A girl told me I creep her out

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MayDay10 said:

Dont know why confused.

Why would she walk fast to catch up with me?

JWPearl

just be very very very careful please..
no confusion about it

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JWPearl said:

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So, I sat away from her in class today, as the class ended I pretty much walked out hastily to get to my next class, somehow she caught up to me and walked past me. We then got to the lift and both got in and I said hi, she said hi what's been happening. Just a few words. Got to our next class and she seemed fine. Was joking around with me. We walked to the train station with our assignment group member and she had to run to her platform as her train was a minute away leaving me and our other assignment group member. Confused.

just because shes friendly with you and jokes around with you doesnt mean she likes you in another way aside from acquaintance some people are just friendly you know

Yeah I know. I am bad for misinterpreting. I mean I am confused with why she would not avoid me walking to the next class instead she walked fast to catch up with me.

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Dr. Delight said:

Stop over thinking everything and let it go.

I overthink a lot. Anxiety....

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JWPearl said:

just be very very very careful please..
no confusion about it

Careful in what ways?

JWPearl

well she cant exactly avoid you can she ??
her aim is to probably please herself and get
along with everybody whether she thinks
your a creep or not

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JWPearl said:

well she cant exactly avoid you can she ??
her aim is to probably please herself and get
along with everybody whether she thinks
your a creep or not

If I make a head start, dash quickly out the door to get to another building for my next class she didn't have to walk fast to catch up to me and overtake me unless she wanted me to talk to her.
I tried my best.

JWPearl

most girls like to be friendly and friendly with everybody
its their aim to be happy and easy going even with people
they never consider going out with or they dont get along with
girls will try to overlook that if they are a easy going person
and try to go with the flow.. curiosity
you have to be careful you dont mistaken that for her liking you
or attracted to you because you could give the wrong message
again and get blown off again and feel horrible all over again
if you get along with her just be her friend and if you feel she
steps your boundaries dont forget to mention to her you were
sorry you creeped her out about her home town and that you
felt hurt you creeped her out and that made you feel like not
pursuing anything further than acquaintance with her
then see what she says but honestly if she was flirting with
you it would be jokes of you and her in the picture in a playful
romantic sense so read carefully..
overwise she could just be a teaser in that case shes trouble

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Hey,

"but honestly if she was flirting with
you it would be jokes of you and her in the picture in a playful
romantic sense so read carefully.."

I didn't get what you mean sorry?

JWPearl

jokes would involve the both of you in a picture like setting
like if i were to say... ''if i had a day off today.. i would be at the beach with cocktails getting a suntan and you would probably be snorkeling the water looking for jaws'' lol

see that your in the picture at the beach with her when you dont need to be involved
so its flirting kinda
but if its with you and her in the picture at college it wouldnt count bc you have to be there
do you get what i mean??

deadendp

TA, Let it go, man. Consider her extending kindness as forgiveness for whatever transgression she feels you did.

Don't be confused.

Don't read anything into it.

Do the assignment. Be courteous and that is it.

Let it go.

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JWPearl said:

jokes would involve the both of you in a picture like setting
like if i were to say... ''if i had a day off today.. i would be at the beach with cocktails getting a suntan and you would probably be snorkeling the water looking for jaws'' lol

see that your in the picture at the beach with her when you dont need to be involved
so its flirting kinda
but if its with you and her in the picture at college it wouldnt count bc you have to be there
do you get what i mean??

Yeah...just lol
But why is that a joke? I don't understand what you mean

F Me In The Brain

https://youtu.be/moSFlvxnbgk

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F Me In The Brain said:

https://youtu.be/moSFlvxnbgk

I was actually thinking about that song when I read a few let it go's

deadendp

This came to mind.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29PSPafL54o

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deadendp said:

This came to mind.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29PSPafL54o

Communication breakdown or Dazed and Confused as well

inmyNC

Just move on my friend.. She seems to be indecisive.. This may be toxic to you.

RKCNDY

Hey, JWP, TA...you're both in Australia, why don't you two get together and chat?

dankind

RKCNDY said:

Hey, JWP, TA...you're both in Australia, why don't you two get together and chat?

https://youtu.be/Y0ShvQ2fhKM

chadwick

"go easy" or "easy does it" i say

you know how many guys do goofy shit because of women? billions of them & it is repeated by them all a lot. your situation is not unique, if that is the right word to use? it is perfectly well to be a fuck up when it comes to the opposite sex. eventually that screwing shit up irons itself out & you land someone good for you & you good for them. this may take more than one go & that's ok.

just be a good dude & everything will be well. then again overly friendly sucks when you're get to know someone, its a balancing act for sure