Has PJ ever made you cry?

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  • Lately, whenever I hear "Chloe/Crown of Thorns" and "Nothingman" I start to cry. This has also happened with "Release", "Light Years", and "Man of the Hour", especially the EV solo version.
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  • Too many to count..But the most emberrassing was out fishing in a boat full of guys, I'm the only chick and COME BACK plays on my headphones, I just lost my best friend to Cancer a month earlier. I missed him so much and it was my first outing since his death. I lost it with snot running down my face and everyone was so uncomfortable..luckily they are good friends and forgave me, even invited me again!
    Hearts & thoughts
  • MJP311
    MJP311 Posts: 16
    This is all 100% true and from the heart.

    I find it really difficult to cry. Just the way I was brought up (raised) probably. Even now. I just bottle shit up and implode after a while.

    My Dad died in September 2009, following heart surgery, then my Mum, utterly heartbroken, committed suicide in April 2010. Words can never express....nothing in life can ever prepare you something like that. I'm not looking for sympathy I'm definitely over the worst now. I just want to share with like-minded fans how this wonderful band helped me get through the worst time of my life.

    I'll always associate certain Pearl Jam songs with that horrible period in my life. Backspacer came out a few days after my Dad died. But...I wouldn't change a thing. Those songs helped me to express my grief - helped me to cry and really helped me through the grieving process. I used to have a few drinks, wait until everyone went to bed, put on my ipod (I'd a playlist made of the songs which I knew 'worked'), look at old photos and cry my eyes out. It was the only way I could get any kind of release. But it worked and was incredibly therapuetic.

    The likes of ''Off he goes' (I was listening to that this morning and was nearly welling up driving to work),the lyrics don't even have to be about loss and grief, but when I hear that now I just see my Dad in his perfectully unkempt clothes, it's just so melancholy and beautiful. 'Nothingman' too...my Dad was nothing to the world...it didn't even bat an eyelid when he died but he was the world to me. 'The End', 'Yellow Ledbetter', 'Just Breathe', and of course 'Release' to name a few others...but the one that was written just for me at that time was of course 'Come Back'. I love that song beyond anything I could ever express here. I so hope they play it when they do Manchester next June. I've never seen them before live and I'm so excited!

    Mike
  • Katyz
    Katyz Posts: 838
    When the date for Manchester was two days before the end of school so I can't go!!!! :evil:
  • "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • I cannot listen to The End without crying. My mother was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma within weeks of Backspacer's release. I took her to see Eddie Vedder in Providence in June and was crying and and holding her hand while listening to him perform this beautiful song. The lyrics are just so incredible and the timing of the release of the song was just unbelievable...

    "It’s my fault, now I been caught a sickness in my bones. How it pains to leave you here with the kids on your own. Just don’t let me go. Help me see myself, cause I can no longer tell. Looking out from the inside of the bottom of a well. It’s hell, I yell, but no one hears. Before I disappear, whisper in my ear. Give me something to echo in my unknown futures ear. My dear, The End comes near. I’m here, but not much longer"

    This song has helped me to cope with my mother's cancer and helped me to express my grief as well as share in hers. I am grateful to Pearl Jam for once again providing me with the right song at the right time, as they have so many times over their twenty year history. When Ten was released, I was ten years old. Now I am thirty and it is amazing to look back on the band's twenty year history as a backdrop to my own youth and adulthood. We are all grown up now, and still I feel that spiritual connection to Pearl Jam's music, like no other connection that I have ever felt. I know you all understand... Thanks for letting me share, and thanks for the topic.
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  • About six years ago, while I was a senior in high school, i was working late and was held up at knifepoint. The man who committed the crime was a fellow co-worker. A few days later, while I was in school, the detective told me that the robbery had to do with a drug ring that my manager and district manager were running. The news that people I trusted had done such a horrible thing to me tore me apart. I left school that afternoon in bad shape but I was holding myself together. When I got in my truck to leave school I turned on the radio just as Yellow Ledbetter was beginning to play. I cried my eyes out as I was trying to decipher the lyrics and think about what I had just learned. Although the lyrics of that song are up for debate, I clearly heard Mr. Vedder sing the line, "I want to leave it again." This made me think about how bad I wanted to leave everything behind. I though about how all I wanted was to leave these bad people behind. I have never cried that hard in my life and everytime I hear that song the tears start to flow...
    ...We are the victims of desire...
  • I remember watching an interview with Eddie Vedder and him describing the signifigance to him of "sad songs" and have been trying to track it down.....if anyone could be of some help id appreciate it.
    Thanks
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    - Eddie Vedder
  • a lot of times...
    Recently "Come back" creates me big emotions...
    A couple of months ago one of my best friends went into a deep coma and every single nights, when I arrived at home, I loked at the PJ20 video version of Come Back... and started crying.
    But it was good. It helped me to work off my pain...
    Now my friend is good...
    You know something's left
    And we're all allowed
    To dream of the next time we touch..
    .
  • and where can you watch-the fans are alright?
  • every time i hear Release at a show and sometimes just listening to it non- concert related... also Indifference usually gives me a lump in my throat.
  • SOOOOOO many songs man!
    Strength in individuality
  • davidtrios
    davidtrios Posts: 9,732
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W7x4ko-dD-U#t=2m19s

    she lies and says she still loves him. wow
  • hrd2imgn
    hrd2imgn Southwest Burbs of Chicago Posts: 4,924
    too many times to count
  • PJ has made me cry many times.

    Cried at Alpine Valley last year actually when Cornell and PJ sang "Say Hello 2 Heaven" and that's the only song on this earth that makes me think of my only brother who I lost in a car accident when he was 22 years old. Got wrapped up in the entire moment and experience - just totally lost it.

    Also cried the very first time I heard "Release" during the last verse - you can just hear Eddie crying out in that song and chokes me up all the time.

    Recently, "Given To Fly" has made me cry because it makes me think of my boyfriend. There are lines in the song that just speak to me and make me think of him (also a huge PJ freak like me) and it hits home.
    05/19/06 Grand Rapids, MI
    05/07/10 Noblesville, IN
    09/03/11 Alpine Valley, WI
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  • hell yeah. i think it's the lethal combo of the raw emotion in eddie's voice and the deep guitar riffs. i'm an empath though. sometimes i just find i get caught off guard and a bit from a song connects with me and I get a tear rolling down.
  • wishlisa76
    wishlisa76 Sweden Posts: 806
    My mom died 5 months ago and since then, I´ve been crying to Release. Also when Eddie sings "I´m open" and "Man of the hour" on the Water on the Road dvd... And when I heard Come back from the San Fransisco concert in 2006.

    This summer I´ll see PJ for the first time, and I´m thinking I might have to bring some Kleenex. :roll:
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  • wishlisa76 wrote:
    My mom died 5 months ago and since then, I´ve been crying to Release. Also when Eddie sings "I´m open" and "Man of the hour" on the Water on the Road dvd... And when I heard Come back from the San Fransisco concert in 2006.

    This summer I´ll see PJ for the first time, and I´m thinking I might have to bring some Kleenex. :roll:


    Very sorry to hear about your Mom :( But on a better note, you'll definitely cry at your first Pearl Jam concert. It's a surreal experience. Enjoy it to the fullest and take it all in :)
    05/19/06 Grand Rapids, MI
    05/07/10 Noblesville, IN
    09/03/11 Alpine Valley, WI
    09/04/11 Alpine Valley, WI