Valentines day?

bunny

pandora wrote:

kazuki.k wrote:

In Japan, women present gifts to men they love. girls declare their love.

im already a housewife...
it don't make my heart pound at all
so i don't like Valentines day...

but i make a Chocolate cake for my family and me every year

this is a little sad for me to read

agree.. sad :(

i think it differ between America and Japan.
usually,we present gifts to men we don't LOVE. It takes money
so more and more people are spending doing nothing. ( ...ing ing ing,I'm wrong?!)

eyedclaar

kazuki.k wrote:

pandora wrote:

kazuki.k wrote:

In Japan, women present gifts to men they love. girls declare their love.

im already a housewife...
it don't make my heart pound at all
so i don't like Valentines day...

but i make a Chocolate cake for my family and me every year

this is a little sad for me to read

agree.. sad :(

i think it differ between America and Japan.
usually,we present gifts to men we don't LOVE. It takes money
so more and more people are spending doing nothing. ( ...ing ing ing,I'm wrong?!)

Eh, for the most part, it really doesn't sound that different between the two countries. Here, men and women in loveless relationships and marriages feel obligated to buy shit for each other. Of course, that isn't always the case, but all too often...

PearlOfAGirl

Another Hallmark Holiday :roll: :(

decides2dream

eyedclaar wrote:

We'll probably get drunk and wrestle until we break some furniture (while fucking) and scare the cats.

i improved your plans.
hope to do the same.....tho scare the dogs.

we're 'celebrating' valentine's day saturday night, just more convenient that way. going to our favorite mexican place: http://www.besitomex.com/
no gifts, just cards....probably a really special homemade breakfast sunday and a lazy day together. really, not that much different than a regular saturday night/sunday for us....pretty fortunate in that sense.

PearlOfAGirl

eyedclaar wrote:

We'll probably get drunk and wrestle until we break some furniture (while fucking) and scare the cats.

*Good Times*

aneutronbomb

nothin for me :(

hail hail the lucky ones

Indifference71

Going out for an awesome steak dinner at Morton's.

Jennytree

I'm going to celebrate the awesomeness of being single and NOT having to cook any man a meal by getting a bacon double cheeseburger and battered onion rings in the chipper

Jukee

Hubby leaves every year for a fishing trip on that day...so i'll be all by my lonesome. He's also on strike so money's kinda tight right now so we won't be buying anything for eachother this year.

Brisk.

Jennytree wrote:

I'm going to celebrate the awesomeness of being single and NOT having to cook any man a meal by getting a bacon double cheeseburger and battered onion rings in the chipper

thats sound fucking right on!

eMMI

Oh, right.. V-day. :think:

I've never paid much attention to it. Ok, when I was younger yes. But it's always been traditionally more about friendship here, than romantic relationships. :think: (Valentine's Day = Ystävänpäivä = "friend's day" ) So I've sent a few cards out to friends maybe.

It is starting to become more mushy-mushy-lovey-dovey thing here too, but like I said, I just ignore it mostly. :P

decides2dream

i always send a card to my mom.


oh and i am soooo looking forward to the total chick-flick valentine's day, no matter how bad it may ultimately be.

eyedclaar

eMMI wrote:

Oh, right.. V-day. :think:

I've never paid much attention to it. Ok, when I was younger yes. But it's always been traditionally more about friendship here, than romantic relationships. :think: (Valentine's Day = Ystävänpäivä = "friend's day" ) So I've sent a few cards out to friends maybe.

It is starting to become more mushy-mushy-lovey-dovey thing here too, but like I said, I just ignore it mostly. :P

You guys have a lot of dots over your words...

eMMI

eyedclaar wrote:

eMMI wrote:

Oh, right.. V-day. :think:

I've never paid much attention to it. Ok, when I was younger yes. But it's always been traditionally more about friendship here, than romantic relationships. :think: (Valentine's Day = Ystävänpäivä = "friend's day" ) So I've sent a few cards out to friends maybe.

It is starting to become more mushy-mushy-lovey-dovey thing here too, but like I said, I just ignore it mostly. :P

You guys have a lot of dots over your words...

Keeps things interesting.

Claireack

Hell, I hadn't even thought about it yet!

81

I'll buy the woman a card, and then watch the Daytona 500.

i_lov_it

Jennytree wrote:

I'm going to celebrate the awesomeness of being single and NOT having to cook any man a meal by getting a bacon double cheeseburger and battered onion rings in the chipper

Well what GOOD are YOU then!...pmsl :P

pandora

I don't care what Hubby & I do as long as we are hand in hand

SPEEDY MCCREADY

know1 wrote:

Just another day. If you need specified holiday to be romantic or nice to the one you love, then you're beyond help anyway. I'd rather do something for someone or have them do something for me on some random day rather than when they feel like they have to.

I had a friend of mine who had that exact same, bullshit, horseshit, attitude when it came to Valentines Day. Had that same stupid attitude for 20 years.

I dont need a Hallmark Holiday!
Nobody ever tells me when to be nice!
I dont need to show my love, by buying candy or roses!


His wife finally threw the idiot out of the house last year........hehehehehehe

True Story....


What the fuck is so hard with buying some roses, or going out for dinner??? What is so hard about buying her some candy and telling her you Love her??

The anti-Valentines day people, are just as silly as the "I hate Christmas people".........

LikeAnOcean

How should one acknowledge the day if they just began to see somebody? A few dates in, I don't want to go overboard. It's not a quite a relationship..

Should I just ask if they want to do dinner that day, but not mention it as a valentines thing?

A simple text or phone call just wishing a happy valentines day??