Cyber bullying

Yoyoyo

Jeanie wrote:

Well I'm sorry you're upset.

Don't forget it helps to talk it out.

Talking it out might actually do something, but your just mulling about typing to cyber"friends". It is not productive. Find some humans that can watch you cry, tears are easy sympathy for the pathetic.

Jeanie

Mestophar wrote:

Talking it out might actually do something, but your just mulling about typing to cyber"friends". It is not productive. Find some humans that can watch you cry, tears are easy sympathy for the pathetic.

Clearly you couldn't get past yourself again to see that I was being sarcastic.

Anyway my charming little judge and jury I'll start taking advice about my life from you when you actually appear to be capable of offering something of value.

But seriously now, I do hope you have a great life. Coz it seems for all your carry on you still keep popping up for more of this rubbish conversation between us.

One would have to wonder why that is?

dunkman

genie wrote:

i know proper spelling should be shit

but i prefer shite because when you say it, it sounds differently.

wrong.. shite is spelled correctly.

its a Scottish word.

genie

Trailer wrote:

Yeah, I thought you were just a big joker at first... but now I think you are a bully!! Stop bullying me, bully!

edit: I'm joking... I know how sensitive you are:p:D

how could you say this to me Trailer??!! i'm on my second tissue now :( , i'm crying non-stop, if i don't stop crying i will flood my workplace and then i will definitely get fired!!


hehe

genie

dunkman wrote:

wrong.. shite is spelled correctly.

its a Scottish word.

wow, it is true! thank you dunkman i do like learning new things in here.

and SS thought you made a typo :rolleyes:

dunkman

genie wrote:

and SS thought you made a typo :rolleyes:

he didnt really think i'd made a typo...he was making a joke... and in this joke he changed my quote to read something different which meant that instead of me mocking him turned him into a cool dude... re-read them and you'll see what he's done.

Heineken Helen

whitepants wrote:

Helen, in my situation, I was harrassed via email with taunts and teasing. My messageboard that those women used to be members of, they secretly maintained ties to the community, and access was given to them to read the comments posted there, and in turn, they would copy sensitive information, and go to a rival community and post the comments there. This was very embarrassing and hurtful. It became a cloak and dagger game of trying to decipher who the moles were, and when the wrong people were excised, on the rival board, messages would be posted like "Ha! you missed, I'm still there".

These women, because of our former close friendships, revealed my full name and place of work just to demonstrate the lengths they would go to to harm me, and to show the control they had over me by publishing private information about me. Pictures I posted in on my messageboard, in the past, were copied and saved and posted elsewhere.

It was God awful, I could go on and on. But basically, cyberbullying is serious, and when you feel scared, threaten, embarrassed by real facts and information posted about you, or even false information posted about you meant to defame your character, makes you feel completely out of control and victimized.

Be careful of whom you befriend on the internet, and be careful about what private information you share about yourself to people you meet on the net. You may be friends for a while, but it takes one bad situation to end a friendship, and for that former friend to really show their true colors.

Mind, my harrassers were women well into their 40's (some married with kids!), fucking older than me at the time, so just imagine the shit the younger people can endure. The stress from that summer of 2005 harrassment caused me to lose 11lbs, and I was already a size 6!

:eek: I'm really really sorry to hear all that. Obviously there's no doubt in my mind that once 'real' stuff is made public and shared that they've definitely gone too far

Heineken Helen

Ahnimus wrote:

Really? I think I've had someone PM me like that once and I ignored it. Usually people just openly trash talk me. The PMs I get are usually in quiet support of something I've said. Which could be analogous, in the sense that they don't speak up, maybe of fear of being trash talked too. Thankfully, I really don't give a shit what people think about me.

Yep, I've had PLENTY of pm's from people backing me up whenever I speak out against members of a certain clique. People ARE afraid to say anything... and I don't understand why cos this clique is full of pussies and as soon as you call them on anything they get all upset and get the rest of the clique to back them up and it can be quite funny! But yes, I have got one or two pretty scary pm's... but luckily those people didn't know where I live. If they knew where I live it would be a whole differrent matter.

Heineken Helen

dunkman wrote:

wrong.. shite is spelled correctly.

its a Scottish word.

Shite's an Irish word ya bollox. You brits stole it off us in the 12th century :cool:

surfanddestroy

dunkman wrote:

wrong.. shite is spelled correctly.

its a Scottish word.

Not just Scottish, we say it in England all the time.

RolandTD20Kdrummer

Interesting to note the people lacking compassion, or showing aggression in this thread. How obvious can you make it that there is something not right with the picture i.e. slight personality disorder for lack of a better term?

Heineken Helen

RolandTD20Kdrummer wrote:

Interesting to note the people lacking compassion, or showing aggression in this thread. How obvious can you make it that there is something not right with the picture i.e. slight personality disorder for lack of a better term?

that's why I wanted to know specific examples... and I've got some now so I can understand more where people are coming from. Before that I thought it was just a case of maybe people being assholes and the recipient being overly sensitive. Now I can see there is more to it than that. However we all have a responsibility to ourselves to be careful about what details we give out... and about giving out personal information. If you're receiving a threat that you perceive to be real, well that's as wrong as it is in real life and so you must report that first to the mods and, if you feel it's dangerous, then to the police.