Got a first date lined up for Saturday night....

Claireack

The Juggler wrote:

text her a picture of your junk. apparently chicks like that.

NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

Glad it went well, fingers crossed for more dates to come

81

you are a regular keith smooth

congradalations....now about those pics.

BLACK35

The Juggler wrote:

text her a picture of your junk. apparently chicks like that.

ShimmyMommy

Ok... I am gonna post it this time!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bDKOQJ9e1u0

comebackgirl

ShimmyMommy wrote:

Ok... I am gonna post it this time!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bDKOQJ9e1u0

Classic!

81

Hehe

Thoughts_Arrive

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Just got back home.
She parked behind my car in a side street, as we were walking to the cafe I complemented her nice leather jacket.
Almost 3 hrs of chatting, time went by fast, didn't seem like that long.
I think it went okay, sometimes we paused as we both were thinking of what to say lol.
She laughed a lot at my funny stories.
Walked back to our cars, she commented on my car, I on hers.
I said it was good seeing her again and I had a great time and that I'd like to catch up again soon.
She said yes, I told her when she's free, maybe next weekend.
I didn't mention anything about me not dating often or being nervous (surprisingly I was fine).
Now I am considering do I text now or tomorrow to say it was great to catch up etc etc.

EDIT:
I texted her saying thank you for tonight and that I had a great night.
A little joke thrown in about still being thirsty from all that chatting.
And speak soon, have a good night.

She replied about 10 mins later saying thanks for the chat and that it was great seeing me again after so long and have a nice night.

Sounds like you had a good time....

Yeah it was good but also nerve racking at times.
I will call her in the next day or two to arrange a second date.

Thoughts_Arrive

Which of the following is the best for a second date?

Bowling
Zoo
Movies
Walk around the city including city gardens

or if you have any other please suggest....

ShimmyMommy

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Which of the following is the best for a second date?

Bowling
Zoo
Movies
Walk around the city including city gardens

or if you have any other please suggest....

Ask her what she would like to do this time! You may be pleasantly surprised!!

Thoughts_Arrive

ShimmyMommy wrote:

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Which of the following is the best for a second date?

Bowling
Zoo
Movies
Walk around the city including city gardens

or if you have any other please suggest....

Ask her what she would like to do this time! You may be pleasantly surprised!!

Yeah I want to throw up some options and let her think of what she'd prefer.

Are flowers/chocolates a must to bring on a second date? :?

I mean if we go somewhere that involves activity she'd have to hold it all night/day.

81

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Which of the following is the best for a second date?

Bowling
Zoo
Movies
Walk around the city including city gardens

or if you have any other please suggest....

Depends....

None are bad....its about spending time together, having a little fun and learning about each other

ShimmyMommy

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

ShimmyMommy wrote:

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Which of the following is the best for a second date?

Bowling
Zoo
Movies
Walk around the city including city gardens

or if you have any other please suggest....

Ask her what she would like to do this time! You may be pleasantly surprised!!

Yeah I want to throw up some options and let her think of what she'd prefer.

Are flowers/chocolates a must to bring on a second date? :?

I mean if we go somewhere that involves activity she'd have to hold it all night/day.

Ask her first what she would like to do. Try out whatever she suggests, you never know...you might like it. If she has no ideas, then offer up your options. BTW, your options are great. It will make her very comfortable, because they are easy to enjoy. As for the flowers, a single rose (or any flower of your choice) is very sweet and not like you are overdoing it. She can leave it in the car if you are out on a long date.

I hope that's helpful.

snow_board_rider

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Which of the following is the best for a second date?

Bowling
Zoo
Movies
Walk around the city including city gardens

or if you have any other please suggest....

Dinner and then back to your pad for chocolate fondue, Strawberries, and Wine. then see what her clothes look like crumpled up at the foot of your bed.

Thoughts_Arrive

snow_board_rider wrote:

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Which of the following is the best for a second date?

Bowling
Zoo
Movies
Walk around the city including city gardens

or if you have any other please suggest....

Dinner and then back to your pad for chocolate fondue, Strawberries, and Wine. then see what her clothes look like crumpled up at the foot of your bed.

I live at home still and so does she lol
I got a house with tennants lol

Thoughts_Arrive

ShimmyMommy wrote:

Ask her first what she would like to do. Try out whatever she suggests, you never know...you might like it. If she has no ideas, then offer up your options. BTW, your options are great. It will make her very comfortable, because they are easy to enjoy. As for the flowers, a single rose (or any flower of your choice) is very sweet and not like you are overdoing it. She can leave it in the car if you are out on a long date.

I hope that's helpful.

Thank you.

ShimmyMommy

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

ShimmyMommy wrote:

Ask her first what she would like to do. Try out whatever she suggests, you never know...you might like it. If she has no ideas, then offer up your options. BTW, your options are great. It will make her very comfortable, because they are easy to enjoy. As for the flowers, a single rose (or any flower of your choice) is very sweet and not like you are overdoing it. She can leave it in the car if you are out on a long date.

I hope that's helpful.

Thank you.

You are welcome. I hope you have a great time.

Thoughts_Arrive

Thank you.
I will call her tomorrow (3 days after the first date).
Was thinking of calling her tonight but she had a night out last night, will give her time to relax.

EmBleve

Good luck. Have fun. (I wouldn't suggest flowers or chocolates YET).

ShimmyMommy

EmBleve wrote:

Good luck. Have fun. (I wouldn't suggest flowers or chocolates YET).

:wave: That's kind of why I suggest a single flower, if he wants to give her something. It's not all like, "I am showering you with flowers and chocolates." Kwim?

81

get her this

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-uy_7IBH1YYI/T ... 2f4001.jpg