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  • failedpersephone
    failedpersephone Posts: 3,424
    catefrances wrote:
    it just takes a level of comfort that a lot of people can't quite grasp. and that's okay. tis not really a situation where you want one of the parties being hesitant.
    that is kinda what I have been saying - I am hoping that they recognize this comfort level honestly.
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    failedpersephone wrote:
    that is kinda what I have been saying - I am hoping that they recognize this comfort level honestly.

    and lets face it, how would people react if someone fronted up to them and asked them if they wanted to have a 3some. people think youre weird or a pervert. quite honestly the more 'organic' it is, the better. you know if the third party comes in while the other two are doing there thing. after that intial contact you tend to relax into it. and to me that's the best way.
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  • Spunkie
    Spunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 7,095
    Don't it just make you crave it again and again, though!
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    tish wrote:
    Don't it just make you crave it again and again, though!

    there's a couple of things that have that effect on me.
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  • Zoso
    Zoso Posts: 6,425
    comebackgirl wrote:
    I'll see what I can arrange ;) Put you to the test :D:p

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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    failedpersephone wrote:
    that is kinda what I have been saying - I am hoping that they recognize this comfort level honestly.


    i think most do...and while they fantasize, realize it really isn't something for them necessarily. kinda like open relationships. ;) haha.
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    decides2dream wrote:
    i think most do...and while they fantasize, realize it really isn't something for them necessarily. kinda like open relationships. ;) haha.

    but then how do they know unless they try?
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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    catefrances wrote:
    but then how do they know unless they try?

    i think some/most people are good enough to know themselves, their jealousy issues, self-esteem, etc.....and just *know* to a certain degree what will *work* for them or not. i think this is why much remains in the realm of *fantasy* for many, b/c most realize their own egos and/or relationships may not be strong enough to handle it? don't want to risk it? honestly...i cannot say b/c i certainly don't know what is going on in other people's minds, but that would be my best guess. bottomline.....just b/c one CAN do something, doesn't truly mean they would WANT to, necessarily. that, and perhaps beyond their one partner...too difficult to find another willing partner up to their standards? :p lawd knows it's difficult to land one worthy male......;) then try to be at all *experimental*.......:D haha.
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    decides2dream wrote:
    i think some/most people are good enough to know themselves, their jealousy issues, self-esteem, etc.....and just *know* to a certain degree what will *work* for them or not. i think this is why much remains in the realm of *fantasy* for many, b/c most realize their own egos and/or relationships may not be strong enough to handle it? don't want to risk it? honestly...i cannot say b/c i certainly don't know what is going on in other people's minds, but that would be my best guess. bottomline.....just b/c one CAN do something, doesn't truly mean they would WANT to, necessarily. that, and perhaps beyond their one partner...too difficult to find another willing partner up to their standards? :p lawd knows it's difficult to land one worthy male......;) then try to be at all *experimental*.......:D haha.

    well honestly i don't like to share... though if im getting something out of it then it doesn't take much pursuasion. then again i already know how i'd react.
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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    catefrances wrote:
    well honestly i don't like to share... though if im getting something out of it then it doesn't take much pursuasion. then again i already know how i'd react.


    well i don't think i'd mine sharing myself ;)....just not my husband. :D thus....all about ME. :p
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    decides2dream wrote:
    well i don't think i'd mine sharing myself ;)....just not my husband. :D thus....all about ME. :p

    oh totally. if i'm not enjoying it then it ain't getting done. and ive found the perfect partner in crime... so to speak. :)
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  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    decides2dream wrote:
    well i don't think i'd mine sharing myself ;)....just not my husband. :D thus....all about ME. :p


    I don't share well.......:mad:
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  • Theo316
    Theo316 Posts: 30
    I have had one and continue to on occaision with my wife and best friend,
    As long as the ground rules are there and obeyed..frankly its awesome!!!
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  • Sprunkn7
    Sprunkn7 Posts: 5,286
    I used to tell bf all the time that I need to pimp him out to feed my PJ habit. He got mad once. ;), so I don't joke about it anymore.
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  • g under p
    g under p Surfing The far side of THE Sombrero Galaxy Posts: 18,237
    Forget about all this threesome stuff and do like FREAKSHOW from the White Castle movie and have real good time. :D

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  • HailHailVitalogy
    HailHailVitalogy Posts: 6,020
    so it happened...it was pretty interesting...we switched off sides so that we wouldnt be both on her ass, but she was begging for it

    weird, its hard to put details in a text for a thrad
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  • Linda
    Linda Posts: 1,656
    HailHailVitalogy wrote:
    so it happened...it was pretty interesting...we switched off sides so that we wouldnt be both on her ass, but she was begging for it

    weird, its hard to put details in a text for a thrad


    OH MY........!!!!!!! :D
    i'm not happy yet.....
  • samick
    samick Posts: 373
    HailHailVitalogy wrote:
    so it happened...it was pretty interesting...we switched off sides so that we wouldnt be both on her ass, but she was begging for it

    weird, its hard to put details in a text for a thrad


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  • Linda
    Linda Posts: 1,656
    samick wrote:
    Did you Eiffel tower her


    hehehehehehehe :D
    i'm not happy yet.....
  • samick
    samick Posts: 373
    Linda wrote:
    hehehehehehehe :D


    I take it you know what that is..........I didn't think anyone would
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