Okay, sometimes I get really upset over this...

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  • Urban Hiker
    Urban Hiker Posts: 1,312
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    I still think that men get blamed for failed marriages/relaitionships when it could have been the woman's fault. I don't know, but both cheat.


    [size=-2]If my marriage fails I will get the blame for sure. But, not because I'm a cheater, rather because I'm a fiercely independent stubborn little thing who likes to fly under the radar leaving people completely confused on where they stand with me until I've had it with them. TMI??? :o Sorry, not trying to hijack. Just tucking a little frustration away in a hard to find place.[/size]

    I do think women catch some blame for the failing of marriages. However, child custody hearings don't seem to reflect that. :rolleyes:
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  • lalalalaaaaaaaa
    lalalalaaaaaaaa Posts: 2,445
    decides2dream wrote:
    it IS all choice. bottomline...it's no *excuse*....that's all.
    I agree with that.
  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    justam wrote:
    Why waste time reading trash like that anyway?? :p
    took the words right out of my mouth!

    i don't ready those magazines myself, it's like some chick circle-jerk of man bashing sometimes. i'd rather bash everybody regardless of gender, just cuz that's how i roll :D

    men cheat, women cheat, there are assholes everywhere. HAPPY FRIDAY haha
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    Saturnal wrote:
    Why would a man cheat if he could just have sex with the person he always want to have sex with? Because it doesn't work that way (assuming he's not a rapist). Females select the best mate, not men.

    so...there's a good chance your husband/boyfriend doesn't really want to be with you, you just forced him into it?
  • justam
    justam Posts: 21,415
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    took the words right out of my mouth!

    i don't ready those magazines myself, it's like some chick circle-jerk of man bashing sometimes. i'd rather bash everybody regardless of gender, just cuz that's how i roll :D

    men cheat, women cheat, there are assholes everywhere. HAPPY FRIDAY haha

    LOL! :D
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  • lalalalaaaaaaaa
    lalalalaaaaaaaa Posts: 2,445
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    so...there's a good chance your husband/boyfriend doesn't really want to be with you, you just forced him into it?
    No. I'm saying you can literally go around your office right now, start asking guys to have sex with you, and you'll find 10 who are willing in about 2 minutes. I might do that for 2 years and not find one woman willing. I'm just saying there are instincts at play. They don't control us, so it's not completely involuntary, but that does play SOME role. And that role is not equal between us. That's all.

    Like d2d said, bottom line....cheating is a choice for both men and women.
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    justam wrote:
    Why waste time reading trash like that anyway?? :p


    Cosmo

    Glamour

    Marie Claire

    Allure


    I love them....
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    Saturnal wrote:
    No. I'm saying you can literally go around your office right now, start asking guys to have sex with you, and you'll find 10 who are willing in about 2 minutes. I might do that for 2 years and not find one woman willing. I'm just saying there are instincts at play. They don't control us, so it's not completely involuntary, but that does play SOME role. And that role is not equal between us. That's all.

    Like d2d said, bottom line....cheating is a choice for both men and women.


    There is a girl here in the office that does that...I'm serious!!
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    Saturnal wrote:
    No. I'm saying you can literally go around your office right now, start asking guys to have sex with you, and you'll find 10 who are willing in about 2 minutes.

    I've never really bought this whole men will have sex with anyone thing.
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    I've never really bought this whole men will have sex with anyone thing.


    WHAT?? REALLY?? I always thought as long as she was female, men will have sex with her!
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    Saturnal wrote:
    No. I'm saying you can literally go around your office right now, start asking guys to have sex with you, and you'll find 10 who are willing in about 2 minutes. I might do that for 2 years and not find one woman willing. I'm just saying there are instincts at play. They don't control us, so it's not completely involuntary, but that does play SOME role. And that role is not equal between us. That's all.

    Like d2d said, bottom line....cheating is a choice for both men and women.

    i think you grossly over or under? estimate both the average man's standards and womens..... and women's beauty. ;) it is ALL soooo subjective.
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  • lalalalaaaaaaaa
    lalalalaaaaaaaa Posts: 2,445
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    I've never really bought this whole men will have sex with anyone thing.
    I'm not saying that either. There are no absolutes here. It is all a choice with us ultimately. There are just many things that factor into making these choices, and instinct is one of them.
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    WHAT?? REALLY?? I always thought as long as she was female, men will have sex with her!

    are you kidding me? if this is case why are women spending so much time/effort/money on having the perfect body, shaving their legs, getting rid of zits, getting rid of wrinkles, wearing slutty clothes, trying to be taller, trying to be shorter, whitening teeth, trying to be cleaner, shaving their armpits, going on diets, getting liposuction, getting boob jobs, wearing girdles...and then we're STILL not good enough to sleep with?
  • lalalalaaaaaaaa
    lalalalaaaaaaaa Posts: 2,445
    decides2dream wrote:
    i think you grossly over or under? estimate both the average man's standards and womens..... and women's beauty. ;) it is ALL soooo subjective.
    lol, well I was exaggerating the numbers, but I hope y'all see my point. Whatever the ratio is...it's not equal. No way Jose.
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    decides2dream wrote:
    i think you grossly over or under? estimate both the average man's standards and womens..... and women's beauty. ;) it is ALL soooo subjective.

    yeah this is what I meant...I'm a women and I can say I've been turned down way, way, way, way, way more times than I've been taken up.
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    are you kidding me? if this is case why are women spending so much time/effort/money on having the perfect body, shaving their legs, getting rid of zits, getting rid of wrinkles, wearing slutty clothes, trying to be taller, trying to be shorter, whitening teeth, trying to be cleaner, shaving their armpits, going on diets, getting liposuction, getting boob jobs, wearing girdles...and then we're STILL not good enough to sleep with?


    THose are women trying to snag a younger guy or a guy with money! Men will still have sex with any girl, now he might not call her the day after, but he will have sex with her!! :)
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    yeah this is what I meant...I'm a women and I can say I've been turned down way, way, way, way, way more times than I've been taken up.


    You're kidding me, right?
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    THose are women trying to snag a younger guy or a guy with money! Men will still have sex with any girl, now he might not call her the day after, but he will have sex with her!! :)

    I dunno I still don't buy it. men are repulsed by women's appearances pretty easily.
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    You're kidding me, right?

    um, no.
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    I dunno I still don't buy it. men are repulsed by women's appearances pretty easily.


    they will still want to have sex with her!! Maybe not a relaitionship, but SEX will happen!!
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."

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