Cancer....really?

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  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    this bites. please be strong and smart about everything. i am sorry and sad and everything.

    (my mom was just diagnosed with 80% chance of cancer on her kidney. why 80%? because she had breast cancer many years ago)

    sad sad stuff.

    be well, sheila
    be frickin well lady
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  • brianlux
    brianlux Moving through All Kinds of Terrain. Posts: 43,675
    Sheila, you've come to the right place for support. We're all pullin' for you! Best wishes.
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  • of.the.girl
    of.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    Wow, Sheila. I am sorry to hear this, but relieved that it was caught so early.

    We will raise a glass (or many) together next weekend, and put you in the proper frame of mind for the rest of September.

    (((hug)))
    We will definitely be raising many glasses next week. MANY!! :mrgreen::mrgreen:
  • dr0ptheleash
    dr0ptheleash Posts: 1,264
    Disheartening news but you will get through it! Stay strong! Sending you lots of strength and positive thoughts. You've got all of us here as an additional support system. You can get through it. Sending hugs.
  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    wow. i just saw this....
    thoughts & prayers are with you, Sheila. can't wait to see you @ Hemingway's & buy you a beer next week!

    take care..
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  • conman
    conman Posts: 7,493
    stay strong Sheila, my thoughts are with you

    see ya next week :D
  • covered in bliss
    covered in bliss chi-caw-go Posts: 1,332
    Could you please share what symptoms you were having?

    --and think of it this way:

    if the doctors were VERY concerned, they would insist on operating right away, not pushing it back 3 weeks!
  • ShimmyMommy
    ShimmyMommy Posts: 7,505
    chadwick wrote:
    this bites. please be strong and smart about everything. i am sorry and sad and everything.

    (my mom was just diagnosed with 80% chance of cancer on her kidney. why 80%? because she had breast cancer many years ago)

    sad sad stuff.

    be well, sheila
    be frickin well lady


    Stay strong, too. Lots of love, light and hugs to your mom.
    Lots of love, light and hugs to you all!
  • comebackgirl
    comebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Oh no :( I just saw this. (((HUGS))) to you. Hang in there. You'll get through this. Lots of positive vibes coming your way.
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  • DS1119
    DS1119 Posts: 33,497
    sheila0225 wrote:
    Surgery date has been set for Sept 16th.


    You will have all of my good thoughts on the 16th. :thumbup:
  • whispering hands
    whispering hands Under your skin Posts: 13,527
    I just saw this too!! So we need bracelets that say "save the pooter" for you eh? On a serious note I will keep you in my prayers!! And at least you caught it in time!! For PJ20, rock out, have fun, and get all your "partying" out of the system, so you can be at peace and ready to get better!! Love, hugs, and Prayers go to you from Colorado Springs!!!
  • iamica
    iamica Chicago Posts: 2,628
    Sorry to hear it. Hoping for a speedy recovery.
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  • sheila0225 wrote:
    Like they couldn't have called and said everything looks great...See ya next year. NOPE!! Not this time. My doctor himself called and broke the news. And my doctor never calls me personally. Usually I get to talk to the amazing nurses in his office. Instead I get a personalized phone call from him, on his day off mind you, to come into the office right away. So there I go darting up to the hospital where his office is. And WHAM-O!!! You have cancer Sheila! WTF?!?!?!
    So...next week can not come quick enough. So I can unwind, have a glass of wine, and have a great weekend listening to my favorite band with some pretty amazing people.

    End ranting and crying. thanks for listening.
    Wow..
    This one floored me.....

    Im sorry to hear this Sheila...
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • of.the.girl
    of.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    Thank you everyone!I'm handling this all better than I thought I would. Maybe it's because I have my boys birthday party today to tend to and keep me busy. Who knows.
    Either way...I'm winning this battle!

    The hardest part is telling my family. Some are shocked...some are "oh its just cancer, it happens to everyone"...and some are " oh ok....I gotta go finish cooking". So I'm keeping it to my circle that I want to know. And that is you wonderful folks here and my immediate family.

    So thank you all for your love and support and prayers and encouraging messages. Some of you....I'll see you next week and we WILL raise a glass or many. :mrgreen:
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    oh my sheila... :(
    hugs to you!
    be strong and i hope you have an awesome time at the shows.
    much love.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


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  • JOEJOEJOE
    JOEJOEJOE Posts: 10,829
    Best wishes to you.

    There is way too much challenging stuff going around this year.

    I am glad that PJ20 is happening as a brief refrain from the real world!

    Hopefully we can put our ailments, predicaments, worries and concerns on hold as best we can until after PJ20!
  • Given to...
    Given to... Wyoming Posts: 5,007
    We got you! We will all be here for all the support and love a bunch of crazies can dole out!

    It has to be hard telling the loved ones, and their responses are as varied as their personalities, but dont think that anyone is just dismissing it as "its just cancer". Some of us, and them, have never had to have that conversation before, and it is a defensive reaction. They all care, and so do we.

    be strong
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  • wolfbear
    wolfbear Posts: 3,965
    So very sad to hear, but so glad it was caught early enough for surgery! That makes all the difference. Stay strong! :) Big hugs and best wishes your way for sure and also hope to see you at PJ20!
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  • GivenToLukinKP
    GivenToLukinKP Chicago Posts: 3,076
    Good thoughts to you, girl...scary shit, but you seem like a strong woman and I know you will be OK.

    PJ20 is going to be fabulous for your heart and mindset.

    stay strong and the very best luck to you!!!!
    Makes much more sense...

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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Best wishes, hope you beat the shit out of this disease.
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