Should I ask Agnes out on a date?

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  • mcgruff10
    mcgruff10 New Jersey Posts: 29,130
    Yes
    No wonder why Agnes said no. Spiritual probably tried to cut her salad/pizza with a pair of dull ass scissors on their first date. 
    I'll ride the wave where it takes me......
  • dudeman
    dudeman Posts: 3,161
    Maybe Thoughts Arrive should ask Agnes out next.
    If hope can grow from dirt like me, it can be done. - EV
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Yes
    dudeman said:
    Maybe Thoughts Arrive should ask Agnes out next.
    But I'm a mutant on table # 9
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • dudeman
    dudeman Posts: 3,161
    Rise above, man! Rise above.

    Aspire to move out of the sister's basement of love.
    If hope can grow from dirt like me, it can be done. - EV
  • Annafalk
    Annafalk Sweden Posts: 4,004
    Yes
    https://youtu.be/ZXsQAXx_ao0
  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    No
    njnancy said:
    OffSheGoes35 said:
    njnancy said:
    OffSheGoes35 said:
    You guys are being way too reassuring. Dyer, we are both going to be posting in the Dying Alone thread when we're 80. 
    There's a Dying Alone thread? I'd fit right in there. I need to start liking cats and housecoats.
    We are gonna laugh and crochet 'til the cows (don't) come home!!! 
    And when we forget how to crochet, we'll just laugh. And wonder who the hell the other one is. :lol:
    Sounds good to me! Lol!

    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    dudeman said:
    Maybe Thoughts Arrive should ask Agnes out next.
    But I'm a mutant on table # 9
    You're not allowed to watch Adam Sandler movies anymore. His movies are not meant to make life-altering impressions. Try some Will Ferrell instead. Please.
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,915
    Yes
    Yes will ferrall.  Good choice


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • LongestRoad
    LongestRoad Posts: 477
    No
    lastexitlondon said:
    Yes will ferrall.  Good choice
    Yes stranger than fiction
  • Spiritual_Chaos
    Spiritual_Chaos Posts: 31,484
    LongestRoad said:
    lastexitlondon said:
    Yes will ferrall.  Good choice
    Yes stranger than fiction
    Remember loving that film. But has never had the energy to re-watch it. Even though I've tried on netflix.
    "Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
  • njnancy
    njnancy Posts: 5,096
    Yes
    Annafalk said:
    https://youtu.be/ZXsQAXx_ao0
    Is this a serious thing? :open_mouth:
  • Annafalk
    Annafalk Sweden Posts: 4,004
    edited November 2018
    Yes
    njnancy said:
    Annafalk said:
    https://youtu.be/ZXsQAXx_ao0
    Is this a serious thing? :open_mouth:
    I have no idea, just thought it was funny and it could fit in this thread somehow :)
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  • njnancy
    njnancy Posts: 5,096
    Yes
    Annafalk said:
    njnancy said:
    Annafalk said:
    https://youtu.be/ZXsQAXx_ao0
    Is this a serious thing? :open_mouth:
    I have no idea, just thought it was funny and it could fit in this thread somehow :)
    Absolutely fits. :smile:
  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    No
    Stranger Than Fiction!! I can just watch the Whole Wide World scene on youtube, and fall in love with Will Ferrell all over again. All you have to do is learn one song on the guitar, guys...just make sure it's the right song and you're all set! If he would've been singing "American Pie" while I was in the kitchen, he would've opened his eyes to an empty apartment. And it's a long song, so I could pack all my shit and move. :)
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Yes
    After reading this article today and seeing both of my sisters' marriages be unhappy I am not very optimistic about dating and relationships...
    https://www.theage.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/i-felt-as-if-the-person-i-knew-died-the-rise-of-the-no-warning-divorce-20181113-p50fq3.html?fbclid=IwAR0DIdgJ6ioNOeX0Y0SbEu3SnUSndWMHwmhzPzbZJm6V96v7lk0mB2NY38k
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • bootlegger10
    bootlegger10 Posts: 16,258
    Yes
    If you don’t want to date and get married then move on and live your life.  Travel, work, volunteer, learn an instrument, etc....  If you do though, then yes, there are no guarantees you won’t get hurt.
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Yes
    bootlegger10 said:
    If you don’t want to date and get married then move on and live your life.  Travel, work, volunteer, learn an instrument, etc....  If you do though, then yes, there are no guarantees you won’t get hurt.
    I hurt bad when it comes to being ignored by people. I sunk into depression recently when people didn't bother saying hello to me at university after I made an effort introducing myself. The next time they'd see me they just walk past without saying hello or even smiling.
    I sunk into depression when a former colleague all of a sudden stopped wanting to go on lunch break with me like she used to for years before. She just 'ghosted' me and would never give me a reason why when I asked. Seeing I am so sensitive to actual or perceived rejection I believe I would be at big risk of suicide if a love relationship ended. 
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • bootlegger10
    bootlegger10 Posts: 16,258
    edited November 2018
    Yes
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    bootlegger10 said:
    If you don’t want to date and get married then move on and live your life.  Travel, work, volunteer, learn an instrument, etc....  If you do though, then yes, there are no guarantees you won’t get hurt.
    I hurt bad when it comes to being ignored by people. I sunk into depression recently when people didn't bother saying hello to me at university after I made an effort introducing myself. The next time they'd see me they just walk past without saying hello or even smiling.
    I sunk into depression when a former colleague all of a sudden stopped wanting to go on lunch break with me like she used to for years before. She just 'ghosted' me and would never give me a reason why when I asked. Seeing I am so sensitive to actual or perceived rejection I believe I would be at big risk of suicide if a love relationship ended. 

    I can understand how that would hurt.  I'm not expert on these things.  I just think we are all born with different genes and personalities.  I wish I was the person who was the last to leave at a party and start up a conversation with anyone, but I'm the person that wants to leave right away.  We just need to accept who we are and that's when you have a chance to be content.  Sure, we should always keep going and try to improve ourselves, but I just made a decision I wasn't going to beat myself up for not being a big extrovert.  it wasn't my fault.   I wasn't going to spend all this time trying to be this person I wasn't. 

    P.S. No matter how happy people look on the outside, they have their own personal demons they are battling.  Don't be jealous of people or assume their lives are perfect because they more than likely aren't. 


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  • bootlegger10
    bootlegger10 Posts: 16,258
    edited November 2018
    Yes

    Don't take life too seriously either.  We are here for just a brief millisecond in the history of time.  I hear people say they don't want to waste their life, or some worry about being remembered.  Who gives a f'ck what you do with your life?  How many billions and billions of people have come before us?  Maybe 0.00001% of them we have some sort of history on?  Nobody is going to remember or care about any of us after a few generations unless we left a bunch of money and our great great grandchildren get asked by someone where the money came from.   

    I don't mean this in a depressing way.  I mean it in an uplifting way.  You can't waste your life.  Just be yourself.  People take themselves too damn seriously.  We are all here just existing for a brief moment in time.  FDR isn't lying in his grave enjoying how well the world looks upon him.  He's dead. 

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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Yes
    Thanks Bootlegger. 
    Lately I've been looking up people I went to high school with to see what they're up to and most are married with kids.
    It's been getting me down. I don't know why I do it when it hurts.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Annafalk
    Annafalk Sweden Posts: 4,004
    Yes
    bootlegger10 said:

    Don't take life too seriously either.  We are here for just a brief millisecond in the history of time.  I hear people say they don't want to waste their life, or some worry about being remembered.  Who gives a f'ck what you do with your life?  How many billions and billions of people have come before us?  Maybe 0.00001% of them we have some sort of history on?  Nobody is going to remember or care about any of us after a few generations unless we left a bunch of money and our great great grandchildren get asked by someone where the money came from.   

    I don't mean this in a depressing way.  I mean it in an uplifting way.  You can't waste your life.  Just be yourself.  People take themselves too damn seriously.  We are all here just existing for a brief moment in time.  FDR isn't lying in his grave enjoying how well the world looks upon him.  He's dead. 

    This helped me today, thinking about this, thank you !

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