almost 3 hrs time flew. She can talk so the evening barely went without silence and I didn't have to worry about topics it all just flowed. We actually didn't even have coffee. Dinner and wine. I paid and walked her safely to her car in the dark side street. She drove me to my car and we said bye with a kiss on the cheek. She said she will pay for the next time, I didn't even suggest a next time (does that mean she likes me?).
    She was happy and bubbly all night which put me at ease.

    So yeah will most likely see her at the movies with others on Monday night.
    Will text her tomorrow to tell her I had a great time and say something like "should do it again soon".

    A big thank you to all for your kind advice. You are all amazing. :)
    I like Happy Endings!

    I am glad to hear you had a GREAT TIME!
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  • SD48277
    SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    Went really well guys/girls. We were there for almost 3 hrs time flew. She can talk so the evening barely went without silence and I didn't have to worry about topics it all just flowed. We actually didn't even have coffee. Dinner and wine. I paid and walked her safely to her car in the dark side street. She drove me to my car and we said bye with a kiss on the cheek. She said she will pay for the next time, I didn't even suggest a next time (does that mean she likes me?).
    She was happy and bubbly all night which put me at ease.

    So yeah will most likely see her at the movies with others on Monday night.
    Will text her tomorrow to tell her I had a great time and say something like "should do it again soon".

    A big thank you to all for your kind advice. You are all amazing. :)
    WooHoo!!!
    Yes, she likes you! Glad to hear everything went well. :D
    ELITIST FUK
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    There was no flirty kind of chat or sexual spark. I didn't go that path too shy. I just let it flow. Take it slow I guess no rush.
    Hope she wants to see me as more than a friend. Time will tell.
    How long should I wait before asking her out again? Need the fine line before too soon and too late.

    Thanks once again guys. :)
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • afroannnie
    afroannnie Posts: 12,995
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    Went really well guys/girls. We were there for almost 3 hrs time flew. She can talk so the evening barely went without silence and I didn't have to worry about topics it all just flowed. We actually didn't even have coffee. Dinner and wine. I paid and walked her safely to her car in the dark side street. She drove me to my car and we said bye with a kiss on the cheek. She said she will pay for the next time, I didn't even suggest a next time (does that mean she likes me?).
    She was happy and bubbly all night which put me at ease.

    So yeah will most likely see her at the movies with others on Monday night.
    Will text her tomorrow to tell her I had a great time and say something like "should do it again soon".

    A big thank you to all for your kind advice. You are all amazing. :)

    :clap: :clap: Good for you! Sounds like you had a nice time! :D
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  • pjfan31
    pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    Went really well guys/girls. We were there for almost 3 hrs time flew. She can talk so the evening barely went without silence and I didn't have to worry about topics it all just flowed. We actually didn't even have coffee. Dinner and wine. I paid and walked her safely to her car in the dark side street. She drove me to my car and we said bye with a kiss on the cheek. She said she will pay for the next time, I didn't even suggest a next time (does that mean she likes me?).
    She was happy and bubbly all night which put me at ease.

    So yeah will most likely see her at the movies with others on Monday night.
    Will text her tomorrow to tell her I had a great time and say something like "should do it again soon".

    A big thank you to all for your kind advice. You are all amazing. :)


    I am very happy for youu...

    I think the text tomorrow is a good idea... Can't stand this whole 'game' where some people say to wait etc... Just don't do it too early in the day or too late...

    Yes, I say she does like you... Well done...
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  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,726
    great to read that...thats good things to happen..
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
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  • MayDay10
    MayDay10 Posts: 11,899
    I think the move here is to not go to movie night.
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,726
    MayDay10 wrote:
    I think the move here is to not go to movie night.
    i agree
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • Paulina87
    Paulina87 Poland Posts: 3,303
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    MayDay10 wrote:
    I think the move here is to not go to movie night.
    i agree

    why not? you should go to that movie nigt. It will sound fake now if you say you don't have time to come or sth.

    Anyway, good to hear that all went well :thumbup:
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  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,726
    Paulina87 wrote:
    why not? you should go to that movie nigt. It will sound fake now if you say you don't have time to come or sth.
    thats not what im saying..
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
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  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    8-)

    i'm glad you had a great time.

    but i also want to be on record here...

    the next time you are stressing over asking a girl out or not, think about tonight and think about the good time you would have missed....
    81 is now off the air

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  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 27,073
    81 wrote:
    8-)

    i'm glad you had a great time.

    but i also want to be on record here...

    the next time you are stressing over asking a girl out or not, think about tonight and think about the good time you would have missed....

    Exactly...

    Females are like Bowel Movements...
    Another one will come by, at the same time tomorrow.

    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • zagi
    zagi Posts: 414
    :clap: great all went well, glad for you thoughts
    also, love the way this community works!

    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    Females are like Bowel Movements...
    Another one will come by, at the same time tomorrow.
    :nono: :nono: couldn't you use bus or something
    and what about constipation ?! :lol:
  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 27,073
    zagi wrote:
    :clap: great all went well, glad for you thoughts
    also, love the way this community works!

    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    Females are like Bowel Movements...
    Another one will come by, at the same time tomorrow.
    :nono: :nono: couldn't you use bus or something
    and what about constipation ?! :lol:
    Females are like Hemmoroids?
    A Great Big Pain In The Ass?
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • Black Diamond
    Black Diamond Posts: 25,109
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    zagi wrote:
    :clap: great all went well, glad for you thoughts
    also, love the way this community works!

    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    Females are like Bowel Movements...
    Another one will come by, at the same time tomorrow.
    :nono: :nono: couldn't you use bus or something
    and what about constipation ?! :lol:
    Females are like Hemmoroids?
    A Great Big Pain In The Ass?
    :lol::lol::lol:
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  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 27,073
    Black Diamond wrote:

    :lol::lol::lol:
    Oh, to be single again.
    My pockets would JINGLE again!

    :lol::lol::lol:
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • zagi
    zagi Posts: 414
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    Females are like Hemmoroids?
    A Great Big Pain In The Ass?
    :fp: :fp:
    some more than others, but i guess sometimes you can't help it :D
  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 27,073
    Women are like monkeys...
    Prior to 1920, neither had the right to vote.
    Monkeys still dont.


    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....

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