Okay, sometimes I get really upset over this...

lalalalaaaaaaaa

decides2dream wrote:

Saturnal....i've read everything you've posted, and completely understand. i DO *get* what you're saying, and i fully comprehend the whole 'evolutionary' part, and while i don't completely discount it...i personally think to even remotely tie it into even a small reason for men cheating is a cop-out. i do NOT think in absoultes, quite the contrary really.....but i just don't see that as ANY reason for it. sure, maybe THINK about it more b/c of that, sure...but to ACT on it is still all CHOICE. so for me personally, i don't see it as even worthy of being considered in the discussion of cheating, and it's merely my opinion, that's all. i don't mind if you or anyone else disagree.

At least I got you to say "it may be a factor" haha.

decides2dream

decides2dream wrote:

while i don't completely discount it

Saturnal wrote:

At least I got you to say "it may be a factor" haha.

if it makes you happy.......;)



i think justam's post above in this thread really is the *truth*...as in...there are no absolutes. for me, on this topic and on many/most...it's always about choice. and for that, i don't think gender is an issue. for most topics, i think personality and personal morals have a LOT more to do with ANYthing...than simply gender alone.


bottomline....reading trashy women's magazines is not exactly the best place if you desire objective opinions on any given topic, eh?

in_hiding79

Heineken Helen wrote:

interesting that you should go for highlights and make up then

Make up was invented for a reason....don't want to scare off the guys..lol

plus, I mean going under the knife and putting a whole bottle of bleach in my hair...highlights are fun....plastic surgery is NOT!!

Derrick

If women place as much emphasis on intellectualism in a relationship as guys place on sex, isn't every time a woman talks to another man the same as cheating?

decides2dream

Derrick wrote:

If women place as much emphasis on intellectualism in a relationship as guys place on sex, isn't every time a woman talks to another man the same as cheating?

cute joke :rolleyes:.......however, in reality........when did you ever hear that? different women put different emphasis on different things. besides, then you get into the realm of emotional vs. physical cheating......;)