So, What Are You Doing For Sex Tonight?

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  • comebackgirlcomebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    its quite simple people. if you do something you cant tell your partner about without there being repurcussions or without it being preagreed upon, then yes any sexual activity with someone other then your partner, whether it be phone sex,a one night stand, a handjob blowjob, a continued relationship with an other or cybersex, is cheating.
    Agreed
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    its quite simple people. if you do something you cant tell your partner about without there being repurcussions or without it being preagreed upon, then yes any sexual activity with someone other then your partner, whether it be phone sex,a one night stand, a handjob blowjob, a continued relationship with an other or cybersex, is cheating.

    :? Surely HJs are okay?!

    (I'm kidding)
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  • BenzorBenzor Posts: 886
    its quite simple people. if you do something you cant tell your partner about without there being repurcussions or without it being preagreed upon, then yes any sexual activity with someone other then your partner, whether it be phone sex,a one night stand, a handjob blowjob, a continued relationship with an other or cybersex, is cheating.

    agree 100%
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    its quite simple people. if you do something you cant tell your partner about without there being repurcussions or without it being preagreed upon, then yes any sexual activity with someone other then your partner, whether it be phone sex,a one night stand, a handjob blowjob, a continued relationship with an other or cybersex, is cheating.

    :? Surely HJs are okay?!

    (I'm kidding)

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  • its quite simple people. if you do something you cant tell your partner about without there being repurcussions or without it being preagreed upon, then yes any sexual activity with someone other then your partner, whether it be phone sex,a one night stand, a handjob blowjob, a continued relationship with an other or cybersex, is cheating.
    10000%
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  • ZiggyStar wrote:
    its quite simple people. if you do something you cant tell your partner about without there being repurcussions or without it being preagreed upon, then yes any sexual activity with someone other then your partner, whether it be phone sex,a one night stand, a handjob blowjob, a continued relationship with an other or cybersex, is cheating.

    :? Surely HJs are okay?!

    (I'm kidding)

    only its self love zig, only if its self love. :lol:
    :lol::lol:
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  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    its quite simple people. if you do something you cant tell your partner about without there being repurcussions or without it being preagreed upon, then yes any sexual activity with someone other then your partner, whether it be phone sex,a one night stand, a handjob blowjob, a continued relationship with an other or cybersex, is cheating.


    eggs-actly.
    simple as.
    so, be sure to marry/be involved with a like-minded individual, and you're golden. whether you want someone open-minded to various scenarios, or not, entirely dependent on your own comfort levels, of course. ;)
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  • WhizbangWhizbang Posts: 1,314
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    dcfaithful wrote:
    The monthly grammar will be blocking me tonight. :x

    Just do her in the shower.....

    What is it with all these excuses?! There's always a way!!

    seriously....best thing to rid yourself of cramps....
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

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  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Get_Right wrote:
    wouldn't you say that sharing a orgasm with person other than your significant other is cheating?
    even if its in cyberspace, telephonic or anonymous?

    ladies please say no :D:D:lol:

    Hmmm.....yes, I'd probably say it was cheating if you shared an orgasm....maybe. I don't know. I'm kinda in the middle with all this.

    What if you didn't orgasm though? haha When does it cross the line to cheating?

    I'm a little in between also, but given this perspective I'm now beginning to think that I would consider it cheating...Also, if I found out my gf was having phone sex...I'd be a little shocked to be honest.
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Benzor wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Enkidu wrote:
    Phone sex doesn't seem like cheating to me - unless it's somebody you know.

    What if it's repeated phone sex with the same person that they don't personally know?

    i don't think it should even matter if they know the person or not. to be honest i dont see how anyone could say it's not cheating...just think how you would feel if you caught your girlfriend having phone sex with another guy.

    i think the person they're doing it with matters a lot. if she's calling a 900 number... i dont give a fuck, i look at porn. if it's some random person online they never met and never will and only picked up for the cheap thrill that night... still dont give a fuck. if it's a regular thing with the same person that also involves some sort of relationship outside the cheap phone/cyber thrills... then we have a problem.
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Get_Right wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:

    I know someone whose gf feels that when he watches porn he's effectively cheating on her. :shock: Good luck with that one I said to him! haha :?
    depriving her yes, cheating nahhhh
    send her a couple of vids :lol:

    make sure to carefully select the dirtiest vids you can find with shit she'd never consider doing, get her drunk, and then say you only look at the porn for her becos you want to keep the spice in the relationship... then encourage her to act them out with you.
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Whizbang wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    dcfaithful wrote:
    The monthly grammar will be blocking me tonight. :x

    Just do her in the shower.....

    What is it with all these excuses?! There's always a way!!

    seriously....best thing to rid yourself of cramps....

    I've never understood why some guys are so bothered by this. When I dated this one girl that was away at college, it didn't matter what time of month it was, when I visitied, we were fucking!
  • ClaireackClaireack Posts: 13,561
    I've never understood why some guys are so bothered by this. When I dated this one girl that was away at college, it didn't matter what time of month it was, when I visitied, we were fucking!

    Depend on the bloke, some just aren't into blood sports.
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328

    i think the person they're doing it with matters a lot. if she's calling a 900 number... i dont give a fuck, i look at porn. if it's some random person online they never met and never will and only picked up for the cheap thrill that night... still dont give a fuck. if it's a regular thing with the same person that also involves some sort of relationship outside the cheap phone/cyber thrills... then we have a problem.

    Yes I agree.
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    dcfaithful wrote:

    I'm a little in between also, but given this perspective I'm now beginning to think that I would consider it cheating...Also, if I found out my gf was having phone sex...I'd be a little shocked to be honest.

    I talked a lot of sex talk in the adult forum at Given to Post with many people over many months......some would probably say this is cheating too. I don't. Or is it only cheating if you're getting yourself off while you're doing it?

    I'm still in the middle with certain scenarios. It's not so black and white to me.
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  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    It's Wednesday a.k.a hump day..some fucking will definitely be going down tonight..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    So if I sit on my left hand until it goes numb, then proceed to mangle the beast to high heaven while imagining it's the hand of a girl not my wife, is that considered cheating?
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    Get_Right wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:

    I know someone whose gf feels that when he watches porn he's effectively cheating on her. :shock: Good luck with that one I said to him! haha :?
    depriving her yes, cheating nahhhh
    send her a couple of vids :lol:

    make sure to carefully select the dirtiest vids you can find with shit she'd never consider doing, get her drunk, and then say you only look at the porn for her becos you want to keep the spice in the relationship... then encourage her to act them out with you.

    If only it were that easy..I've been trying to figure out a good angle to work in more porn..she's into it, but more like on special occasions/vacations..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    The Champ wrote:
    make sure to carefully select the dirtiest vids you can find with shit she'd never consider doing, get her drunk, and then say you only look at the porn for her becos you want to keep the spice in the relationship... then encourage her to act them out with you.

    If only it were that easy..I've been trying to figure out a good angle to work in more porn..she's into it, but more like on special occasions/vacations..

    there's a dude in the moving train that works in the industry... maybe he could give us some tips on how they talk all those 18 year old virgins into gangbangs... surely if they can do that we can sway the wife/so?
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    The Champ wrote:
    So if I sit on my left hand until it goes numb, then proceed to mangle the beast to high heaven while imagining it's the hand of a girl not my wife, is that considered cheating?

    man, we had a term for that in middle school... what the hell was it? the stranger?
  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    The Champ wrote:
    make sure to carefully select the dirtiest vids you can find with shit she'd never consider doing, get her drunk, and then say you only look at the porn for her becos you want to keep the spice in the relationship... then encourage her to act them out with you.

    If only it were that easy..I've been trying to figure out a good angle to work in more porn..she's into it, but more like on special occasions/vacations..

    there's a dude in the moving train that works in the industry... maybe he could give us some tips on how they talk all those 18 year old virgins into gangbangs... surely if they can do that we can sway the wife/so?

    Well, they probably offer the hoes booze, drugs and money I'd think..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    The Champ wrote:
    So if I sit on my left hand until it goes numb, then proceed to mangle the beast to high heaven while imagining it's the hand of a girl not my wife, is that considered cheating?

    man, we had a term for that in middle school... what the hell was it? the stranger?

    Yup, that's it!!
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    The Champ wrote:

    If only it were that easy..I've been trying to figure out a good angle to work in more porn..she's into it, but more like on special occasions/vacations..

    Maybe she just watches the really kinky stuff when you're not there! She's probably into all sort of crazy shit but just doesn't want to tell you!
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    there's a dude in the moving train that works in the industry...

    Really? Now that's exciting! Imagine the stories he'd have!
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  • dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    The Champ wrote:
    So if I sit on my left hand until it goes numb, then proceed to mangle the beast to high heaven while imagining it's the hand of a girl not my wife,

    i sit on both hands




    ;)
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    The Champ wrote:
    So if I sit on my left hand until it goes numb, then proceed to mangle the beast to high heaven while imagining it's the hand of a girl not my wife, is that considered cheating?

    Yes that is cheating and you're going straight to fucking hell!
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  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    The Champ wrote:

    If only it were that easy..I've been trying to figure out a good angle to work in more porn..she's into it, but more like on special occasions/vacations..

    Maybe she just watches the really kinky stuff when you're not there! She's probably into all sort of crazy shit but just doesn't want to tell you!

    Yeah, I wish....though I'd be concerned if she were more of a perv than me..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    The Champ wrote:
    So if I sit on my left hand until it goes numb, then proceed to mangle the beast to high heaven while imagining it's the hand of a girl not my wife, is that considered cheating?

    Yes that is cheating and you're going straight to fucking hell!

    'fucking hell'

    sounds ok to me.
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    The Champ wrote:

    Yeah, I wish....though I'd be concerned if she were more of a perv than me..

    Would you really be concerned? I'm more of a perv than my bf in some ways. I wonder if he's concerned? Nahhhhh!!! :lol:
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  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    dunkman wrote:
    The Champ wrote:
    So if I sit on my left hand until it goes numb, then proceed to mangle the beast to high heaven while imagining it's the hand of a girl not my wife,

    i sit on both hands




    ;)

    Do you then use your tongue to navigate through the sites..that's hard core!
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
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