it just takes a level of comfort that a lot of people can't quite grasp. and that's okay. tis not really a situation where you want one of the parties being hesitant.
that is kinda what I have been saying - I am hoping that they recognize this comfort level honestly.
IF YOU WANT A PLATE OF MY BEEF SWELLINGTON, YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO PAY THE COVERCHARGE.
that is kinda what I have been saying - I am hoping that they recognize this comfort level honestly.
and lets face it, how would people react if someone fronted up to them and asked them if they wanted to have a 3some. people think youre weird or a pervert. quite honestly the more 'organic' it is, the better. you know if the third party comes in while the other two are doing there thing. after that intial contact you tend to relax into it. and to me that's the best way.
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take a good look
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hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
i think some/most people are good enough to know themselves, their jealousy issues, self-esteem, etc.....and just *know* to a certain degree what will *work* for them or not. i think this is why much remains in the realm of *fantasy* for many, b/c most realize their own egos and/or relationships may not be strong enough to handle it? don't want to risk it? honestly...i cannot say b/c i certainly don't know what is going on in other people's minds, but that would be my best guess. bottomline.....just b/c one CAN do something, doesn't truly mean they would WANT to, necessarily. that, and perhaps beyond their one partner...too difficult to find another willing partner up to their standards? lawd knows it's difficult to land one worthy male......;) then try to be at all *experimental*.......:D haha.
i think some/most people are good enough to know themselves, their jealousy issues, self-esteem, etc.....and just *know* to a certain degree what will *work* for them or not. i think this is why much remains in the realm of *fantasy* for many, b/c most realize their own egos and/or relationships may not be strong enough to handle it? don't want to risk it? honestly...i cannot say b/c i certainly don't know what is going on in other people's minds, but that would be my best guess. bottomline.....just b/c one CAN do something, doesn't truly mean they would WANT to, necessarily. that, and perhaps beyond their one partner...too difficult to find another willing partner up to their standards? lawd knows it's difficult to land one worthy male......;) then try to be at all *experimental*.......:D haha.
well honestly i don't like to share... though if im getting something out of it then it doesn't take much pursuasion. then again i already know how i'd react.
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take a good look
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well honestly i don't like to share... though if im getting something out of it then it doesn't take much pursuasion. then again i already know how i'd react.
well i don't think i'd mine sharing myself ....just not my husband. thus....all about ME.
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and lets face it, how would people react if someone fronted up to them and asked them if they wanted to have a 3some. people think youre weird or a pervert. quite honestly the more 'organic' it is, the better. you know if the third party comes in while the other two are doing there thing. after that intial contact you tend to relax into it. and to me that's the best way.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
there's a couple of things that have that effect on me.
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Sha la la la i'm in love with a jersey girl
I love you forever and forever
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i think most do...and while they fantasize, realize it really isn't something for them necessarily. kinda like open relationships.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
but then how do they know unless they try?
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
i think some/most people are good enough to know themselves, their jealousy issues, self-esteem, etc.....and just *know* to a certain degree what will *work* for them or not. i think this is why much remains in the realm of *fantasy* for many, b/c most realize their own egos and/or relationships may not be strong enough to handle it? don't want to risk it? honestly...i cannot say b/c i certainly don't know what is going on in other people's minds, but that would be my best guess. bottomline.....just b/c one CAN do something, doesn't truly mean they would WANT to, necessarily. that, and perhaps beyond their one partner...too difficult to find another willing partner up to their standards?
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
well honestly i don't like to share... though if im getting something out of it then it doesn't take much pursuasion. then again i already know how i'd react.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
well i don't think i'd mine sharing myself
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
oh totally. if i'm not enjoying it then it ain't getting done. and ive found the perfect partner in crime... so to speak.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
I don't share well.......:mad:
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
As long as the ground rules are there and obeyed..frankly its awesome!!!
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*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)
weird, its hard to put details in a text for a thrad
OH MY........!!!!!!!
Did you Eiffel tower her
hehehehehehehe
I take it you know what that is..........I didn't think anyone would
its been talked about before on here....:)
damn and i missed it..........
there was something to do with sand aswell.....;)
have you heard of the chili dog
chili, chili...... rings a bell.....;)
can you tell me without getting banned??
probably not...........I would anyway but I just back from a really really long forced hiatus..........
use you pmthingy??
what is it???
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
What's a chili dog?? Man....wtf??
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."