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redrock

Heineken Helen wrote:

Urgh... I hate my boss :mad: what a sorry excuse for a fucking human being! :(

She DID ring him... and I asked him about holidays (we have to take builders holidays, a week for easter and two at the end of July - I want to work through easter and take only one week in July, allowing me the two weeks off in June) and he said 'there's none' with a grin on his face and I asked what he meant and he said the site would be closed for easter :( and then he said that she'd rang him about when I'd be finishing up and he said 'I told her I don't knwo and that you've a load of filing to finish up here' :mad: and then ran out the door. I'm fucking fuming... I need to go out for lunch cos if he comes in the canteen I... well I dunno what but I'm not happy... what a fucking prick.

Looks like I may need to find a new company then.

Tell him you'll do your filing during Easter (just get some keys!) and you'll be ready to move on then!

Buru

redrock wrote:

Tell him you'll do your filing during Easter (just get some keys!) and you'll be ready to move on then!

Helen, this seems like a good way out.
Please calm down a bit before you go to him
(and yeah, he's a prick)

Heineken Helen

well I've calmed down a bit. There may be ways around it, I spoke to one of the other girls and she suggested I find out if any of the other secretaries are taking the Easter holidays, they may need someone to fill in for them as this is done all the time. So then I wouldn't be taking holidays. I mean, I HAVE to take the two weeks in June anyway, I'll be able to afford to take them at my own expense and I WILL be taking them, but surely it's not in the company's best interest to have me taking 5 weeks instead of 3 for the summer?

He's just a vindictive prick. Apparently he told the others at breakfast that handover is the 4th April, which means I WILL be finished here just after Easter so it would make absolutely no difference to him. He just loves getting one over on everyone. He's backstabbed EVERYONE on this job and it's simply my turn now. He KNOWS I'll get that filing done - but everytime he tells me to do it then he gives me something else to do.

The only thing is, if that's what he told ME he said to her, what else DID he say to her? He basically gave me a bad reference while talking to her and he knew exactly what he was doing. I hope she mentions it to her husband tonight - cos her husband knows what a spineless weed he is too.

redrock

Heineken Helen wrote:

The only thing is, if that's what he told ME he said to her, what else DID he say to her?

Call her and find out...

V V

oooo sorry Helen

make a lil wax doll of him and stick pins in it ! :mad:

Heineken Helen

redrock wrote:

Call her and find out...

hmm... could do :cool: I also don't want to keep annoying her but the other girl suggested I send her an email saying that he said the site would be closed so if there's any other site who may need cover over easter could she let me know.

redrock

V V wrote:

oooo sorry Helen

make a lil wax doll of him and stick pins in it ! :mad:

Haha!!! Maybe Helen can do something herself... http://www.waterstones.com/waterstonesweb/displayProductDetailsZoom.do?sku=4284884

Edit: E-mail would be good because you don't 'disturb' her. In that e-mail you can ask when is a good time to call her and have a chat...

Heineken Helen

V V wrote:

oooo sorry Helen

make a lil wax doll of him and stick pins in it ! :mad:

that should do it

The only thing that keeps me from showing my anger to him is reminding myself that he most definitely WAS bullied probably up until his mid 20s. He's a textbook case... ya know one of those lanky fuckers who have the respect of nobody and have no way of dealing with people at ALL but get off on what little power they have over others... cos they never had any physical power :mad:

Heineken Helen

redrock wrote:

Haha!!! Maybe Helen can do something herself... http://www.waterstones.com/waterstonesweb/displayProductDetailsZoom.do?sku=4284884

Edit: E-mail would be good because you don't 'disturb' her. In that e-mail you can ask when is a good time to call her and have a chat...

Hahahahahaha... I love it

Thanks, good thinking! He just came into my office WHISTLING :mad: He NEVER whistles!!!!!!!

Heineken Helen

Ok so I called a girl on another site and she said that she IS taking the Easter holidays and she's going to ask around for me to see what they did last year and find out if the site's going to be open... so I may be getting somewhere.

V V

ooo Red thats cool , i think i need one HAHAHAHAHAHA

Helen u need to find apathy for him so next time comes into the office you can give him a loveing smile and do some reflective listening useing frases like
" it sounds like this is very hard for you right now" or
"some people find bullying a helpful out let for other deep things that aren't being adressed"

that will confuse the fuck out of him HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Heineken Helen

V V wrote:

ooo Red thats cool , i think i need one HAHAHAHAHAHA

Helen u need to find apathy for him so next time comes into the office you can give him a loveing smile and do some reflective listening useing frases like
" it sounds like this is very hard for you right now" or
"some people find bullying a helpful out let for other deep things that aren't being adressed"

that will confuse the fuck out of him HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

I'd love to... but not while I'm still with him cos he's done some serious backstabbing on other people so I've always managed to be civil at best to him. This one is actually mild for him :eek: giving me a bad reference within my own fucking company :eek: what the fuck?

But I'm very good at saying the exact opposite of what I mean and enjoying it, like saying 'yes of course I'll do that for you' with a smile while thinking 'I hope you fall into a big fucking hole you WORM'

V V

hahahahahahaha well done !
its like in the car when i'm mad but blow them a kiss when they are really mad hahahahahaha

Heineken Helen

V V wrote:

hahahahahahaha well done !
its like in the car when i'm mad but blow them a kiss when they are really mad hahahahahaha

It does make you feel pretty good, doesn't it? When you KNOW someone is trying to piss you off or make you mad and you refuse to give it to them

stonesgstring

Hellllllloooooooooooooo!! How's everyone on this fine day?

redrock

well helllloooooooo there Stoney!!!! All is well?

nutmeg81

howdy ho neighbours!!

Irish Al

Afternoon all

Right gotta go....bye

redrock

Nice seeing you al... 'bye

stonesgstring

I'm fine ta Rita. The sun is shining so all is good

Hi Al, bye Al