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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    RKCNDY wrote:
    chadwick wrote:
    why would you show everyone in your immediate workplace friend zone after getting such a date request? this is not good.

    I think most guys like to brag..."hey look! some random chick emailed me and asked me to go for coffee!"

    or he could be an ass, "look, some random chick asked me out..." ***laughs with his buddies and then scratches his crotch***

    (yes, us women think of all these ridiculous scenarios)

    Right!

    But see, when I tell my friends about guys it's more like, "I'm so excited about this awesome guy!" :)
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    RKCNDY wrote:
    chadwick wrote:
    why would you show everyone in your immediate workplace friend zone after getting such a date request? this is not good.

    I think most guys like to brag..."hey look! some random chick emailed me and asked me to go for coffee!"

    or he could be an ass, "look, some random chick asked me out..." ***laughs with his buddies and then scratches his crotch***

    (yes, us women think of all these ridiculous scenarios)

    yeah but this guy seems to be 'mr. sensitive pony-tail guy' so i doubt he'd do that

    that or he gets this all the time and is jaded and ignores it

    ;):lol:
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    norm wrote:

    yeah but this guy seems to be 'mr. sensitive pony-tail guy' so i doubt he'd do that

    that or he gets this all the time and is jaded and ignores it

    ;):lol:

    this is NOT the movie 'Singles' and _ is not 'Janet'...well maybe she is...

    Does he look like 'Mr. Sensitive ponytail guy'?
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    _ wrote:
    Just because my good friends know all my business. That's the kind of relationship we have. If something exciting happens in my life, I tell them - and I would be excited to get such an email.

    ETA: Does this mean you won't kick his ass if he does it? :(

    ETAA: I'm really talking about two different things, though. I wouldn't show anyone to be malicious. But who knows if other people would.
    i can't say this is a good idea so i will not.

    in my opinion...life is lived like a double agent or something. nobody knows dick. and the ones who are friends, even they are kept in the dark about a lot of stuff. you cannot sell pot marijuana and get by with it forever when you talk and show everyone your cash and your trash bags fulla bud. no. be the small guy whose runnin low and has a few tiny scraps of bud. this just an example, the best i could mustar up, what with the current weather forecast and thumbs hurting and knees blown out and great Egyptian meditation music soothing minds around the globe.


    :lolno:
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    RKCNDY wrote:
    norm wrote:

    yeah but this guy seems to be 'mr. sensitive pony-tail guy' so i doubt he'd do that

    that or he gets this all the time and is jaded and ignores it

    ;):lol:

    this is NOT the movie 'Singles' and _ is not 'Janet'...well maybe she is...

    Does he look like 'Mr. Sensitive ponytail guy'?

    phew! i'm glad someone got that :lol:
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    norm wrote:
    RKCNDY wrote:
    norm wrote:

    yeah but this guy seems to be 'mr. sensitive pony-tail guy' so i doubt he'd do that

    that or he gets this all the time and is jaded and ignores it

    ;):lol:

    this is NOT the movie 'Singles' and _ is not 'Janet'...well maybe she is...

    Does he look like 'Mr. Sensitive ponytail guy'?

    phew! i'm glad someone got that :lol:

    oops...Linda, not Janet...Janet was with Cliff (how that was, I don't know...most guys like Cliff don't go for Janets)
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • RKCNDY wrote:
    norm wrote:

    yeah but this guy seems to be 'mr. sensitive pony-tail guy' so i doubt he'd do that

    that or he gets this all the time and is jaded and ignores it

    ;):lol:

    this is NOT the movie 'Singles' and _ is not 'Janet'...well maybe she is...

    Does he look like 'Mr. Sensitive ponytail guy'?
    image.jpg
    Seems more Ziggy's type these days :mrgreen:
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  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    RKCNDY wrote:
    chadwick wrote:
    why would you show everyone in your immediate workplace friend zone after getting such a date request? this is not good.

    I think most guys like to brag..."hey look! some random chick emailed me and asked me to go for coffee!"

    or he could be an ass, "look, some random chick asked me out..." ***laughs with his buddies and then scratches his crotch***

    (yes, us women think of all these ridiculous scenarios)
    guys that brag on their lady friends' happenings are idiotic. i learned this from my father when i was 6.
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • Heisenberg
    Heisenberg Los Pollos Hermanos Posts: 4,958
    polaris_x wrote:
    soooo ... what's the over/under here on response time?

    by tomorrow morning?

    I want Monday by 11am in the 10c office pool
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    81 wrote:
    polaris_x wrote:
    soooo ... what's the over/under here on response time?

    by tomorrow morning?


    i keep checking back for the udpate...

    do we know if he is in today? i personally, would do a little research on _ before replying. if i'm him, i need to check google and facebook...to see if i can find a picture...if i didn't know already what she looked like and to find a little info...since she has obviously stalked me a bit. :lol:

    i'd say it would be late in the day.....assuming he reads it today.

    According to the university course schedule, he was teaching a couple of classes this morning but finished at 10:45. I sent the email at 10:45. He doesn't have office hours today, so who knows whether he went back to his office and/or checked his email.

    He wouldn't find much by Googling me. I have my FB private and the picture is of a cool animal from my safari, so that wouldn't help. He might find a scholarly article on which I was an author, or the annual report for my department for which I wrote the section on my program. (I hope he doesn't find that; I was in a hurry and the writing is horrible.) There are pictures of people with my name, but none of them are me. He might think they are, though, if anyone gives him a general description of me.
  • Heisenberg
    Heisenberg Los Pollos Hermanos Posts: 4,958
    _ wrote:
    He wouldn't find much by Googling me. I have my FB private and the picture is of a cool animal from my safari, so that wouldn't help. He might find a scholarly article on which I was an author, or the annual report for my department for which I wrote the section on my program. (I hope he doesn't find that; I was in a hurry and the writing is horrible.) There are pictures of people with my name, but none of them are me. He might think they are, though, if anyone gives him a general description of me.

    I think you are worrying waaaay too much _
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    :lol:

    You guys crack me up! No, he doesn't really look like Mr. Sensitive Pony Tail guy. :lol:
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    Heisenberg wrote:
    _ wrote:
    He wouldn't find much by Googling me. I have my FB private and the picture is of a cool animal from my safari, so that wouldn't help. He might find a scholarly article on which I was an author, or the annual report for my department for which I wrote the section on my program. (I hope he doesn't find that; I was in a hurry and the writing is horrible.) There are pictures of people with my name, but none of them are me. He might think they are, though, if anyone gives him a general description of me.

    I think you are worrying waaaay too much _

    Yep. :|
  • _ wrote:
    81 wrote:
    polaris_x wrote:
    soooo ... what's the over/under here on response time?

    by tomorrow morning?


    i keep checking back for the udpate...

    do we know if he is in today? i personally, would do a little research on _ before replying. if i'm him, i need to check google and facebook...to see if i can find a picture...if i didn't know already what she looked like and to find a little info...since she has obviously stalked me a bit. :lol:

    i'd say it would be late in the day.....assuming he reads it today.

    According to the university course schedule, he was teaching a couple of classes this morning but finished at 10:45. I sent the email at 10:45. He doesn't have office hours today, so who knows whether he went back to his office and/or checked his email.

    He wouldn't find much by Googling me. I have my FB private and the picture is of a cool animal from my safari, so that wouldn't help. He might find a scholarly article on which I was an author, or the annual report for my department for which I wrote the section on my program. (I hope he doesn't find that; I was in a hurry and the writing is horrible.) There are pictures of people with my name, but none of them are me. He might think they are, though, if anyone gives him a general description of me.
    Now that's what I call stalking :thumbup: :lol:
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  • polaris_x
    polaris_x Posts: 13,559
    10C Betting

    Early Line: _ asks mr. sensitive pony-tail guy out

    His response:

    "sure, why don't we meet in the cafeteria tomorrow - i have a break between 10:30 and 11:00": 3 - 1
    "i would love to but i am seeing someone already": 5 - 1
    "please send me pictures - head shots, full body shots, bikini shots taken within the last moon cycle": 8 - 1
    "love is like an oyster of shallow persuasion, whence comes the opening of a life fulfilled": 20 - 1
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    _ wrote:
    :lol:

    You guys crack me up! No, he doesn't really look like Mr. Sensitive Pony Tail guy. :lol:

    ok, then I am picturing:

    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSKjtbEzbI3aA1a4uEd0hcVkGhPEb0Dc5TXy4L3Rx1f5Xvhe57e0A
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    the deal is you haven't even dated him not one time. no need in dragging in your friends and that group to chit chat about him @ the next sewing circle get together. for christ sakes you haven't even kissed him yet.

    i myself have scolded a lady friend or two in my time because she ran her mouth to her friends about us and this or that. i do not appreaciate being the center of the sewing circle's topic of, "we had sex all night and into the wee hours and then he got up and swam 4 miles, came home and loved me all afternoon."

    that irritates the fuck out of me... how about,,,shut the hell up?
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • RKCNDY wrote:
    _ wrote:
    :lol:

    You guys crack me up! No, he doesn't really look like Mr. Sensitive Pony Tail guy. :lol:

    ok, then I am picturing:

    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSKjtbEzbI3aA1a4uEd0hcVkGhPEb0Dc5TXy4L3Rx1f5Xvhe57e0A
    I gotta stop putting my pictures on Facebook...
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  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    polaris_x wrote:
    10C Betting

    Early Line: _ asks mr. sensitive pony-tail guy out

    His response:

    "sure, why don't we meet in the cafeteria tomorrow - i have a break between 10:30 and 11:00": 3 - 1
    "i would love to but i am seeing someone already": 5 - 1
    "please send me pictures - head shots, full body shots, bikini shots taken within the last moon cycle": 8 - 1
    "love is like an oyster of shallow persuasion, whence comes the opening of a life fulfilled": 20 - 1


    i'd bet 1 or 2
    81 is now off the air

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  • of.the.girl
    of.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    RKCNDY wrote:
    _ wrote:
    :lol:

    You guys crack me up! No, he doesn't really look like Mr. Sensitive Pony Tail guy. :lol:

    ok, then I am picturing:

    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSKjtbEzbI3aA1a4uEd0hcVkGhPEb0Dc5TXy4L3Rx1f5Xvhe57e0A
    I gotta stop putting my pictures on Facebook...
    :lol::lol::lol: