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ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:It seems to me that anti trans feelings existed before feminists.Post edited by Spunkie onI was swimming in the Great Barrier Reef
Animals were hiding behind the Coral
Except for little Turtle
I could swear he's trying to talk to me
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mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:HughFreakingDillon said:ecdanc said:HughFreakingDillon said:ecdanc said:HughFreakingDillon said:this reminds me a lot of having an honest conversation with someone who is a devout christian. many times, you ask a simple question, they get all offended thinking you are making fun of them, when all you want is a straight answer. it's irritating and turns people off from wanting to be an ally or even just understanding their position.
is it really that difficult to have that type of conversation instead of coming from a place of moral superiority?
it's the trans community's responsibility to educate others. and if you wish to present yourself as an advocate, also yours.
it's my responsibility as a decent person to listen.0 -
tish said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:It seems to me that anti trans feelings existed before feminists.
Gender reassignment surgery is the appropriate term, rather than penisectomy.0 -
.Post edited by Spunkie onI was swimming in the Great Barrier Reef
Animals were hiding behind the Coral
Except for little Turtle
I could swear he's trying to talk to me
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tish said:Is that because surgery was not an option pre-colonization?0
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ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:Who here is trans?so how did you come to learn what you have been beating people over the head with. And dont try to deny that FACT.prior to gaining this knowledge , what were your thoughts on this subject?how long was the transition from one thought plane to the other?I'm guessing for most here it's a subject we hadnt needed to think much on. However, since some more recent acceptance surrounding the lives of gay people, room has now been carved out for such conversations. Within that there will a fair amount of misspeaking (based on older ideas not malintent) until we come established language we ALL agree on. So until we can come understand this language set, how about you look at turning the volume down, especially on the accusations and labeling. It isnt helpful to furthering the discussion and our newly learned understanding of this subject and the issues surrounding it. Its new to us.Browbeating may not be the intention but it surely is the result. And intentions are irrelevant in the face of the result._____________________________________SIGNATURE________________________________________________
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ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:HughFreakingDillon said:ecdanc said:HughFreakingDillon said:ecdanc said:HughFreakingDillon said:this reminds me a lot of having an honest conversation with someone who is a devout christian. many times, you ask a simple question, they get all offended thinking you are making fun of them, when all you want is a straight answer. it's irritating and turns people off from wanting to be an ally or even just understanding their position.
is it really that difficult to have that type of conversation instead of coming from a place of moral superiority?
it's the trans community's responsibility to educate others. and if you wish to present yourself as an advocate, also yours.
it's my responsibility as a decent person to listen.By The Time They Figure Out What Went Wrong, We'll Be Sitting On A Beach, Earning Twenty Percent.0 -
ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:mrussel1 said:ecdanc said:HughFreakingDillon said:ecdanc said:HughFreakingDillon said:ecdanc said:HughFreakingDillon said:this reminds me a lot of having an honest conversation with someone who is a devout christian. many times, you ask a simple question, they get all offended thinking you are making fun of them, when all you want is a straight answer. it's irritating and turns people off from wanting to be an ally or even just understanding their position.
is it really that difficult to have that type of conversation instead of coming from a place of moral superiority?
it's the trans community's responsibility to educate others. and if you wish to present yourself as an advocate, also yours.
it's my responsibility as a decent person to listen.0 -
mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:Who here is trans?so how did you come to learn what you have been beating people over the head with. And dont try to deny that FACT.prior to gaining this knowledge , what were your thoughts on this subject?how long was the transition from one thought plane to the other?I'm guessing for most here it's a subject we hadnt needed to think much on. However, since some more recent acceptance surrounding the lives of gay people, room has now been carved out for such conversations. Within that there will a fair amount of misspeaking (based on older ideas not malintent) until we come established language we ALL agree on. So until we can come understand this language set, how about you look at turning the volume down, especially on the accusations and labeling. It isnt helpful to furthering the discussion and our newly learned understanding of this subject and the issues surrounding it. Its new to us.Browbeating may not be the intention but it surely is the result. And intentions are irrelevant in the face of the result.
I have apologized and attempted to modulate my tone for precisely the reason that closes your post.
As for your questions, I was previous ignorant, yes--would never deny that. I grew up in a very insulated, very white, very religious place, so I previously held abhorrent views. I learned about these issues during the latter part of my schooling and once I began my job. None of those answers obviate the responsibility of every individual to do everything within their power to treat trans people with respect from this moment forward.0 -
ecdanc said:tish said:Is that because surgery was not an option pre-colonization?Post edited by Spunkie onI was swimming in the Great Barrier Reef
Animals were hiding behind the Coral
Except for little Turtle
I could swear he's trying to talk to me
Gurgle Gurgle0 -
tish said:ecdanc said:tish said:Is that because surgery was not an option pre-colonization?
As for your last sentence, I'm must confess I don't understand it.0 -
ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:Who here is trans?so how did you come to learn what you have been beating people over the head with. And dont try to deny that FACT.prior to gaining this knowledge , what were your thoughts on this subject?how long was the transition from one thought plane to the other?I'm guessing for most here it's a subject we hadnt needed to think much on. However, since some more recent acceptance surrounding the lives of gay people, room has now been carved out for such conversations. Within that there will a fair amount of misspeaking (based on older ideas not malintent) until we come established language we ALL agree on. So until we can come understand this language set, how about you look at turning the volume down, especially on the accusations and labeling. It isnt helpful to furthering the discussion and our newly learned understanding of this subject and the issues surrounding it. Its new to us.Browbeating may not be the intention but it surely is the result. And intentions are irrelevant in the face of the result.
I have apologized and attempted to modulate my tone for precisely the reason that closes your post.
As for your questions, I was previous ignorant, yes--would never deny that. I grew up in a very insulated, very white, very religious place, so I previously held abhorrent views. I learned about these issues during the latter part of my schooling and once I began my job. None of those answers obviate the responsibility of every individual to do everything within their power to treat trans people with respect from this moment forward.By The Time They Figure Out What Went Wrong, We'll Be Sitting On A Beach, Earning Twenty Percent.0 -
ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:Who here is trans?so how did you come to learn what you have been beating people over the head with. And dont try to deny that FACT.prior to gaining this knowledge , what were your thoughts on this subject?how long was the transition from one thought plane to the other?I'm guessing for most here it's a subject we hadnt needed to think much on. However, since some more recent acceptance surrounding the lives of gay people, room has now been carved out for such conversations. Within that there will a fair amount of misspeaking (based on older ideas not malintent) until we come established language we ALL agree on. So until we can come understand this language set, how about you look at turning the volume down, especially on the accusations and labeling. It isnt helpful to furthering the discussion and our newly learned understanding of this subject and the issues surrounding it. Its new to us.Browbeating may not be the intention but it surely is the result. And intentions are irrelevant in the face of the result.
I have apologized and attempted to modulate my tone for precisely the reason that closes your post.
As for your questions, I was previous ignorant, yes--would never deny that. I grew up in a very insulated, very white, very religious place, so I previously held abhorrent views. I learned about these issues during the latter part of my schooling and once I began my job. None of those answers obviate the responsibility of every individual to do everything within their power to treat trans people with respect from this moment forward.oh so you learned first THEN came to respect.afford the rest of us the same opportunity.your advocacy for these people leaves a lot to be desired.so how about you link some pertinent articles and opinion pieces instead. That may be the most actual help you can offer here.and leave your personal judgements about where we may be on our learning on this at the door._____________________________________SIGNATURE________________________________________________
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '140 -
HughFreakingDillon said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:Who here is trans?so how did you come to learn what you have been beating people over the head with. And dont try to deny that FACT.prior to gaining this knowledge , what were your thoughts on this subject?how long was the transition from one thought plane to the other?I'm guessing for most here it's a subject we hadnt needed to think much on. However, since some more recent acceptance surrounding the lives of gay people, room has now been carved out for such conversations. Within that there will a fair amount of misspeaking (based on older ideas not malintent) until we come established language we ALL agree on. So until we can come understand this language set, how about you look at turning the volume down, especially on the accusations and labeling. It isnt helpful to furthering the discussion and our newly learned understanding of this subject and the issues surrounding it. Its new to us.Browbeating may not be the intention but it surely is the result. And intentions are irrelevant in the face of the result.
I have apologized and attempted to modulate my tone for precisely the reason that closes your post.
As for your questions, I was previous ignorant, yes--would never deny that. I grew up in a very insulated, very white, very religious place, so I previously held abhorrent views. I learned about these issues during the latter part of my schooling and once I began my job. None of those answers obviate the responsibility of every individual to do everything within their power to treat trans people with respect from this moment forward.0 -
mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:Who here is trans?so how did you come to learn what you have been beating people over the head with. And dont try to deny that FACT.prior to gaining this knowledge , what were your thoughts on this subject?how long was the transition from one thought plane to the other?I'm guessing for most here it's a subject we hadnt needed to think much on. However, since some more recent acceptance surrounding the lives of gay people, room has now been carved out for such conversations. Within that there will a fair amount of misspeaking (based on older ideas not malintent) until we come established language we ALL agree on. So until we can come understand this language set, how about you look at turning the volume down, especially on the accusations and labeling. It isnt helpful to furthering the discussion and our newly learned understanding of this subject and the issues surrounding it. Its new to us.Browbeating may not be the intention but it surely is the result. And intentions are irrelevant in the face of the result.
I have apologized and attempted to modulate my tone for precisely the reason that closes your post.
As for your questions, I was previous ignorant, yes--would never deny that. I grew up in a very insulated, very white, very religious place, so I previously held abhorrent views. I learned about these issues during the latter part of my schooling and once I began my job. None of those answers obviate the responsibility of every individual to do everything within their power to treat trans people with respect from this moment forward.oh so you learned first THEN came to respect.afford the rest of us the same opportunity.your advocacy for these people leaves a lot to be desired.so how about you link some pertinent articles and opinion pieces instead. That may be the most actual help you can offer here.and leave your personal judgements about where we may be on our learning on this at the door.0 -
.Post edited by Spunkie onI was swimming in the Great Barrier Reef
Animals were hiding behind the Coral
Except for little Turtle
I could swear he's trying to talk to me
Gurgle Gurgle0 -
tish said:Much of Indigenous history has been kept alive through oral-narration, or story-telling, as First Nation people had very few words. For example, grand-parent would be used instead of grand-mother/grand-father and hello and good-bye are the same. Who asides from Oscar Wilde has your colleague studied?0
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ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:Who here is trans?so how did you come to learn what you have been beating people over the head with. And dont try to deny that FACT.prior to gaining this knowledge , what were your thoughts on this subject?how long was the transition from one thought plane to the other?I'm guessing for most here it's a subject we hadnt needed to think much on. However, since some more recent acceptance surrounding the lives of gay people, room has now been carved out for such conversations. Within that there will a fair amount of misspeaking (based on older ideas not malintent) until we come established language we ALL agree on. So until we can come understand this language set, how about you look at turning the volume down, especially on the accusations and labeling. It isnt helpful to furthering the discussion and our newly learned understanding of this subject and the issues surrounding it. Its new to us.Browbeating may not be the intention but it surely is the result. And intentions are irrelevant in the face of the result.
I have apologized and attempted to modulate my tone for precisely the reason that closes your post.
As for your questions, I was previous ignorant, yes--would never deny that. I grew up in a very insulated, very white, very religious place, so I previously held abhorrent views. I learned about these issues during the latter part of my schooling and once I began my job. None of those answers obviate the responsibility of every individual to do everything within their power to treat trans people with respect from this moment forward.oh so you learned first THEN came to respect.afford the rest of us the same opportunity.your advocacy for these people leaves a lot to be desired.so how about you link some pertinent articles and opinion pieces instead. That may be the most actual help you can offer here.and leave your personal judgements about where we may be on our learning on this at the door.
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Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '140 -
mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:Who here is trans?so how did you come to learn what you have been beating people over the head with. And dont try to deny that FACT.prior to gaining this knowledge , what were your thoughts on this subject?how long was the transition from one thought plane to the other?I'm guessing for most here it's a subject we hadnt needed to think much on. However, since some more recent acceptance surrounding the lives of gay people, room has now been carved out for such conversations. Within that there will a fair amount of misspeaking (based on older ideas not malintent) until we come established language we ALL agree on. So until we can come understand this language set, how about you look at turning the volume down, especially on the accusations and labeling. It isnt helpful to furthering the discussion and our newly learned understanding of this subject and the issues surrounding it. Its new to us.Browbeating may not be the intention but it surely is the result. And intentions are irrelevant in the face of the result.
I have apologized and attempted to modulate my tone for precisely the reason that closes your post.
As for your questions, I was previous ignorant, yes--would never deny that. I grew up in a very insulated, very white, very religious place, so I previously held abhorrent views. I learned about these issues during the latter part of my schooling and once I began my job. None of those answers obviate the responsibility of every individual to do everything within their power to treat trans people with respect from this moment forward.oh so you learned first THEN came to respect.afford the rest of us the same opportunity.your advocacy for these people leaves a lot to be desired.so how about you link some pertinent articles and opinion pieces instead. That may be the most actual help you can offer here.and leave your personal judgements about where we may be on our learning on this at the door.
Here it is for you.0 -
ecdanc said:HughFreakingDillon said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:ecdanc said:mickeyrat said:Who here is trans?so how did you come to learn what you have been beating people over the head with. And dont try to deny that FACT.prior to gaining this knowledge , what were your thoughts on this subject?how long was the transition from one thought plane to the other?I'm guessing for most here it's a subject we hadnt needed to think much on. However, since some more recent acceptance surrounding the lives of gay people, room has now been carved out for such conversations. Within that there will a fair amount of misspeaking (based on older ideas not malintent) until we come established language we ALL agree on. So until we can come understand this language set, how about you look at turning the volume down, especially on the accusations and labeling. It isnt helpful to furthering the discussion and our newly learned understanding of this subject and the issues surrounding it. Its new to us.Browbeating may not be the intention but it surely is the result. And intentions are irrelevant in the face of the result.
I have apologized and attempted to modulate my tone for precisely the reason that closes your post.
As for your questions, I was previous ignorant, yes--would never deny that. I grew up in a very insulated, very white, very religious place, so I previously held abhorrent views. I learned about these issues during the latter part of my schooling and once I began my job. None of those answers obviate the responsibility of every individual to do everything within their power to treat trans people with respect from this moment forward.By The Time They Figure Out What Went Wrong, We'll Be Sitting On A Beach, Earning Twenty Percent.0
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