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    chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    genie wrote:
    for me it doesn't,

    it either means you're gay or it means you love women too much and you want to become a woman


    nopers miss..
    it means i'm a chow hound like nobodies flippin business :D
    as well as i have a built in adult toy that ladies like to get radical with..
    the artistic side of me would be my sensitive side..
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

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    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

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    geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    chadwick wrote:
    nopers miss..
    it means i'm a chow hound like nobodies flippin business :D
    as well as i have a built in adult toy that ladies like to get radical with..
    the artistic side of me would be my sensitive side..

    i've seen you around here, you always come across as a sensitive, creative type, never knew you had it in you. :) still though, i bet you're not as freaky as i am! :p
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    TrixieCatTrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    genie wrote:
    i'm talking about being kind and understanding to men.

    well, i'm lucky to have friends at all, and two females that i know i would only call them my associates because they don't care about me really they just want me as someone to go out with you know, they ask how i am but deep down they're not really bothered about me
    Associates is a good term for those types of "friends".
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
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    chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    genie wrote:
    i've seen you around here, you always come across as a sensitive, creative type, never knew you had it in you. :) still though, i bet you're not as freaky as i am! :p

    of course i have it in me, i am a fuckin poetic madman.
    what do you expect?

    freaky huh?
    nicely done miss miss.
    please keep up the good work, you're doing a fantastic job :)
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
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    geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    chadwick wrote:
    of course i have it in me, i am a fuckin poetic madman.
    what do you expect?

    freaky huh?
    nicely done miss miss.
    please keep up the good work, you're doing a fantastic job :)

    yes, sir! or should i say..................my master ;):D
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    chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    genie wrote:
    yes, sir! or should i say..................my master ;):D


    never been a master before

    i have metallica's "master of puppets" does that count?

    see folks genie & i just became buddies, maybe, kinda sorta.
    never chit chatted with her before until today. (i think)
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
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    chadwick wrote:
    never been a master before

    i have metallica's "master of puppets" does that count?

    see folks genie & i just became buddies, maybe, kinda sorta.
    never chit chatted with her before until today. (i think)

    hahahaha!!

    that is an awesome representation of how the two sexes can be buddies and or friends.

    I have a LOT of male friends, and we talk shit to each other all the time. In the past they have (at one point or another...except for the gay friends) made passes at me - or admitted to "crushes" but, we worked through it.

    also, sex is not a big deal - it isnt always love-based and it shouldn't be treated as the ends to the means...at least, if you are a friend of mine it isnt.

    I think that when people say that they "cant" be friends with the opposite sex and keep it sex-free it is a sign of maturity.

    I have had crushes on my male friends and in one case we acted on our (shared) impulse...turns out we are better as buddies...no benefits. The other friend that I had a crush on we just worked through it.

    sex is obviously a driving force, but I think that people need to harness it...
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    geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    chadwick wrote:
    never been a master before

    i have metallica's "master of puppets" does that count?

    see folks genie & i just became buddies, maybe, kinda sorta.
    never chit chatted with her before until today. (i think)

    master of puppets was one of their best albums, together with the black album and justice for all........
    anyways, i wasn't talking about this, think fetish, and you'll understand.

    i've seen you around here.
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    chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    hahahaha!!

    that is an awesome representation of how the two sexes can be buddies and or friends.

    I have a LOT of male friends, and we talk shit to each other all the time. In the past they have (at one point or another...except for the gay friends) made passes at me - or admitted to "crushes" but, we worked through it.

    also, sex is not a big deal - it isnt always love-based and it shouldn't be treated as the ends to the means...at least, if you are a friend of mine it isnt.

    I think that when people say that they "cant" be friends with the opposite sex and keep it sex-free it is a sign of maturity.

    I have had crushes on my male friends and in one case we acted on our (shared) impulse...turns out we are better as buddies...no benefits. The other friend that I had a crush on we just worked through it.

    sex is obviously a driving force, but I think that people need to harness it...

    yep, i agree whole heartedly
    good job failedphone or whatever your name is ;)
    thank you, thank you very much
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
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    geniegenie Posts: 2,222

    I think that when people say that they "cant" be friends with the opposite sex and keep it sex-free it is a sign of maturity.

    come again? :confused:
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    TrixieCatTrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    genie wrote:
    come again? :confused:
    I think she meant immaturity? :confused:
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
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    eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    chadwick wrote:
    yep, i agree whole heartedly
    good job failedphone or whatever your name is ;)
    thank you, thank you very much

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    geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    TrixieCat wrote:
    I think she meant immaturity? :confused:

    that's what i thought at first, until i read again and got confused
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    chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    genie wrote:
    master of puppets was one of their best albums, together with the black album and justice for all........
    anyways, i wasn't talking about this, think fetish, and you'll understand.

    i've seen you around here.


    i knew exactly what you meant miss miss ;)
    and i have see you 'round these parts before as well
    it's a nice place to chill or debate or write poetry or read poetry
    or argue, fight, and fuss..
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
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    chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    TrixieCat wrote:
    I think she meant immaturity? :confused:

    i think so
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
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    Lizard wrote:
    Wow--made them cry!!!! That some power you have!! You are only 17--how are old those guys? (drinking and all!! ) ;)


    haha one guy is 17 and the other is 21
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    acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    genie wrote:
    i bet you're not as freaky as i am! :p
    I bet I am :D

    Watch now I will catch shit for that line, but its true.
    Freaky Deeky!!!!!
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
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    mca47mca47 Posts: 13,258
    I'm sorry but if you are hot, you stand NO chance of having guy friends.

    If they say they are your friend they are lying and are just waiting for the moment to put your gaurd down (or get really drunk).
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    TrixieCat wrote:
    I think she meant immaturity? :confused:
    no no I meant a sign of maturity...I was not calling anyone IMmature...I was stating that it is a sign of maturity level...I did not want to step on tender toes of anyone who had previously posted that they couldn't be friends with the opposite sex...they may be very mature in other aspects of their lives, but sexually they are lacking a level of maturity.


    I guess i could have just written immature.

    *also - "I'm sorry but if you are hot, you stand NO chance of having guy friends.

    If they say they are your friend they are lying and are just waiting for the moment to put your gaurd down (or get really drunk)."

    that is a very sad perspective...especially the "guard down/get you drunk" part...these people would never be considered friends.

    if you think that I cannot tell the difference between a dude that wants my thong as dental floss, and one that is killer to hang out with...then you must thing I am an idiot...
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    in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    catch22 wrote:
    just 2 seconds ago you were talking about how girls backstab each other and you'd rather hang out with guys. he says the same and you go all frowny? methinks the real reason you like having guy friends is the attention.


    I don't need friends (male ones) to get attention!! :D
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
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    acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    I don't need friends (male ones) to get attention!! :D
    Yea you do. You LOVE attention.
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
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    in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    fanch75 wrote:
    Yup, and every one of them are waiting/hoping for you to get tired of your husband or to get into an argument with him and you (in your hour of need) run to one of these guy buddies for help, leading to drinking, leading to some Snoop Dogg action.


    I hope not.....I'm hoping they are truly my good friends!! :o
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
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    in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    genie wrote:
    i don't think you do, cause all my friends are men :D


    All of my friends are men too...;) well most of them..
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
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    acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    I hope not.....I'm hoping they are truly my good friends!! :o
    They are for now. ;) Just wait until there is a problem. :)
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
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    in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    They are for now. ;) Just wait until there is a problem. :)


    There isn't going to be a problem!! I think some of you guys are being crazy. You honestly think that three of my male friends who are not married are waiting for something to happen to me and my husband so they can get in my pants?! That is going too be a very long WAIT!! :D

    so totally NOT TRUE!!
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
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    comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    There isn't going to be a problem!! I think some of you guys are being crazy. You honestly think that three of my male friends who are not married are waiting for something to happen to me and my husband so they can get in my pants?! That is going too be a very long WAIT!! :D

    so totally NOT TRUE!!
    well - it totally depends on the guy. I used to think that it was totally possible for guys and girls to be just friends...now I'm not so sure. I was friends with a guy for 16 years...we hooked up briefly in college - kind of a friends with benefits thing that never amounted to much. Then I met my husband and got married and we stayed friends. He never made a move - totally respectful to me, my husband and my marriage. I even crashed out his apartment a few times and he never did anything even remotely inappropriate. Flash forward 10 years later, I separate from my husband and my friend tells me he's in love with me. wtf??? and now that I'm in a new relationship we're not really friends anymore (we are, but not in the same way as before). so yeah...now I'm not so sure.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
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    chadwickchadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    There isn't going to be a problem!! I think some of you guys are being crazy. You honestly think that three of my male friends who are not married are waiting for something to happen to me and my husband so they can get in my pants?! That is going too be a very long WAIT!! :D

    so totally NOT TRUE!!

    Pammy,

    many on here talk alot of bullshit..
    don't sweat it..

    dudes and dolls can be bestest of friends no questions asked..
    i wonder if this thread will turn into like the one that was locked up a few days back?
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."

    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
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    Without having read any of the posts following the original, my best guess is this:

    Because men are perverts? Well, maybe not pervs, but sex is CONSTANTLY on their minds?
    When life gives you lemons, throw them at somebody.
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    I used to be able to be friends with obese girls, no prob. I also could be just friends with hot girls that I'd already slept with and that part was over. I couldn't be friends with girls that were thin but ugly, cause they always thought they had a chance. Now, I can be friends with any girl hot or not, cause I've got an amazing woman that I wouldn't betray for anyone in the world.
    bombs, dropping down, please forgive our hometown
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    in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    I used to be able to be friends with obese girls, no prob. I also could be just friends with hot girls that I'd already slept with and that part was over. I couldn't be friends with girls that were thin but ugly, cause they always thought they had a chance. Now, I can be friends with any girl hot or not, cause I've got an amazing woman that I wouldn't betray for anyone in the world.

    Awwwwwwwwwwwwww

    Now that is sweet...
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
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