In the spirit of V-day, humor me

GreenTeaDisease
GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
edited February 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
my curiosity about these things is never satisfied... this is something I just can't figure our how many people I ask and how many times it comes up on this board. So as specifically as possible, please answer these 2 questions for me:

1) How did you MEET your significant other (or your last one)? Work? School? Bar? Match.com? Did one of you drop your papers on the street and look up and see the other one and fall in love at first sight?

2) How did you then TRANSITION from just knowing this person or liking them to actually being in a romantic relationship? Did you ask them out on a date and then it was just implied? Did you suddenly like kiss or something? Did you just like, tell them you liked them?

thanks for the help with my research!!!
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  • sennin
    sennin Posts: 2,146
    my curiosity about these things is never satisfied... this is something I just can't figure our how many people I ask and how many times it comes up on this board. So as specifically as possible, please answer these 2 questions for me:

    1) How did you MEET your significant other (or your last one)? Work? School? Bar? Match.com? Did one of you drop your papers on the street and look up and see the other one and fall in love at first sight?

    2) How did you then TRANSITION from just knowing this person or liking them to actually being in a romantic relationship? Did you ask them out on a date and then it was just implied? Did you suddenly like kiss or something? Did you just like, tell them you liked them?

    thanks for the help with my research!!!

    1. Here
    2. A kiss in Calgary after a PJ show.

    :D
  • sennin wrote:
    1. Here
    2. A kiss in Calgary after a PJ show.

    :D

    follow up: how did you get to kissing?
  • my curiosity about these things is never satisfied... this is something I just can't figure our how many people I ask and how many times it comes up on this board. So as specifically as possible, please answer these 2 questions for me:

    1) How did you MEET your significant other (or your last one)? Work? School? Bar? Match.com? Did one of you drop your papers on the street and look up and see the other one and fall in love at first sight?

    2) How did you then TRANSITION from just knowing this person or liking them to actually being in a romantic relationship? Did you ask them out on a date and then it was just implied? Did you suddenly like kiss or something? Did you just like, tell them you liked them?

    thanks for the help with my research!!!
    1. Oslo... part of a PJ meetup... one of the girls brought her brother!

    2. No transition... it's all just kinda happened.

    Sorry I can't be much help :o
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    my curiosity about these things is never satisfied... this is something I just can't figure our how many people I ask and how many times it comes up on this board. So as specifically as possible, please answer these 2 questions for me:

    1) How did you MEET your significant other (or your last one)? Work? School? Bar? Match.com? Did one of you drop your papers on the street and look up and see the other one and fall in love at first sight?

    2) How did you then TRANSITION from just knowing this person or liking them to actually being in a romantic relationship? Did you ask them out on a date and then it was just implied? Did you suddenly like kiss or something? Did you just like, tell them you liked them?

    thanks for the help with my research!!!

    1) got the # from a phone book

    2.) i payed them
  • my curiosity about these things is never satisfied... this is something I just can't figure our how many people I ask and how many times it comes up on this board. So as specifically as possible, please answer these 2 questions for me:

    1) How did you MEET your significant other (or your last one)? Work? School? Bar? Match.com? Did one of you drop your papers on the street and look up and see the other one and fall in love at first sight?

    2) How did you then TRANSITION from just knowing this person or liking them to actually being in a romantic relationship? Did you ask them out on a date and then it was just implied? Did you suddenly like kiss or something? Did you just like, tell them you liked them?

    thanks for the help with my research!!!

    1.) On the Joe Bonamassa BBS. :D;) It wasn't love at first site, but I noticed that he was funny and smart. I also remembered his username from the message pit and had actually laughed about it with my college BF years before I ever actually talked to him.

    2.) We chatted and chatted and chatted and became really good friends, and though we never acknowledged it, we started to have "romantic" feelings for each other. He came to visit me, and then we knew we were more than just best friends, and then we lived happily ever after. ;)
  • Rygar
    Rygar Posts: 8,711
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    1) got the # from a phone book

    2.) i payed them
    This may be your finest post to date.
  • 2. No transition... it's all just kinda happened.

    :( this is why I can't figure all this out...no one ever discloses this part of the secret!!!
  • and then we knew we were more than just best friends,

    how?
  • :( this is why I can't figure all this out...no one ever discloses this part of the secret!!!
    that's cos I'm as surprised as you are... there IS no big secret... when it's right, it just happens. I could go into all the details if you like but they don't illustrate a transition... it's not like a jump from one phase to the other... it's all just... happened! And suddenly we are where we are :o
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • chinobaeza
    chinobaeza Santiago Posts: 2,489
    1) How did you MEET your significant other (or your last one)? Work? School? Bar?

    2) How did you then TRANSITION from just knowing this person or liking them to actually being in a romantic relationship?
    1) grad-school
    2)still don't know...;)
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    2.) i payed them
    them?? :eek: :D
  • how?

    Well, basically we both knew before actually meeting that we loved each other, but wanted to make sure that our perceptions of each other were accurate before we would actually really admit it to ourselves or each other. Once we were in the same room, and it was exactly the same as it was online (meaning we talked and laughed as effortlessly and were having a great time), we were certain that we loved each other.

    We were very touchy-feely with each other, and then finally he kissed me on the nose...lol...and then I kissed him and that sealed the deal.
  • Oh and the reason there was no transition between us meeting and being in a relationship was cos we kissed the night we met :D and it just kept going and suddenly we're in a relationship and all that.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • JSBE
    JSBE Posts: 1,078
    my curiosity about these things is never satisfied... this is something I just can't figure our how many people I ask and how many times it comes up on this board. So as specifically as possible, please answer these 2 questions for me:

    1) How did you MEET your significant other (or your last one)? Work? School? Bar? Match.com? Did one of you drop your papers on the street and look up and see the other one and fall in love at first sight?

    2) How did you then TRANSITION from just knowing this person or liking them to actually being in a romantic relationship? Did you ask them out on a date and then it was just implied? Did you suddenly like kiss or something? Did you just like, tell them you liked them?

    thanks for the help with my research!!!

    1) she was the girlfriend of a friend of a person i worked with. everyone sort of hung out together. eventually they broke up, we became friends for many, many years.

    2) after those many, many years i just told her i liked her. i was rebuffed the first time (mostly because she didn't want to possibly hurt our friendship) so i went for it again and she said she felt the same way. 6.5 years later we're still together.
  • that's cos I'm as surprised as you are... there IS no big secret... when it's right, it just happens. I could go into all the details if you like but they don't illustrate a transition... it's not like a jump from one phase to the other... it's all just... happened! And suddenly we are where we are :o

    :( It never happens to me though, I've never even been asked out or just hooked up with someone I knew...I swear that there has to be a method, a protocol, something...I just don't understand the process- it drives me nuts!
  • sennin
    sennin Posts: 2,146
    follow up: how did you get to kissing?

    My hands were full. A bag in one hand, pj poster in the other.
  • Oh and the reason there was no transition between us meeting and being in a relationship was cos we kissed the night we met :D and it just kept going and suddenly we're in a relationship and all that.

    ok, see this is more useful info!

    you kissed the night you met- were you both drunk?

    and he actually called again? unheard of! :)
  • Pacomc79
    Pacomc79 Posts: 9,404
    Was in my favorite bar drinking beer with my roommate who was about to move. She walked in, I introduced myself.... rest is history.

    Probably the most nerve racking ridiculous insane way to meet people but hey you have to break a few eggs to make an omlet.
    My Girlfriend said to me..."How many guitars do you need?" and I replied...."How many pairs of shoes do you need?" She got really quiet.
  • :( It never happens to me though, I've never even been asked out or just hooked up with someone I knew...I swear that there has to be a method, a protocol, something...I just don't understand the process- it drives me nuts!
    You need to stop trying to understand... and you need to stop waiting for it to happen. Just enjoy everything that comes along... none of my relationships were people I'd been friends with before... they all just popped into my life with a bang.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • Rygar
    Rygar Posts: 8,711
    You need to stop trying to understand... and you need to stop waiting for it to happen. Just enjoy everything that comes along... none of my relationships were people I'd been friends with before... they all just popped into my life with a bang.
    I think HH is right here.
  • we were certain that we loved each other.

    We were very touchy-feely with each other, and then finally he kissed me on the nose...lol...and then I kissed him and that sealed the deal.

    how could you be certain you loved each other?

    he kissed you on the nose...was he drunk?

    p.s. sorry for all the prying, I'm just trying to get to the bottom of this. I was thinking about it last night and I decided I was going to research this to the end if it kills me. Not even for myself, it just bugs the hell out of me that I don't understand it when I understand so many other complicated concepts so well.