Got a first date lined up for Saturday night....

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  • Phantom Pain
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    unlost dogs wrote:
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    Don't stare at her camel toe

    I am so glad I know what that means... 8-) :? :o

    ;):D

    Is it wrong every time I hear camel toe I think of you

    :? ;)
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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Stay away from one liners also..

    Do you work for UPS? I could have sworn I saw you checking out my package

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  • unlost dogs
    unlost dogs Greater Boston Posts: 12,553
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    unlost dogs wrote:
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    Don't stare at her camel toe

    I am so glad I know what that means... 8-) :? :o

    ;):D

    Is it wrong every time I hear camel toe I think of you

    :? ;)

    :twisted:
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    If ALL goes well ask for a " "G~O~B~B~Y" "..... :P
  • Phantom Pain
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    i_lov_it wrote:
    If ALL goes well ask for a " "G~O~B~B~Y" "..... :P

    Searching Urban Dictionary...

    :think:
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  • Go Beavers
    Go Beavers Posts: 9,659
    Be yourself...only reference your nervousness once (once is cute, more than that is awkward and insecure)...Don't force your humor, let it come naturally....be attentive.....think of some good stories or how you might remember her from high school......make some witty comments/observations about your immediate environment....try to be in the moment the best you can, your nervousness is taking you out of the moment.
    I wish you well!
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Go Beavers wrote:
    Be yourself...only reference your nervousness once (once is cute, more than that is awkward and insecure)...Don't force your humor, let it come naturally....be attentive.....think of some good stories or how you might remember her from high school......make some witty comments/observations about your immediate environment....try to be in the moment the best you can, your nervousness is taking you out of the moment.
    I wish you well!

    Thank you.
    You reckon I should tell her this is my first date?
    Just so that she understands the nervousness?
    Also I am thinking of telling her why I said "we'll see" about doing something else after coffee, just so she doesn't think I am cocky or not keen.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • 81
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    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    Go Beavers wrote:
    Be yourself...only reference your nervousness once (once is cute, more than that is awkward and insecure)...Don't force your humor, let it come naturally....be attentive.....think of some good stories or how you might remember her from high school......make some witty comments/observations about your immediate environment....try to be in the moment the best you can, your nervousness is taking you out of the moment.
    I wish you well!

    Thank you.
    You reckon I should tell her this is my first date?
    Just so that she understands the nervousness?
    Also I am thinking of telling her why I said "we'll see" about doing something else after coffee, just so she doesn't think I am cocky or not keen.
    no and no....did you not read my first reply to this thread....shut the fuck with the stupid shit and enjoy your night out.
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  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 27,052
    The 81 wrote:
    no and no....did you not read my first reply to this thread....shut the fuck with the stupid shit and enjoy your night out.

    hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe
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  • The Juggler
    The Juggler Posts: 49,599
    take her out for some chicken.

    maybe some sex.

    see what happens.
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  • snow_board_rider
    snow_board_rider Posts: 943
    Fake confidence and as she goes down on you you will become confident :twisted:
    But if really shy just have fun and don't pressure yourself, whats the worst that could happen.
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  • conman
    conman Posts: 7,493
    don't be a fool, wrap your tool
  • ShimmyMommy
    ShimmyMommy Posts: 7,505
    Just go with it...Enjoy the moment...Have fun...It's simply a date after all... :mrgreen:
    Lots of love, light and hugs to you all!
  • The Juggler
    The Juggler Posts: 49,599
    ShimmyMommy wrote:
    Just go with it...Enjoy the moment...Have fun...It's simply a date after all... :mrgreen:

    it is literally the biggest moment of his entire life. shame on you for trivializing it like that. my goodness.
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  • eeriepadave
    eeriepadave West Chester, PA Posts: 43,611
    Just ask questions (like in the 40 Year Old virgin :lol:;) )
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  • ShimmyMommy
    ShimmyMommy Posts: 7,505
    The Juggler wrote:
    ShimmyMommy wrote:
    Just go with it...Enjoy the moment...Have fun...It's simply a date after all... :mrgreen:

    it is literally the biggest moment of his entire life. shame on you for trivializing it like that. my goodness.

    OK...bad Shimmy... Let me set this straight...where's my whip at? Thoughts_Arrive, you can borrow it. :lol::lol::mrgreen:
    Lots of love, light and hugs to you all!
  • Go Beavers
    Go Beavers Posts: 9,659
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    Go Beavers wrote:
    Be yourself...only reference your nervousness once (once is cute, more than that is awkward and insecure)...Don't force your humor, let it come naturally....be attentive.....think of some good stories or how you might remember her from high school......make some witty comments/observations about your immediate environment....try to be in the moment the best you can, your nervousness is taking you out of the moment.
    I wish you well!

    Thank you.
    You reckon I should tell her this is my first date?
    Just so that she understands the nervousness?
    Also I am thinking of telling her why I said "we'll see" about doing something else after coffee, just so she doesn't think I am cocky or not keen.

    I would suggest to just say you don't date very often. At some point in the first half of the date, I don't think you need to reference the "we'll see" comment directly, just suggest a couple things that you could do afterward. Go with the de-caf, too, you'll probably be jumpy enough as it is.
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    Thank you all for the advice and feedback, much appreciated.
    As for the coffee on a Sat night not being a good idea mentioned earlier, she suggested we do something Sat night, I always thought and read that coffee or drinks at a bar are most suitable for a first date.
    Maybe I should've suggested Sunday lunchtime, oh wells.
    Where we are meeting up is not a walking distance to her house.
    I hope she doesn't want to go city, too much traffic.
    It is all cafe's and restaurants where we are going, not sure if there is a place more exciting there, see what happens.
    I always had in my mind something "more exciting" for a second date.
    I am going by the rules on youtube and online dating advice sites.

    You are acting EXACTLY like I was with my girl seven months ago..


    Now our dates consist of us farting on each other and laughing about it..


    Good luck! :D
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    snow_board_rider wrote:
    whats the worst that could happen.

    Could blow an opportunity that rarely comes along for me. :(
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    conman wrote:
    don't be a fool, wrap your tool

    I like that one. :lol:
    Not bringing any of those, not good to get it on on the first date (according to dating sites).
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014

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