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    southernmanfansouthernmanfan Johannesburg, South Africa Posts: 1,016
    Excellent post! I would have been devastated if I had tickets to the show but I am elated at their stance. I have even greater respect for the band than I ever had.
    This is a human rights issue. That is the fundamental thing here.
    Everyone has a right to their own opinion though...
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    PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,575
    edited April 2016
    Inam disappointed with some of the fans too. Not so much because they don't support PJ's cancellation (I DO support it), but because so many seem to have completely forgotten the meaning of protest, the point behind peotests, how protests work, and why they are important in general. As far as i can tell, many people feel like a protest isn't worth it if it inconveniences them or anyone at all, no matter what the subject is. Very very sad to see this attitude, especially among Pearl Jam fans. :frowning:
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    BE257117BE257117 Posts: 42
    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.
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    PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,575
    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    So?
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    bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 15,544
    PJ_Soul said:

    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    So?
    So maybe you don't cancel on fans at the last minute if you have a history of playing concerts in places that have repressive laws.
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    PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,575
    edited April 2016

    PJ_Soul said:

    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    So?
    So maybe you don't cancel on fans at the last minute if you have a history of playing concerts in places that have repressive laws.
    I don't feel like this is a logical take on the matter. You are basically saying that if they don't protest everything they shouldn't protest anything.
    Makes no sense. Plus, there was no new or pending legislation that had caused a wave of protest in South America. Plus they aren't South American.
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    pjalive21pjalive21 St. Louis, MO Posts: 2,818
    edited April 2016
    PJ_Soul said:

    PJ_Soul said:

    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    So?
    So maybe you don't cancel on fans at the last minute if you have a history of playing concerts in places that have repressive laws.
    I don't feel like this is a logical take on the matter. You are basically saying that if they don't protest everything they shouldn't protest anything.
    Makes no sense. Plus, there was no new or pending legislation that had caused a wave of protest in South America. Plus they aren't South American.
    So people are only supposed to ride the wave of what is currently hip to support at the current moment and ignore the long standing hate history of other state and national laws???

    that makes sense
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    StevieGStevieG Ontario Posts: 850
    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    Exactly!! As well as the extreme poverty levels in South America
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    BCBABCBA Utah with the mailman Posts: 220
    PJ_Soul said:

    Inam disappointed with some of the fans too. Not so much because they don't support PJ's cancellation (I DO support it), but because so many seem to have completely forgotten the meaning of protest, the point behind peotests, how protests work, and why they are important in general. As far as i can tell, many people feel like a protest isn't worth it if it inconveniences them or anyone at all, no matter what the subject is. Very very sad to see this attitude, especially among Pearl Jam fans. :frowning:

    Is the air really thin up on that high horse?
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    BCBABCBA Utah with the mailman Posts: 220
    Really. I wasnt going to the show, but totally feel for those who had tickets and plans. This would be just gutting.... the way some fans are talking down to others in these various mediums is pretty awful
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    myoung321myoung321 Posts: 2,855
    A majority of 10C fans support the difficult choice to cancel.. Some people are never happy and only see the little picture.
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    PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,575
    pjalive21 said:

    PJ_Soul said:

    PJ_Soul said:

    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    So?
    So maybe you don't cancel on fans at the last minute if you have a history of playing concerts in places that have repressive laws.
    I don't feel like this is a logical take on the matter. You are basically saying that if they don't protest everything they shouldn't protest anything.
    Makes no sense. Plus, there was no new or pending legislation that had caused a wave of protest in South America. Plus they aren't South American.
    So people are only supposed to ride the wave of what is currently hip to support at the current moment and ignore the long standing hate history of other state and national laws???

    that makes sense
    Where did you get the "only" part from? No, people are supposed to stand up and voice opposition for whatever fight they want. It's not an all or none situation. I just can't believe that some folks are willing to attack someone for voicing opposition to a particular cause because that someone didn't voice it for some other cause. It's ludicrous. And to bash a band for joining a growing cause because they think it might have some traction is just as ridiculous (unless you actually disagree with their position and like the new legislation. Then it would make perfect sense).
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    bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 15,544
    PJ_Soul said:

    PJ_Soul said:

    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    So?
    So maybe you don't cancel on fans at the last minute if you have a history of playing concerts in places that have repressive laws.
    I don't feel like this is a logical take on the matter. You are basically saying that if they don't protest everything they shouldn't protest anything.
    Makes no sense. Plus, there was no new or pending legislation that had caused a wave of protest in South America. Plus they aren't South American.
    Agree to disagree. But I think having a history of playing shows in states with repressive laws, lax gun laws, laws making it difficult to keep abortion clinics open, etc... needs to be considered in whether you can cancel on your fans at the last minute. I think in a prior post you talked about peoples' expectations that Pearl Jam would play and I think their history of playing shows and not boycotting should rightfully lead someone to not cancel their hotel 5 days in advance in expectation that the show would be canceled.

    I wasn't in the room when the band talked about this decision, but I believe two things should have been said that would lead to not cancelling the shows:

    #1 - "Guys, we waited too long. The time to act was 8 days ago but we didn't. That is our fault and we shouldn't make our indecision a cause for fans to be out of hotel and airfare costs. We waited too long and we should bear the brunt of any criticism for playing."

    Because I like to have fun when I post too, this comment would have been followed up with "But Bruce canceled..." from someone in the band.

    #2 - "We've never canceled a show before in all the other states/countries we played, so it would not be fair now to fans to not play."
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    PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,575
    To be totally honest, i don't feel like the band should give a second thought to the travel expenses of those who booked non-refundable trips to attend their shows. I don't see that as the band's problem at all.
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    bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 15,544
    PJ_Soul said:

    To be totally honest, i don't feel like the band should give a second thought to the travel expenses of those who booked non-refundable trips to attend their shows. I don't see that as the band's problem at all.

    That opinion seems to be at odds with the opinion that the band is a fan-friendly band. Do you believe they are a fan-friendly band?

    Do you not get that Pearl Jam organized this North Carolina concert? Do you not get that they collected money from fans months in advance of this concert? They have a duty of care for every single person that accepted their invitation and paid money. If they don't, then they are no different than the corporations you hate that care little for the little guy.
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    PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,575
    edited April 2016

    PJ_Soul said:

    To be totally honest, i don't feel like the band should give a second thought to the travel expenses of those who booked non-refundable trips to attend their shows. I don't see that as the band's problem at all.

    That opinion seems to be at odds with the opinion that the band is a fan-friendly band. Do you believe they are a fan-friendly band?

    Do you not get that Pearl Jam organized this North Carolina concert? Do you not get that they collected money from fans months in advance of this concert? They have a duty of care for every single person that accepted their invitation and paid money. If they don't, then they are no different than the corporations you hate that care little for the little guy.
    I think you know I get all that. ;)
    And yes, I do consider PJ fan friendly and within reason, and I don't feel like the travel expenses of fans should be their problem or concern. They never asked anyone to travel to see them. Why should they be made to feel responsible for decisions that fans make in their personal lives? IMO, PJ is only responsible for what happens at the shows and within the fan club on an adminstrative level.

    Also, I do not consider selling a ticket an invitation.
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    To be totally honest, i don't feel like the band should give a second thought to the travel expenses of those who booked non-refundable trips to attend their shows. I don't see that as the band's problem at all.
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    SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 24,808

    PJ_Soul said:

    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    So?
    So maybe you don't cancel on fans at the last minute if you have a history of playing concerts in places that have repressive laws.
    People who bought tickets to this show, purchased air fare, purchased hotel rooms etc. are more than allowed to be PISSED! And they certainly don't need some "holier than thou", "all knowing" fans on this board to rub their noses in it. You have been right all along bootlegger10, it was complete HORSESHIT that they waiting until the last minute to cancel this show.
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    patkelly12patkelly12 CT Posts: 346
    Only protest when it's trendy. Got it. South Africa ain't trendy. NC is.
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    patkelly12patkelly12 CT Posts: 346
    So what I take from this thread is that the band can't be expected to protest all the time. Just when Clooney & Co think it's a good time to protest. That's not sheepish at all.
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    walkunafraidwalkunafraid Posts: 2,557
    edited April 2016

    So what I take from this thread is that the band can't be expected to protest all the time. Just when Clooney & Co think it's a good time to protest. That's not sheepish at all.

    The band should protest whatever they want, whenever they want, and however they want. Their political actions and beliefs are not less important than their supposed obligation to fans. If you are unhappy with their decision, stop buying their records, stop going to shows, stop paying for fan club membership, etc. Just as they have a right to do as they please, so do you have a right to do as you please. It has nothing to do with being sheep-like. For instance, you criticizing their decision after a shitload of other fans on here have done the same would make you a sheep by your own definition. Hell, let's just call everyone who participated in the March on Washington and other protests during the Civil Rights movement sheep, too -- I mean, the vast majority of them wouldn't have protested on their own if others hadn't started a protest and built momentum for it first. How many political or social movements have succeeded without a) people beginning a movement; and b) others following and lending support to that movement? This whole "sheep" thing is getting ridiculous.
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    bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 15,544

    PJ_Soul said:

    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    So?
    So maybe you don't cancel on fans at the last minute if you have a history of playing concerts in places that have repressive laws.
    People who bought tickets to this show, purchased air fare, purchased hotel rooms etc. are more than allowed to be PISSED! And they certainly don't need some "holier than thou", "all knowing" fans on this board to rub their noses in it. You have been right all along bootlegger10, it was complete HORSESHIT that they waiting until the last minute to cancel this show.
    Thanks. I love this band and think the band members are all great people and bring a lot of light into the world, but in this instance I think they were very wrong and have emailed the 10c my opinion (in a nicer tone of course) so that there is a chance the band will find out that not everyone agrees with how they handled this. Everyone has a circle they run with and I'm sure theirs would look down on them for playing the show. I know it won't mean anything and will probably hit the trash folder in about the same time it took the interest in the band's bank accounts to make up for the lost earnings at Raleigh, but I had to get it off my chest. We'll see where my next fan club ticket seats are at. Better bring some tissues for that nose bleed!
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    Vedd HeddVedd Hedd Posts: 4,495
    Dude....its a fucking concert. People's rights are at stake, they made a stand, it sucks for those that had tickets to the show.

    But its a fucking concert. A CONCERT. 3 hours of music.

    North carolina is beautiful. Spend the day on vacation with your friends, enjoy the sites. Jesus H, people are talking about suing the band?? This is over the edge, for a group of fans known for being over the edge. My god, have some perspective.

    I genuinely feel bad for those that were excited for the concert....but its a fucking concert.

    We are talking about 3 hours of entertainment here. Yes, the anticipation and the build up made this anlet down. But seriously....actual quotes....."we were used as pawns." "Pj doesnt give a shit about their fans". Wow, get over yourselves. This is some serious privileged lunacy here.

    Fucking lawsuits...
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    walkunafraidwalkunafraid Posts: 2,557

    PJ_Soul said:

    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    So?
    So maybe you don't cancel on fans at the last minute if you have a history of playing concerts in places that have repressive laws.
    People who bought tickets to this show, purchased air fare, purchased hotel rooms etc. are more than allowed to be PISSED! And they certainly don't need some "holier than thou", "all knowing" fans on this board to rub their noses in it. You have been right all along bootlegger10, it was complete HORSESHIT that they waiting until the last minute to cancel this show.
    Thanks. I love this band and think the band members are all great people and bring a lot of light into the world, but in this instance I think they were very wrong and have emailed the 10c my opinion (in a nicer tone of course) so that there is a chance the band will find out that not everyone agrees with how they handled this. Everyone has a circle they run with and I'm sure theirs would look down on them for playing the show. I know it won't mean anything and will probably hit the trash folder in about the same time it took the interest in the band's bank accounts to make up for the lost earnings at Raleigh, but I had to get it off my chest. We'll see where my next fan club ticket seats are at. Better bring some tissues for that nose bleed!
    Eh, you really think the band didn't realize that a shitload of their fans would be upset and disagree with the cancellation without you sending an email?
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    Vedd HeddVedd Hedd Posts: 4,495

    PJ_Soul said:

    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    So?
    So maybe you don't cancel on fans at the last minute if you have a history of playing concerts in places that have repressive laws.
    People who bought tickets to this show, purchased air fare, purchased hotel rooms etc. are more than allowed to be PISSED! And they certainly don't need some "holier than thou", "all knowing" fans on this board to rub their noses in it. You have been right all along bootlegger10, it was complete HORSESHIT that they waiting until the last minute to cancel this show.
    Thanks. I love this band and think the band members are all great people and bring a lot of light into the world, but in this instance I think they were very wrong and have emailed the 10c my opinion (in a nicer tone of course) so that there is a chance the band will find out that not everyone agrees with how they handled this. Everyone has a circle they run with and I'm sure theirs would look down on them for playing the show. I know it won't mean anything and will probably hit the trash folder in about the same time it took the interest in the band's bank accounts to make up for the lost earnings at Raleigh, but I had to get it off my chest. We'll see where my next fan club ticket seats are at. Better bring some tissues for that nose bleed!
    Eh, you really think the band didn't realize that a shitload of their fans would be upset and disagree with the cancellation without you sending an email?
    Exactly, and the timing of this does stink. But some people have completely lost their shit here.
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    bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 15,544

    PJ_Soul said:

    BE257117 said:

    The ironic part of all of this is that the band just got done with a South American tour, where many countries have laws and cultures that are exponentially more repressive to the LGBT community and other minority groups such as women.

    So?
    So maybe you don't cancel on fans at the last minute if you have a history of playing concerts in places that have repressive laws.
    People who bought tickets to this show, purchased air fare, purchased hotel rooms etc. are more than allowed to be PISSED! And they certainly don't need some "holier than thou", "all knowing" fans on this board to rub their noses in it. You have been right all along bootlegger10, it was complete HORSESHIT that they waiting until the last minute to cancel this show.
    Thanks. I love this band and think the band members are all great people and bring a lot of light into the world, but in this instance I think they were very wrong and have emailed the 10c my opinion (in a nicer tone of course) so that there is a chance the band will find out that not everyone agrees with how they handled this. Everyone has a circle they run with and I'm sure theirs would look down on them for playing the show. I know it won't mean anything and will probably hit the trash folder in about the same time it took the interest in the band's bank accounts to make up for the lost earnings at Raleigh, but I had to get it off my chest. We'll see where my next fan club ticket seats are at. Better bring some tissues for that nose bleed!
    Eh, you really think the band didn't realize that a shitload of their fans would be upset and disagree with the cancellation without you sending an email?
    I was also asking for a refund of my Columbia tickets at the same time.
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    SVRDhand13SVRDhand13 NYC Posts: 25,880
    Vedd Hedd said:

    Dude....its a fucking concert. People's rights are at stake, they made a stand, it sucks for those that had tickets to the show.

    But its a fucking concert. A CONCERT. 3 hours of music.

    North carolina is beautiful. Spend the day on vacation with your friends, enjoy the sites. Jesus H, people are talking about suing the band?? This is over the edge, for a group of fans known for being over the edge. My god, have some perspective.

    I genuinely feel bad for those that were excited for the concert....but its a fucking concert.

    We are talking about 3 hours of entertainment here. Yes, the anticipation and the build up made this anlet down. But seriously....actual quotes....."we were used as pawns." "Pj doesnt give a shit about their fans". Wow, get over yourselves. This is some serious privileged lunacy here.

    Fucking lawsuits...

    replace "practice" with "concert" :lol:

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    bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 15,544
    Vedd Hedd said:

    Dude....its a fucking concert. People's rights are at stake, they made a stand, it sucks for those that had tickets to the show.

    But its a fucking concert. A CONCERT. 3 hours of music.

    North carolina is beautiful. Spend the day on vacation with your friends, enjoy the sites. Jesus H, people are talking about suing the band?? This is over the edge, for a group of fans known for being over the edge. My god, have some perspective.

    I genuinely feel bad for those that were excited for the concert....but its a fucking concert.

    We are talking about 3 hours of entertainment here. Yes, the anticipation and the build up made this anlet down. But seriously....actual quotes....."we were used as pawns." "Pj doesnt give a shit about their fans". Wow, get over yourselves. This is some serious privileged lunacy here.

    Fucking lawsuits...

    No, 15,000 people were impacted by their decision. This wasn't some small thing you make it out to be. 5 people took it upon themselves to unilaterally make a last minute decision that impacted 15,000 people negatively, when the opposite decision wouldn't have impacted 15,000 people negatively, and wouldn't have been seen as support for the stupid law.

    I'm not going to sue the band. That is stupid. But I don't believe this is "just a concert" either, otherwise PJ canceling it wouldn't have been a big deal. Obviously a concert is not life/death, but you try to get 15,000 people to show up to a venue (and some coming from across the country and the world) for something that isn't a big deal.

    To me it is not really about the concert, it is about peoples' time and money. It is about showing respect to your fans, especially the traveling fans.
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    MayDay10MayDay10 Posts: 11,612
    People's rights weren't at stake either. If they were actually at stake, I would applaud.

    This was a pointless action
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    PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,575
    edited April 2016

    "To be totally honest, i don't feel like the band should give a second thought to the travel expenses of those who booked non-refundable trips to attend their shows. I don't see that as the band's problem at all."

    . . . said the troll.
    Lol. I'm not a troll. I just don't feel like the band should have to worry about travel plans made by people. If the show had been arranged and advertised as a destination show that included travel packages or something I would think it's something they should be considering when making decisions.
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