"Breastfeeding Moms Protest H&M"

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  • restlesssoul
    restlesssoul Posts: 6,952
    quite the read here in this thread.

    heres my take:



    anyways i think whats going on here is that some of you guys dont understand what its like here in vancouver, and i didnt really realize it until this thread, but i guess its going on here more often than wherever y'all are from. im from here and walk around malls and outdoors a lot, and in defense of vedderfan10, i do see a lot of suckling babies, with the mother not covering anything. just the side boob or full boob with the baby stuck on it. my girlfriend sees it too. i think its just a difference of location and practice. it can make some people awkward and you guys have to understand that at least. i say, feed the baby, but put the cape or whatever on and have the little one drink/eat under there. of course they can feed in public, but i guess vancouver women are a little more free with the boobs.
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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    Vedderfan10 wrote:
    Well, we're all just a bunch of dope smoking hippies in BC...Clothing optional!

    There are some women who breast feed in the wide open just to cause a stir and then get extremely confrontational and defensive if someone dare suggest they might like a blanket...I agree...don't often see breastfeeding in public and most of the time I don't notice because I don't go around looking for it...but these women who make a big stink about it...whatever...it's not about YOU, it's about feeding your freakin' baby! Those sorts are the ones that wrinkle my rankle!


    there is always 'some' whatever...in any group, any situation. also, you now state what many/most have been saying here all along. so basically, you do agree...it's a non-issue since most DO so discreetly, etc. you don't notice it b/c most ARE discreet. earlier posts did not present this view, at all. saying you find breastfeeding 'annoying' strikes me as an odd comment as best. and hey, i am all for verying opinions, more power to ya! just like most things tho, i am glad that most of these kinds of opinions do not affect the law. :) you're in canuck-land in any case. ;)


    btw - breastfeeding ain't about YOU either. :D

    restlesssoul wrote:
    quite the read here in this thread.

    heres my take:



    anyways i think whats going on here is that some of you guys dont understand what its like here in vancouver, and i didnt really realize it until this thread, but i guess its going on here more often than wherever y'all are from. im from here and walk around malls and outdoors a lot, and in defense of vedderfan10, i do see a lot of suckling babies, with the mother not covering anything. just the side boob or full boob with the baby stuck on it. my girlfriend sees it too. i think its just a difference of location and practice. it can make some people awkward and you guys have to understand that at least. i say, feed the baby, but put the cape or whatever on and have the little one drink/eat under there. of course they can feed in public, but i guess vancouver women are a little more free with the boobs.




    firstly, hey there! :)



    secondly, definitely sounds like a different environment, but still...none the less, i still don't get the 'big deal' of it. sure, first couple times might be disconcerting, but i don't see a problem with it even like that. that's what they are meant for, and yea...i don't personally have a problem with it, even if it were like that everywhere. might actually be 'good' to see em as nature intended more often. ;) seriously tho, seems like you do have a freer, more open environment thewre....not a bad thing, and obviously, a-ok for most.
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  • Brain of J.Lo
    Brain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    Vedderfan10 wrote:
    Well, we're all just a bunch of dope smoking hippies in BC...Clothing optional!

    There are some women who breast feed in the wide open just to cause a stir and then get extremely confrontational and defensive if someone dare suggest they might like a blanket...I agree...don't often see breastfeeding in public and most of the time I don't notice because I don't go around looking for it...but these women who make a big stink about it...whatever...it's not about YOU, it's about feeding your freakin' baby! Those sorts are the ones that wrinkle my rankle!

    But ultimately, it becomes about the mother, rather than the baby. The mother is the one who is chastised, belittled, questioned, etc. when a situation does arise. No one picks on the baby for being hungry. They just reprimand the mother for the way she is feeding the baby.
  • vedderfan10
    vedderfan10 Posts: 2,497
    Brain of J.Lo wrote:

    Why was seeing a boob for a few seconds so traumatic? Do you feel uncomfortable when you see nudity in a movie?

    Because it was...I dunno...it was...well, none of us knew where to look..and it was for more than a few seconds. She didn't even try to cover up after she uncovered..the rest of us were "Oh! Is that a bird outside!" "Crap! I dropped my fork!" 'My foot itches" "I think I heard the dog throw up outside!" It was obvious everyone was uncomfortable and she was so oblivious to it...it kinda felt it was a private moment between her and her baby and we shouldn't have been there....Now, had we been at her house, well, that would be something we'd need to get over, I guess. I won't even considering telling someone how to behave in their own home...
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  • Brain of J.Lo
    Brain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    restlesssoul wrote:
    quite the read here in this thread.

    heres my take:



    anyways i think whats going on here is that some of you guys dont understand what its like here in vancouver, and i didnt really realize it until this thread, but i guess its going on here more often than wherever y'all are from. im from here and walk around malls and outdoors a lot, and in defense of vedderfan10, i do see a lot of suckling babies, with the mother not covering anything. just the side boob or full boob with the baby stuck on it. my girlfriend sees it too. i think its just a difference of location and practice. it can make some people awkward and you guys have to understand that at least. i say, feed the baby, but put the cape or whatever on and have the little one drink/eat under there. of course they can feed in public, but i guess vancouver women are a little more free with the boobs.

    In most of the world outside of the US, people are more free with the boob. And in most of the world, no one bats an eyelash. ;)
  • SnowRider
    SnowRider Posts: 55
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  • Brain of J.Lo
    Brain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    Vedderfan10 wrote:
    Because it was...I dunno...it was...well, none of us knew where to look..and it was for more than a few seconds. She didn't even try to cover up after she uncovered..the rest of us were "Oh! Is that a bird outside!" "Crap! I dropped my fork!" 'My foot itches" "I think I heard the dog throw up outside!" It was obvious everyone was uncomfortable and she was so oblivious to it...it kinda felt it was a private moment between her and her baby and we shouldn't have been there....Now, had we been at her house, well, that would be something we'd need to get over, I guess. I won't even considering telling someone how to behave in their own home...

    You didn't know where to look? What would you have been looking at if her breast wasn't exposed? That might have been a good start. ;)

    I like that she was so cavalier about it. Maybe next time that happens, you and the rest of the people in your group won't be so surprised or uncomfortable. :D
  • prism
    prism Posts: 2,440
    restlesssoul wrote:
    quite the read here in this thread.

    heres my take:



    anyways i think whats going on here is that some of you guys dont understand what its like here in vancouver, and i didnt really realize it until this thread, but i guess its going on here more often than wherever y'all are from. im from here and walk around malls and outdoors a lot, and in defense of vedderfan10, i do see a lot of suckling babies, with the mother not covering anything. just the side boob or full boob with the baby stuck on it. my girlfriend sees it too. i think its just a difference of location and practice. it can make some people awkward and you guys have to understand that at least. i say, feed the baby, but put the cape or whatever on and have the little one drink/eat under there. of course they can feed in public, but i guess vancouver women are a little more free with the boobs.

    i've never once in Vancouver seen any Mom breastfeeding her kid without being covered.....nor ever when i was living in Victoria and at that time i was breastfeeding my son.

    maybe these women are just leaving their boobs hanging out just because they know it'll upset you and vedderfan10 :D
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  • restlesssoul
    restlesssoul Posts: 6,952
    prism wrote:

    maybe these women are just leaving their boobs hanging out just because they know it'll upset you and vedderfan10 :D


    trust me, im all for the boobs hanging out......just not with a kid slurping away.
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  • prism
    prism Posts: 2,440
    restlesssoul wrote:
    trust me, im all for the boobs hanging out......just not with a kid slurping away.
    B(.)(.)BS are good

    but somehow not good for their intended purpose?
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  • restlesssoul
    restlesssoul Posts: 6,952
    prism wrote:
    but somehow not good for their intended purpose?


    no, they are good for that too, under a breastfeeding cape.
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  • vedderfan10
    vedderfan10 Posts: 2,497
    prism wrote:
    maybe these women are just leaving their boobs hanging out just because they know it'll upset you and vedderfan10 :D

    Yes...it's a big conspiracy...they do it just to piss me off (and restlesssoul)...those women and their swinging udders!

    Of course breastfeeding isn't about me...I'd rather waste my time on yelling at people who think the local dog park is their ashtray...do they not know that puppies eat everything that's on the ground....not that I have a puppy, but other people do....

    Seriously...breastfeed your kids...toddlers with food smeared all over their faces and all in their hair...That can really make me queasy....even when I was a toddler myself, actually. And yes, I look away...or move to another table...Since I've been on the meds and have a new outlook on life, I'm not so confrontational...

    Boobs for everyone!!!

    And with that...me and my ample non-lactating breasts are going to hit the hay...It's been fun! I still think you're all cool...but I will be bringing pineapples to the next meet up ;)...
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  • prism
    prism Posts: 2,440
    restlesssoul wrote:
    no, they are good for that too, under a breastfeeding cape.

    what the hell is a breastfeeding cape?




    should people start demanding that all women going to the beach wear a cape too? afterall they might happen to see the side of a boobie! ;)
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  • pearljamjen
    pearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    prism wrote:
    what the hell is a breastfeeding cape?




    should people start demanding that all women going to the beach wear a cape too? afterall they might happen to see the side of a boobie!

    HAHA! I laughed when I read that. I pictured nursing moms every where dressed as super-heroes with a cape! ;)


    Yeah...and I laughed when vedderfan said he was traumatized by seeing a breast. If that's the case then I feel quite sorry for his girlfriend/wife. Or if she is a woman, I wonder what she does when she looks in the mirror! :eek: :p
  • pearljamjen
    pearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    Vedderfan10 wrote:

    And with that...me and my ample non-lactating breasts are going to hit the hay...It's been fun! I still think you're all cool...but I will be bringing pineapples to the next meet up ;)...
    ;)


    Were you at the meet-up for the EV shows in Van in April? If so, I KNEW I shoulda packed extra fruit in my suitcase. Next time, then. ;)
  • vedderfan10
    vedderfan10 Posts: 2,497
    pearljamjen wrote:
    Yeah...and I laughed when vedderfan said he was traumatized by seeing a breast. If that's the case then I feel quite sorry for his girlfriend/wife. Or if she is a woman, I wonder what she does when she looks in the mirror! :eek: :p

    Vedderfan10 is very much a she...and I was joking about being traumatized...having never seen a woman breastfeeding at a table full of people who were obviously very uncomfortable, we were all kind of shocked, I guess. And it was so completely unexpected! I think we all wanted to laugh...and actually, it's something that our friends (who's place it was) and us joke about all the time (esp. now that they have their own kid)...

    What do I do when I look in a mirror? Why, I wear a cape. My Looking In the Mirror cape...
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  • vedderfan10
    vedderfan10 Posts: 2,497
    pearljamjen wrote:
    ;)


    Were you at the meet-up for the EV shows in Van in April? If so, I KNEW I shoulda packed extra fruit in my suitcase. Next time, then. ;)

    I organized the meet-up (with much help from some really cool people) in Vancouver...why do you ask? Were you breastfeeding? Did I glare at you? Well, next time I'll be wearing my Hiding Fruit Under my Cape cape...be on guard!
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  • prism
    prism Posts: 2,440
    pearljamjen wrote:
    HAHA! I laughed when I read that. I pictured nursing moms every where dressed as super-heroes with a cape! ;)


    Yeah...and I laughed when vedderfan said he was traumatized by seeing a breast. If that's the case then I feel quite sorry for his girlfriend/wife. Or if she is a woman, I wonder what she does when she looks in the mirror! :eek: :p

    i know...and it's so not fair...i never got a cape when i was nursing my kids...all i ever got were some medals that said "Super Mom" that attached to my nipple rings! :D;)
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  • pearljamjen
    pearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    prism wrote:
    i know...and it's so not fair...i never got a cape when i was nursing my kids...all i ever got were some medals that said "Super Mom" that attached to my nipple rings! :D;)

    SUPER MOM! dah dah dah dah Mommy power! :p

    haha nipple rings huh? I wonder what animal and vedderfan would say? ;)
  • pearljamjen
    pearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    Vedderfan10 wrote:
    I organized the meet-up (with much help from some really cool people) in Vancouver...why do you ask? Were you breastfeeding? Did I glare at you? Well, next time I'll be wearing my Hiding Fruit Under my Cape cape...be on guard!
    I wasn't breastfeeding; just walking around letting them hang out just for the heck of it. ;) got me some free drinks it did.

    My fruit-throwing skills are the best...so look out! ;)

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