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lastexitlondon said:Ive gotten to an all time low. Im sick and tired and physically ill with no answers.
Ive got a load of tee shirts i just unearthed all womens or kids . Very small unworn or worn once. Anyone have kids they want a tee shirt for i would like to give a few away to people who have helped me. And have listened when nobody else would. I cant be bothered working out what they are worth and all that shit.
Im very grateful to my friends here. I re read hedos message to me at her darkest time she told me keep my chin up. I feel i let her down by not being able to be strong in the face of illness myself like she and my dad were.
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Good people here. Thanks folks
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I wish there was a way to switch this off
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Hello. So i wont go into my whole backstory but needless to say i have suffered from anxiety for years. I have tried to convince myself i have it under control and it doesn’t really impact my life too much but really it affects so much of what i do. The main issues i face is around driving and heights. It makes vacations a nightmare. But it also has gotten to the point where I hardly drive anywhere anymore unless its backroads rthat i drive almost daily. The highway has become a nightmare for me as well as roads i am not familiar with. It started with a new fear of heights I acquired 20 years ago and got worse after i passed out from a minor heart condition i have.
Anyway after a week that has gone really badly I visited my dr this week and agreed to go on Lexapro. I have major concerns about taking a drug daily, I dont really trust these things if i am being honest. I am concerned about side effects and other possible interactions. Which is something i wanted to ask about. I figure there are others here on Lexapro or something similar. I am someone who enjoys visiting breweries and usually have a few beers most Saturday nights and also when on vacation. I asked my Dr about it and he said just take the pill in the morning and it should not be an issue. But i dangerously starting looking it up online and see many hard nos for any alcohol and Lexapro. Does anyone here take it and also still enjoy a few drinks? I men i guess if this pill really solves a lot of the anxiety issues I could learn to deal with not drinking anymore but holduays, dinner with friends, concerts, i really enjoy a few beers doing those things.
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Drink and anti depressants wont harm you but they wont work as well. Basically drink is a depressant so its like taking both cancel out eachother. Ive found side effects can be mild mostly but getting off them has been a nightmare. Its very individual. I guess try and see what happens. You can always stop one or the other
Although stopping drinking is very hard indeed. I think any advice would be anecdotal but i dont know many if any. Maybe one person on here that has benefited much from ssri . My experience and my family and friends experience is short term you may become like an emotionless wall of bluntness but as far as anything like a cure. My opinion is no pills can do that. But just my experience not to be used as a guide or anything
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After re reading . I understand if you had a heart issue that pills may worry you too so an extra reason to think longer.
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marjen said:Hello. So i wont go into my whole backstory but needless to say i have suffered from anxiety for years. I have tried to convince myself i have it under control and it doesn’t really impact my life too much but really it affects so much of what i do. The main issues i face is around driving and heights. It makes vacations a nightmare. But it also has gotten to the point where I hardly drive anywhere anymore unless its backroads rthat i drive almost daily. The highway has become a nightmare for me as well as roads i am not familiar with. It started with a new fear of heights I acquired 20 years ago and got worse after i passed out from a minor heart condition i have.
Anyway after a week that has gone really badly I visited my dr this week and agreed to go on Lexapro. I have major concerns about taking a drug daily, I dont really trust these things if i am being honest. I am concerned about side effects and other possible interactions. Which is something i wanted to ask about. I figure there are others here on Lexapro or something similar. I am someone who enjoys visiting breweries and usually have a few beers most Saturday nights and also when on vacation. I asked my Dr about it and he said just take the pill in the morning and it should not be an issue. But i dangerously starting looking it up online and see many hard nos for any alcohol and Lexapro. Does anyone here take it and also still enjoy a few drinks? I men i guess if this pill really solves a lot of the anxiety issues I could learn to deal with not drinking anymore but holduays, dinner with friends, concerts, i really enjoy a few beers doing those things.
Thanks for any feedback.
I tried a pill for a while when I was really down, it worked, took 6 or 8 weeks like the dr said, but yea it worked. I got better with therapy and life situations and weened off the pill. I may need it again, who knows. fyi I stopped drinking during this time too, not totally, but realized it's not worth the after effects for me...
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Ive been encouraged to try a couple new meds and i must admit im giving it extra thoughts as i really have nothing to lose the severity of this now. Its very hard to decide
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lastexitlondon said:Drink and anti depressants wont harm you but they wont work as well. Basically drink is a depressant so its like taking both cancel out eachother. Ive found side effects can be mild mostly but getting off them has been a nightmare. Its very individual. I guess try and see what happens. You can always stop one or the other
Although stopping drinking is very hard indeed. I think any advice would be anecdotal but i dont know many if any. Maybe one person on here that has benefited much from ssri . My experience and my family and friends experience is short term you may become like an emotionless wall of bluntness but as far as anything like a cure. My opinion is no pills can do that. But just my experience not to be used as a guide or anything
I kind of feel like I might need to consider it again to help with anxiety and self esteem, etc. It worked wonders before.Remember the Thomas Nine !! (10/02/2018)
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Thanks. Yeah I don’t plan on drinking at all for at least the first few weeks as I want to see how the medicine works without anything handicapping it. Have read a lot of stories where people drink and for the most part have no issues. I also know alcohol can work against the drugs so will see how things go. Right now my anxiety is at an all time high. I cant really even drive right now as I had a panic attack behind the wheel last week. This stemmed from a situation mountain biking the week prior where I passed out. It’s not the first time, it’s happened twice before over the last 20 or so years. It’s supposedly related to a minor heart issue I have. But mountain biking is usually the thing I do to manage my anxiety and now that is just blown up. Tried to ride twice last week and did short slow rides and every time I got out of breath was worried about passing out again. So now the anxiety has just taken hold. Very frustrated and defeated at the moment. That’s why we’ll discuss the incident with my dr I decided to finally try anxiety meds. I think anxiety has potentially played a role in the passing out as all e times i has having anxious days. Not to see I haven’t had a ton of other lol, but think just the perfect storm hits and it can impact my condition.I started on the Lexapro Sunday. Some minor side effects which sound normal and I realize it will take a few weeks too hopefully work and man do I hope it does.0
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marjen said:Thanks. Yeah I don’t plan on drinking at all for at least the first few weeks as I want to see how the medicine works without anything handicapping it. Have read a lot of stories where people drink and for the most part have no issues. I also know alcohol can work against the drugs so will see how things go. Right now my anxiety is at an all time high. I cant really even drive right now as I had a panic attack behind the wheel last week. This stemmed from a situation mountain biking the week prior where I passed out. It’s not the first time, it’s happened twice before over the last 20 or so years. It’s supposedly related to a minor heart issue I have. But mountain biking is usually the thing I do to manage my anxiety and now that is just blown up. Tried to ride twice last week and did short slow rides and every time I got out of breath was worried about passing out again. So now the anxiety has just taken hold. Very frustrated and defeated at the moment. That’s why we’ll discuss the incident with my dr I decided to finally try anxiety meds. I think anxiety has potentially played a role in the passing out as all e times i has having anxious days. Not to see I haven’t had a ton of other lol, but think just the perfect storm hits and it can impact my condition.I started on the Lexapro Sunday. Some minor side effects which sound normal and I realize it will take a few weeks too hopefully work and man do I hope it does.
I will share from my own life that I never knew I had anxiety, thought it was normal, walking around near panic attack all the time, yippie. So therapy really helped me, 1st year was really just recognizing it and what causes it. 2nd year really found strategies to manage and deal with it. And we keep it moving from there.Wouldn't it be funny if the world ended in 2010, with lots of fire?0 -
marjen said:Hello. So i wont go into my whole backstory but needless to say i have suffered from anxiety for years. I have tried to convince myself i have it under control and it doesn’t really impact my life too much but really it affects so much of what i do. The main issues i face is around driving and heights. It makes vacations a nightmare. But it also has gotten to the point where I hardly drive anywhere anymore unless its backroads rthat i drive almost daily. The highway has become a nightmare for me as well as roads i am not familiar with. It started with a new fear of heights I acquired 20 years ago and got worse after i passed out from a minor heart condition i have.
Anyway after a week that has gone really badly I visited my dr this week and agreed to go on Lexapro. I have major concerns about taking a drug daily, I dont really trust these things if i am being honest. I am concerned about side effects and other possible interactions. Which is something i wanted to ask about. I figure there are others here on Lexapro or something similar. I am someone who enjoys visiting breweries and usually have a few beers most Saturday nights and also when on vacation. I asked my Dr about it and he said just take the pill in the morning and it should not be an issue. But i dangerously starting looking it up online and see many hard nos for any alcohol and Lexapro. Does anyone here take it and also still enjoy a few drinks? I men i guess if this pill really solves a lot of the anxiety issues I could learn to deal with not drinking anymore but holduays, dinner with friends, concerts, i really enjoy a few beers doing those things.
Thanks for any feedback.
yes, you will read horror stories on the internet about everything from taking an advil with lexapro to drinking. it's all individual. I avoided advil for the first while (which sucked), but then realized, I used to take it occasionally years ago when on lex, so I did again when I'd have a headache or muscle inflammation, and no issues.
and as others have said, having drinks while on it won't harm you, it just may lessen the effects of the drug.Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0 -
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I gave them to my brothers kids. I may have a couple left. Im really in the shit atm. I will try get my shit together asap
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lastexitlondon said:I gave them to my brothers kids. I may have a couple left. Im really in the shit atm. I will try get my shit together asapHugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0
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I wont post much for a bit its all come on top and im unable to function. Take care
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lastexitlondon said:I wont post much for a bit its all come on top and im unable to function. Take care0
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Thank you to eachand every friend here for listening to my ramblings and fears all year. Truly. Thank you.
Hedo if you are out there. Thank you too.
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Love you all. Nice thread to release all that garbage keeping good people all tangled up. Stay well. 2023 is coming. Shoot we olllld.
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