Thanks to all and an update on my wife

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  • sickgirl
    sickgirl Posts: 139
    Thinking about you guys and sending lots of hugs, well wishes, and all of the best! Hope things keep going in the right direction :)
    Fuck Cancer, fucking jerk
  • StillHere
    StillHere Posts: 7,795
    paysonites wrote:
    Good afternoon,

    I can't believe how fast everything is going right now. There's just not enough time in the day. I'll have some time tonight for another update. Shawna's staples are out and she is doing okay right now. Thank you for all of your love and inspiration. I'm looking forward to getting on here later. Have a great day.....

    John and Shawna.

    so glad to hear it
    i hope this is the final leg on your convoluted journey to health and happiness :D
    peace,
    jo

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  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,838
    What Jo said!

    :D

    Lets hope for a strong finish to the week!
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • Chief Broom
    Chief Broom Posts: 2,036
    Sounds like everything went well today! :mrgreen:
    So happy to hear it. You guys pop into my thoughts at random times throughout the day, and it's hard not to run to check for updates right then.
    I look forward to reading tonight's! ;)
    By the way, were you able to figure out your 10club renewal?
    If not, I'd like to take care of it for you. Let me know. ;)
    Peace and love!
    MLMF Det
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    MUCH LOVE....
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    paysonites wrote:
    RKCNDY wrote:
    Just checking in with you...I'm so glad Shawna is feeling so much better!

    May the coming days be filled with healing strength and everlasting happiness.

    This has been a very tough evening. I'm pretty close to taking her to the E.R. So thank you for your beautiful thoughts. Believe me when I say that it goes straight to the heart and soul. It is so amazing to have such wonderful people express so much warmness and thoughtfulness.

    Emotions are high and I can't express enough how much I appreciate the kindness. :)
    Live with much love through the music and the years.

    Humbled and taken back with inspiration.....

    John
    for you and your wife

    :D:D

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkKwS55PH7E

    a song I love to listen to...just a happy song, and meaningful

    Thanks a lot. We've never heard of this guy but he was a lot of fun to listen to. We appreciated the link. :)
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    paysonites wrote:
    Happy Father's Day to our extended Jamily

    Happy Father's Day is difficult under these circumstances but you're a remarkable father and deserve recognition for that.

    I am really sorry to hear about Shawna's set back after experiencing pain free days following the surgery.
    I hope it's just a part of the healing process. The highs and lows your family is going though has got to be overwhelming and exhausting.

    I am wishing the best for you.

    Good afternoon,

    Sorry it took so long to respond. Yes the highs and lows are very difficult. Shawna's complaining about her leg for the very first time since the surgery. We can only hope that it is part of the healing process. Thank you so much for your well wishes and continued support. It means the world to us.

    John and Shawna
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Birgit wrote:
    I sincerely hope that you will all feel better again soon. So sad to hear this after the awesome news. Sending love, strength and positive thoughts your way!

    Thank you for your positive thoughts. We can really use them right now.
    John and Shawna
  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    I know that you two will continue to find the strength you need to get through this, because you two are far stronger than you realize. Keep your heads up. Wishing you both all the best...

    Matt
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  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Here is an amazing quote from the tv show Scrubs.

    "But in the end the most important thing to accept is that no matter how alone you feel, how painful it can be, with the help of those around you, you'll get through this too."

    Thanks for sharing this with us. There's no way we would of made it without you guy's by our side. It used to make me really sad to know that in the very beginning we did have some support from our church, neighbors and such but over time everyone quickly faded out.

    It doesn't bother me as much anymore. The love, strength and support that has continued through all of you which is now well over a year is breath taking. You all will never completely understand how much you truly have helped us. With your strength and kindness there is no longer that gap, that emptiness. This life will eventually get better for us. Even on the worst of day's we still have faith that it will all work out in the end.

    Thanks John and Shawna
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    sickgirl wrote:
    Thinking about you guys and sending lots of hugs, well wishes, and all of the best! Hope things keep going in the right direction :)

    Thank you that means a lot right now. Shawna and I were up until 4:45 this morning dealing with the pain issues. Thanks for your support.

    John and Shawna
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    StillHere wrote:
    paysonites wrote:
    Good afternoon,

    I can't believe how fast everything is going right now. There's just not enough time in the day. I'll have some time tonight for another update. Shawna's staples are out and she is doing okay right now. Thank you for all of your love and inspiration. I'm looking forward to getting on here later. Have a great day.....

    John and Shawna.

    so glad to hear it
    i hope this is the final leg on your convoluted journey to health and happiness :D

    Thank you so much Jo. You are so good to us.
    John and Shawna
  • Pamela0222
    Pamela0222 Posts: 1,544
    Hugs to you both!!! I also hope that there is some peace and rest in the near future. God knows you both deserve it!
    The thing I like most about time is that it's not real. It's all in the head. Sure, it's a useful trick to use if you want to meet someone at a specific place in the universe and have tea or coffee- but that's all it is- a trick. There is no such thing as the past. It exists only in the memory. There is no such thing as the future. It exists only in our imagination. If our watches were truly accurate, the only thing they would ever say is "Now". That's what time it is. It's "Now". - Damien Echols
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    mfc2006 wrote:
    I know that you two will continue to find the strength you need to get through this, because you two are far stronger than you realize. Keep your heads up. Wishing you both all the best...

    Matt

    Thanks for your continued support. We appreciate it more than you know. :)
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Pamela0222 wrote:
    Hugs to you both!!! I also hope that there is some peace and rest in the near future. God knows you both deserve it!

    Well my wife deserves it but I on the other hand am fighting to just keep up. I can't rest with all the bills piling up. Plus one of our son's has some feet problems to where he has to where braces. That's been a battle in itself just trying to get his doctors and techs to do there jobs. After literally 14 phone calls and 5 months later I finally got his new ones fitted and ordered. I just can't seem to keep up lately. Our kids are nothing less than total blessings. It's just me. I'm worn thin and there is just so much to do. I am basically feeling like a wreck today. I know you didn't plan for this response. Sorry...I guess I needed to vent or something.

    Thank you for your support.
    John
    John and Shawna
  • sickgirl
    sickgirl Posts: 139
    don't apologize for venting, or for feeling anything you feel. I used to play this song in the car for my mom, she loved it. We would sing our hearts out. Others have shared songs, so I thought I would share this one
    http://youtu.be/pAoao9FkHwE
    Fuck Cancer, fucking jerk
  • ItIsAllAboutPJ
    ItIsAllAboutPJ S.B., CA Posts: 829
    paysonites wrote:

    Well my wife deserves it but I on the other hand am fighting to just keep up. I can't rest with all the bills piling up. Plus one of our son's has some feet problems to where he has to where braces. That's been a battle in itself just trying to get his doctors and techs to do there jobs. After literally 14 phone calls and 5 months later I finally got his new ones fitted and ordered. I just can't seem to keep up lately. Our kids are nothing less than total blessings. It's just me. I'm worn thin and there is just so much to do. I am basically feeling like a wreck today. I know you didn't plan for this response. Sorry...I guess I needed to vent or something.

    Thank you for your support.
    John

    I'm really sorry to hear about your son. :(
    Don't worry about venting, this is a safe place to do it.
    Things seem so overwhelming right now but you're able to get done what need to get done in order to get by. That has to be good enough for now even though I'm sure it's not up to your standards.

    I hope things will get easier for you soon...
    Take care, XO K.
  • Pamela0222
    Pamela0222 Posts: 1,544
    Vent away John..... It's needed and understandable to do at times!! You WILL ALL pull through this, I have no doubt. You're strength should be a lesson to all, I am in awe of it!!

    We've ALL got your back here, and tons of shoulder to cry/vent on whenever you want.

    XO to your ENTIRE family!
    The thing I like most about time is that it's not real. It's all in the head. Sure, it's a useful trick to use if you want to meet someone at a specific place in the universe and have tea or coffee- but that's all it is- a trick. There is no such thing as the past. It exists only in the memory. There is no such thing as the future. It exists only in our imagination. If our watches were truly accurate, the only thing they would ever say is "Now". That's what time it is. It's "Now". - Damien Echols
  • redrock
    redrock Posts: 18,341
    Thoughts with Shawna, you and the kids - always, even if not posting! Hope today is a good day. xxx
  • Deadlogic
    Deadlogic Posts: 69
    Best of luck to you all.