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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Yeah, tricky little XY that I am, and there's me with all that stuff validating women's rights too, then get called sexist.
    Lucy is my guitar, Lucy the Les P.


    LMAO!!!! Ah lucy!!! :D

    So much pleasure to be had just from your little log in!!! :D
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  • Scubascott
    Scubascott Posts: 815
    Yeah, tricky little XY that I am, and there's me with all that stuff validating women's rights too, then get called sexist.
    Lucy is my guitar, Lucy the Les P.

    Ah. . . Les Paul. . .

    Now I'm imagining girl on girl action while Jimmy Page plays 'No Quarter' in the background.
    It doesn't matter if you're male, female, or confused; black, white, brown, red, green, yellow; gay, lesbian; redneck cop, stoned; ugly; military style, doggy style; fat, rich or poor; vegetarian or cannibal; bum, hippie, virgin; famous or drunk-you're either an asshole or you're not!

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  • lucylespian
    lucylespian Posts: 2,403
    Scubascott wrote:
    Ah. . . Les Paul. . .

    Now I'm imagining girl on girl action while Jimmy Page plays 'No Quarter' in the background.

    ooooooh, serious porn music !! I'm getting that grinding vibe .......

    Jeanie, please tell this old luddite what LMAO meams, I am so clueless !!
    Music is not a competetion.
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    ooooooh, serious porn music !! I'm getting that grinding vibe .......

    Led Zep? Porn music? Hmmmm......hang on gotta find the cd and check that! :)
    Now TOOL that is porn music! :p Or if you're feeling funky and in for some fun, maybe Donna Summer or Hot Chocolate!! :D

    Jeanie, please tell this old luddite what LMAO meams, I am so clueless !!

    Ok cyber abbreviations 101. Attention class! :D

    LMAO = Laughing My Ass Off
    LOL = 1) Lots of Love or 2) Lots of Laughing
    ttyl = talk to you later
    WTF = What the fuck????

    Anything else I can help you with my dear? :)
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  • Scubascott
    Scubascott Posts: 815
    Jeanie wrote:
    Led Zep? Porn music? Hmmmm......hang on gotta find the cd and check that! :)
    Now TOOL that is porn music! :p Or if you're feeling funky and in for some fun, maybe Donna Summer or Hot Chocolate!! :D

    Its not porn music, but 'No Quarter' is better than sex.

    Tool? What the hell goes on in your bedroom? I bet there's leather involved.
    It doesn't matter if you're male, female, or confused; black, white, brown, red, green, yellow; gay, lesbian; redneck cop, stoned; ugly; military style, doggy style; fat, rich or poor; vegetarian or cannibal; bum, hippie, virgin; famous or drunk-you're either an asshole or you're not!

    -C Addison
  • lucylespian
    lucylespian Posts: 2,403
    Scubascott wrote:
    Its not porn music, but 'No Quarter' is better than sex.

    Tool? What the hell goes on in your bedroom? I bet there's leather involved.

    No Quatter has that groovy slow grrove, toallty porn
    Music is not a competetion.
  • OutOfBreath
    OutOfBreath Posts: 1,804
    Scubascott wrote:
    Its not porn music, but 'No Quarter' is better than sex.

    Tool? What the hell goes on in your bedroom? I bet there's leather involved.
    Dude, I have The Downward Spiral by NIN as a personal favorite for such occasions. ;) Different tastes, my brother. :)

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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Scubascott wrote:
    Its not porn music, but 'No Quarter' is better than sex.

    Well having just listened to it scott, it sounds very much like sex music to me. A lot like epic tool actually, or that should probably be the other way around. :eek: I don't know about better than sex though. :confused: What could be better than sex? I mean good sex of course. :)
    Scubascott wrote:
    Tool? What the hell goes on in your bedroom? I bet there's leather involved.



    :( nothin'! absolutely nothin'! :o me and elmo have been extremely bored in there together for quite a long time. :o

    BUT you should try the live version of Tool's Push It scott.
    Or some of the other slow building Tool songs. VERY excellent sex music!!! :)
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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    No Quatter has that groovy slow grrove, toallty porn

    I agree lucy. :)
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  • OutOfBreath
    OutOfBreath Posts: 1,804
    As for the Casual Sex topic, it's complicated.

    First of all, I wouldn't want it myself, but then again circumstances has been good to me, and my first real relationship to a woman is the one I still have. Thus I am as monogamous as possible. And I think it's great, but acknowledge everyone can't be that lucky, and that if I hadn't lucked out, I would definitely settled for the occasional sex. But this is most definitely a private and personal issue. Different things work for different people, and some people are engaging in things they'll regret later. That won't change.

    Now what really bothers me about the interview at the start here, is all the absurd, traditional and reactionary attitudes of this woman. I take issue with many, if not all of them.

    Women drink because they have meaningless sex? Come on. Women drink and smoke more than before and are getting closer to the male rates. I wonder if greater equality and opportunities can have anything to do with it? Alcohol and going out, like it or not, are linked. And one must go out to meet people. Whether one thinks alcohol should be involved in such activities is another matter, but the fact is that it is.

    She has now changed her opinion because it is now more obvious and isn't hidden anymore? *cough*hypocrite*cough* It was ok for her as they had rules to break, and lament the younger ones that have none to break and thus has no direction???

    The whole "men work like this and women like this" is sociobiology at it's lowest and least applicable. Speculative and extremely imprecise to say the least. And I take offense as a man mostly, as we obviously dont have feelings from nature's side. Personal differences, past experiences and so on is A LOT more important than that little evo-link anyway when it comes to this.

    It's not that I necessarily disagree with the overall sentiment, but by God, the premises like those above really pisses me off.

    *gets off soapbox*

    Peace
    Dan
    "YOU [humans] NEED TO BELIEVE IN THINGS THAT AREN'T TRUE. HOW ELSE CAN THEY BECOME?" - Death

    "Every judgment teeters on the brink of error. To claim absolute knowledge is to become monstrous. Knowledge is an unending adventure at the edge of uncertainty." - Frank Herbert, Dune, 1965
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    Jeanie wrote:
    Well having just listened to it scott, it sounds very much like sex music to me. A lot like epic tool actually, or that should probably be the other way around. :eek: I don't know about better than sex though. :confused: What could be better than sex? I mean good sex of course. :)





    :( nothin'! absolutely nothin'! :o me and elmo have been extremely bored in there together for quite a long time. :o

    BUT you should try the live version of Tool's Push It scott.
    Or some of the other slow building Tool songs. VERY excellent sex music!!! :)
    i usually have pj going when i fuck. i hold the pain release meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • Scubascott
    Scubascott Posts: 815
    Jeanie wrote:
    Well having just listened to it scott, it sounds very much like sex music to me. A lot like epic tool actually, or that should probably be the other way around. :eek: I don't know about better than sex though. :confused: What could be better than sex? I mean good sex of course. :)

    Oh yeah its totally sex music, that's why I mentioned it in the first place. I just didn't want it in the same category as the dodgy 70's porn music, that's all. Its too good to even be mentioned in the same sentence.
    Jeanie wrote:
    :( nothin'! absolutely nothin'! :o me and elmo have been extremely bored in there together for quite a long time. :o

    BUT you should try the live version of Tool's Push It scott.
    Or some of the other slow building Tool songs. VERY excellent sex music!!! :)

    Elmo abuse! He's underage you know. I saw him being interviewed on some talk show once. He's only five years old!

    Pink Floyd makes excellent shagging music too.
    It doesn't matter if you're male, female, or confused; black, white, brown, red, green, yellow; gay, lesbian; redneck cop, stoned; ugly; military style, doggy style; fat, rich or poor; vegetarian or cannibal; bum, hippie, virgin; famous or drunk-you're either an asshole or you're not!

    -C Addison
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    As for the Casual Sex topic, it's complicated.

    First of all, I wouldn't want it myself, but then again circumstances has been good to me, and my first real relationship to a woman is the one I still have. Thus I am as monogamous as possible. And I think it's great, but acknowledge everyone can't be that lucky, and that if I hadn't lucked out, I would definitely settled for the occasional sex. But this is most definitely a private and personal issue. Different things work for different people, and some people are engaging in things they'll regret later. That won't change.

    Now what really bothers me about the interview at the start here, is all the absurd, traditional and reactionary attitudes of this woman. I take issue with many, if not all of them.

    Women drink because they have meaningless sex? Come on. Women drink and smoke more than before and are getting closer to the male rates. I wonder if greater equality and opportunities can have anything to do with it? Alcohol and going out, like it or not, are linked. And one must go out to meet people. Whether one thinks alcohol should be involved in such activities is another matter, but the fact is that it is.

    She has now changed her opinion because it is now more obvious and isn't hidden anymore? *cough*hypocrite*cough* It was ok for her as they had rules to break, and lament the younger ones that have none to break and thus has no direction???

    The whole "men work like this and women like this" is sociobiology at it's lowest and least applicable. Speculative and extremely imprecise to say the least. And I take offense as a man mostly, as we obviously dont have feelings from nature's side. Personal differences, past experiences and so on is A LOT more important than that little evo-link anyway when it comes to this.

    It's not that I necessarily disagree with the overall sentiment, but by God, the premises like those above really pisses me off.

    *gets off soapbox*

    Peace
    Dan

    Wow!! Go Dan!!! :)
    Think you've pretty much covered everything and I agree with you. :)
    NOPE!!!

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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    Jeanie wrote:
    Led Zep? Porn music? Hmmmm......hang on gotta find the cd and check that! :)
    Now TOOL that is porn music! :p Or if you're feeling funky and in for some fun, maybe Donna Summer or Hot Chocolate!! :D


    jeanie jeanie jeanie please lets not get started on TOOL as sex music. you know where that leads. :p:D:D

    Yeah, tricky little XY that I am, and there's me with all that stuff validating women's rights too, then get called sexist.
    Lucy is my guitar, Lucy the Les P.

    i didnt call you a sexist. i said your comment was a veiled sexist comment. and what you said was that it was the pretty girls who were accused of being witches cause they were getting a little too much action. maybe sexist was the wrong term. :)
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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Scubascott wrote:
    Oh yeah its totally sex music, that's why I mentioned it in the first place. I just didn't want it in the same category as the dodgy 70's porn music, that's all. Its too good to even be mentioned in the same sentence..

    hehe!! :D I did say if you wanted to have some fun!!
    I mean come on! Hot Chocolate is enough to send anyone into fits of giggles if they're trying to get down and dirrrty! And giggles can be fun!! :)
    Think lucy was using the term "porn" as a ephemism. He's married! He's probably repressed!! ;):D Or rusty!!! :p:D Kidding lucy!! kidding!! :D



    Scubascott wrote:
    Elmo abuse! He's underage you know. I saw him being interviewed on some talk show once. He's only five years old!

    Pink Floyd makes excellent shagging music too.

    Actually scott, elmo is 3 1/2. He will always be 3 1/2 and his birthday is on the 3rd of Feb I believe. :) Hence it being very G rated in my bedroom. :)

    Ah yes, Pink Floyd do make excellent shagging music. :)
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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    jeanie jeanie jeanie please lets not get started on TOOL as sex music. you know where that leads. :p:D:D

    Prison sex??? ;):p:D
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    Jeanie wrote:
    Prison sex??? ;):p:D

    i'll never tell. :);):p
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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    i usually have pj going when i fuck. i hold the pain release meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee


    :D PJ is for making love.

    Tool is for fucking. :D
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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    i'll never tell. :);):p


    hehe!!! :D Ok! Mum's the word!!! ;)
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    Jeanie wrote:
    :D PJ is for making love.

    Tool is for fucking. :D

    disagree. :)
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