Saturnal....i've read everything you've posted, and completely understand. i DO *get* what you're saying, and i fully comprehend the whole 'evolutionary' part, and while i don't completely discount it...i personally think to even remotely tie it into even a small reason for men cheating is a cop-out. i do NOT think in absoultes, quite the contrary really.....but i just don't see that as ANY reason for it. sure, maybe THINK about it more b/c of that, sure...but to ACT on it is still all CHOICE. so for me personally, i don't see it as even worthy of being considered in the discussion of cheating, and it's merely my opinion, that's all. i don't mind if you or anyone else disagree.
At least I got you to say "it may be a factor" haha.
At least I got you to say "it may be a factor" haha.
if it makes you happy.......;)
i think justam's post above in this thread really is the *truth*...as in...there are no absolutes. for me, on this topic and on many/most...it's always about choice. and for that, i don't think gender is an issue. for most topics, i think personality and personal morals have a LOT more to do with ANYthing...than simply gender alone.
bottomline....reading trashy women's magazines is not exactly the best place if you desire objective opinions on any given topic, eh?
If women place as much emphasis on intellectualism in a relationship as guys place on sex, isn't every time a woman talks to another man the same as cheating?
If women place as much emphasis on intellectualism in a relationship as guys place on sex, isn't every time a woman talks to another man the same as cheating?
cute joke :rolleyes:.......however, in reality........when did you ever hear that? different women put different emphasis on different things. besides, then you get into the realm of emotional vs. physical cheating......;)
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if it makes you happy.......;)
i think justam's post above in this thread really is the *truth*...as in...there are no absolutes. for me, on this topic and on many/most...it's always about choice. and for that, i don't think gender is an issue. for most topics, i think personality and personal morals have a LOT more to do with ANYthing...than simply gender alone.
bottomline....reading trashy women's magazines is not exactly the best place if you desire objective opinions on any given topic, eh?
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
Make up was invented for a reason....don't want to scare off the guys..lol
plus, I mean going under the knife and putting a whole bottle of bleach in my hair...highlights are fun....plastic surgery is NOT!!
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
cute joke :rolleyes:.......however, in reality........when did you ever hear that? different women put different emphasis on different things. besides, then you get into the realm of emotional vs. physical cheating......;)
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow