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3 year-old's First Show Tonight

knowyourrightsknowyourrights Posts: 41
edited October 2013 in The Porch
He has seen Dylan and the Black Keys and had a blast! Worried he won't make the length of a Pearl Jam show. I've got ear protection....Any other advice from parents?
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    kramer73kramer73 Posts: 2,606
    As a parent, I wouldn't, but that's your call.
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    on2legson2legs Standing in the Jersey rain… Posts: 14,471
    This should be good. :corn:
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    tbell_1tbell_1 Posts: 21
    kramer73 wrote:
    As a parent, I wouldn't, but that's your call.

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    KP_McMinnKP_McMinn West Philadelphia born and raised Posts: 748
    I think its fucking stupid to do that.
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    oysterjaroysterjar NH Posts: 1,235
    :corn: this thread is going to get fun :corn:

    Wind this thing up.

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    bicyclejoebicyclejoe USA Posts: 1,167
    He has seen Dylan and the Black Keys and had a blast! Worried he won't make the length of a Pearl Jam show. I've got ear protection....Any other advice from parents?

    Really?

    Not judging! Just saying: As the parent of two teenage girls, I know there will be other times to experience these types of things with him. Don't rush it; 3 is too young. My 14-year-old daughter is going with me to the Portland show in November. That's about the right age to enjoy and remember it, But again, it's your call.
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    shortstackshortstack Posts: 2,339
    make sure you bring a huge sign just in case ed can't spot her in the crowd :lolno:
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    Empty GlassEmpty Glass In Rob's shed Posts: 12,329
    I don't take my wife to shows let alone my kids
    I've met Rob

    DEGENERATE FUK

    This place is dead

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    Merkin BallerMerkin Baller Posts: 10,532
    I don't take my wife to shows let alone my kids



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    Stephen FlowStephen Flow Posts: 3,327
    I have a 2 year old... He is hard to control in public but I manage. That said... I cannot imagine being able to enjoy myself at a show with him in tow... Even in a year or 5 or 10...
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    youngsteryoungster Boston Posts: 6,574
    Did he really have a blast at Dylan and the Black Keys or were you to busy having a blast to notice he wasn't?
    He who forgets will be destined to remember.

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    Last-12-ExitLast-12-Exit Charleston, SC Posts: 8,661
    I'd consider taking my 12 yr old. Definitely not my 8 or 4 yr old. I hope your in seats.
    That's going to be one cranky kid come tomorrow! And bring a diaper or two!
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    The Waiting Trophy ManThe Waiting Trophy Man Niagara region, Ontario, Canada Posts: 12,158
    Take him to ChuckEcheese instead!
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    Another habit says its long overdue
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    axellaire8axellaire8 Belgium Posts: 234
    You do what you want but I take my child with me to live shows since he has one year and he love it so much!
    My dad done this with me when I'm a child too and I thank him so much for this.
    I beginned with festivals and after non GA show for his security
    I never taked my son to a PJ show because I don't want to be distract but it's not because of him, it's because of me!!
    I wait(he has just 4 years old) that he don't need to pi every 10 minutes!!!

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    Only a complete idiot would bring a 3 year old to a rock concert. Are you going to expect everyone to stay calm, not get rowdy, not swear, and not drink too much around your 3 year old. If your kid gets bumped into are you going to blame the person or will you just admit that your a fucking idiot.
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    Dr. DelightDr. Delight Posts: 11,210
    He has seen Dylan and the Black Keys and had a blast! Worried he won't make the length of a Pearl Jam show. I've got ear protection....Any other advice from parents?
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    TeeChiTeeChi Posts: 35
    I do have advice for you as I am a parent of a 2.5 year old.

    This is urgent, so we do not have much time. Book me a flight to the east coast immediately! Upon my arrival, I will take your tickets to the venue and survey the situation and let you know what I think. If it is not suitable for your child, I will gladly spend the rest of the evening in his place.
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    badbrainsbadbrains Posts: 10,255
    Wow, what a waste of a ticket and is wrong in so many ways. Dude, no offense but that's idiotic. :fp:
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    I'm a TruckI'm a Truck Milwaukee Posts: 3,508
    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    What's wrong with you people? I get it.... It's the "trendy" thing to do I guess. But come on, horribly loud music, drunk people everywhere not giving a shit about anything but the band, not to mention the smoking.

    Horrible idea. But it's your kid. Hope you get/got your shit from the band.

    I've got 3 kids under the age of 5 and I wouldn't even think about taking them. At least thinking about the people next to me that my kids would surely drive insane. Think about the people that paid good money and now have to spend the show sitting next to a 3 yr old. I don't care how well behaved they are, I'd be pissed if I had to sit next to a 3 yr old.
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    rival.rival. Chicago Posts: 7,776
    I logged in just to give you one of these guys: :fp:

    Anyways, carry on.
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    PRL1JAMPRL1JAM Posts: 782
    KP_McMinn wrote:
    I think its fucking stupid to do that.
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    I'm a TruckI'm a Truck Milwaukee Posts: 3,508
    If there is a God your seats will be next to Mamasan23. You'll be fucked and will be gone before the second song starts.

    I still can't stop shaking my head at this one.
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    EarlWelshEarlWelsh Buffalo, NY Posts: 1,102
    Don't do it! This isn't coming from someone annoyed by people bringing their super young kids to rock shows but from a fellow parent of a 3-year-old. Share your music at home with your child, I say...at least for the next few years. Teach your 3-year-old how to play vinyl or something cool like that for them to grow up with. All your child will remember from tonight's show, if anything, is drunk, goofy looking people singing loudly and cult-like and, if you're really lucky, a few new ways to say "fuck."

    Leave your kid at home and enjoy the show for yourself.
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    Took my 4 and 6 year olds last night. They loved it. People around us were all very friendly. Only advice I would give you is don't expect people around you to change their behaviors. Just know what you're exposing him to and be prepared to move if you need to. And I took a lot of heat on here when I said I was bringing them, so be ready to hear from a bunch of people who want to tell you how to parent your child. And lastly, have a blast.
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    on2legson2legs Standing in the Jersey rain… Posts: 14,471
    TeeChi wrote:
    I do have advice for you as I am a parent of a 2.5 year old.

    This is urgent, so we do not have much time. Book me a flight to the east coast immediately! Upon my arrival, I will take your tickets to the venue and survey the situation and let you know what I think. If it is not suitable for your child, I will gladly spend the rest of the evening in his place.

    We're getting close.
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    on2legson2legs Standing in the Jersey rain… Posts: 14,471
    If there is a God your seats will be next to Mamasan23. You'll be fucked and will be gone before the second song starts.

    I still can't stop shaking my head at this one.

    Almost there...
    1996: Randall's Island 2  1998: East Rutherford | MSG 1 & 2  2000: Cincinnati | Columbus | Jones Beach 1, 2, & 3 | Boston 1 | Camden 1 & 2 2003: Philadelphia | Uniondale | MSG 1 & 2 | Holmdel  2005: Atlantic City 1  2006: Camden 1 | East Rutherford 1 & 2 2008: Camden 1 & 2 | MSG 1 & 2 | Newark (EV)  2009: Philadelphia 1, 2 & 4  2010: Newark | MSG 1 & 2  2011: Toronto 1  2013: Wrigley Field | Brooklyn 2 | Philadelphia 1 & 2 | Baltimore  2015: Central Park  2016: Philadelphia 1 & 2 | MSG 1 & 2 | Fenway Park 2 | MSG (TOTD)  2017: Brooklyn (RnR HOF)  2020: MSG | Asbury Park  2021: Asbury Park  2022: MSG | Camden | Nashville  2024: MSG 1 & 2 (#50) | Philadelphia 1 & 2 | Baltimore


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    on2legson2legs Standing in the Jersey rain… Posts: 14,471
    Only a complete idiot would bring a 3 year old to a rock concert. Are you going to expect everyone to stay calm, not get rowdy, not swear, and not drink too much around your 3 year old. If your kid gets bumped into are you going to blame the person or will you just admit that your a fucking idiot.

    And we have a winner.
    1996: Randall's Island 2  1998: East Rutherford | MSG 1 & 2  2000: Cincinnati | Columbus | Jones Beach 1, 2, & 3 | Boston 1 | Camden 1 & 2 2003: Philadelphia | Uniondale | MSG 1 & 2 | Holmdel  2005: Atlantic City 1  2006: Camden 1 | East Rutherford 1 & 2 2008: Camden 1 & 2 | MSG 1 & 2 | Newark (EV)  2009: Philadelphia 1, 2 & 4  2010: Newark | MSG 1 & 2  2011: Toronto 1  2013: Wrigley Field | Brooklyn 2 | Philadelphia 1 & 2 | Baltimore  2015: Central Park  2016: Philadelphia 1 & 2 | MSG 1 & 2 | Fenway Park 2 | MSG (TOTD)  2017: Brooklyn (RnR HOF)  2020: MSG | Asbury Park  2021: Asbury Park  2022: MSG | Camden | Nashville  2024: MSG 1 & 2 (#50) | Philadelphia 1 & 2 | Baltimore


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    jamburgerjamburger Posts: 1,775
    Jack Straw wrote:
    Took my 4 and 6 year olds last night. They loved it. People around us were all very friendly. Only advice I would give you is don't expect people around you to change their behaviors. Just know what you're exposing him to and be prepared to move if you need to. And I took a lot of heat on here when I said I was bringing them, so be ready to hear from a bunch of people who want to tell you how to parent your child. And lastly, have a blast.

    Especially when you ask them for their advice.
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    TeeChiTeeChi Posts: 35
    on2legs wrote:
    Only a complete idiot would bring a 3 year old to a rock concert. Are you going to expect everyone to stay calm, not get rowdy, not swear, and not drink too much around your 3 year old. If your kid gets bumped into are you going to blame the person or will you just admit that your a fucking idiot.

    And we have a winner.


    :lol::lol::lol:
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