So, What Are You Doing For Sex Tonight?

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  • dcfaithful wrote:
    Using my hand....my wife is 9 months El'preggo.

    Takin' Palmela out for a date eh? 8-)
    :clap:
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  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076


    btw - i've never heard it referred to as 'the monthly grammar'....i like it, made me laugh. :mrgreen:
    and hey, sometimes waiting can be good....ya know what they say....good things come.......;)

    and I thought I was being all cool...stupid me, it's not grammer but punctuation :oops:

    yes, I went to public school, lol.
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  • Drowned OutDrowned Out Posts: 6,056
    phone sex, maybe....think that's the best I can manage tonight. It's like masturbation you can almost brag about. but not.
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    dcfaithful wrote:


    btw - i've never heard it referred to as 'the monthly grammar'....i like it, made me laugh. :mrgreen:
    and hey, sometimes waiting can be good....ya know what they say....good things come.......;)

    and I thought I was being all cool...stupid me, it's not grammer but punctuation :oops:

    yes, I went to public school, lol.



    hahahaha.
    well, never heard it referred to as that either, but sure...that makes even more sense. ;)
    i love plays on words....even if the play is on a something that plagues my body on a monthly basis. :? guess the jokes on me, eh?

    phone sex, maybe....think that's the best I can manage tonight. It's like masturbation you can almost brag about. but not.

    :lol:
    with the right person, phone sex is awesome.
    with the wrong person....awkward. :?
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  • Drowned OutDrowned Out Posts: 6,056

    phone sex, maybe....think that's the best I can manage tonight. It's like masturbation you can almost brag about. but not.

    :lol:
    with the right person, phone sex is awesome.
    with the wrong person....awkward. :?
    agreed. but is it sex or masturbation? :P
    I've had people tell me about these great adventures in phone sex....it's like...I don't know if I want to hear your jerk-off stories there bub.
  • :lol:
    with the right person, phone sex is awesome.
    with the wrong person....awkward. :?
    SO WHATS YOUR NUMBER?? ;)
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  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076

    phone sex, maybe....think that's the best I can manage tonight. It's like masturbation you can almost brag about. but not.

    :lol:
    with the right person, phone sex is awesome.
    with the wrong person....awkward. :?
    agreed. but is it sex or masturbation? :P
    I've had people tell me about these great adventures in phone sex....it's like...I don't know if I want to hear your jerk-off stories there bub.

    Exactly!!!
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    8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
    9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
    9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
    9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
  • dcfaithful wrote:
    agreed. but is it sex or masturbation? :P
    I've had people tell me about these great adventures in phone sex....it's like...I don't know if I want to hear your jerk-off stories there bub.

    Exactly!!!
    we have to try all ;)
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 13,379
    with the right person, phone sex is awesome.
    with the wrong person....awkward. :?
    but is it cheating
    :o :shock: :?:
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    Get_Right wrote:
    with the right person, phone sex is awesome.
    with the wrong person....awkward. :?
    but is it cheating
    :o :shock: :?:

    I was just talking with the friends the other day about whether phone sex/cyber sex is cheating....that's a hard one to answer!
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  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Get_Right wrote:
    with the right person, phone sex is awesome.
    with the wrong person....awkward. :?
    but is it cheating
    :o :shock: :?:

    I was just talking with the friends the other day about whether phone sex/cyber sex is cheating....that's a hard one to answer!

    If no physical penetration happens...I'm partial to say no. Kissing, making out, or heavy flirting with a person while you have a girlfriend/boyfriend is definitely a shitty thing to do...but does it qualify as cheating?

    I tihnk the answer will change with each person
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    6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
    8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
    9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
    9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
    9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
  • EnkiduEnkidu So Cal Posts: 2,996
    Phone sex doesn't seem like cheating to me - unless it's somebody you know.

    Today's my wedding anniversary. Depending on the gift, we'll see what happens later...
  • BenzorBenzor Posts: 886
    I was just talking with the friends the other day about whether phone sex/cyber sex is cheating....that's a hard one to answer!
    If no physical penetration happens...I'm partial to say no. Kissing, making out, or heavy flirting with a person while you have a girlfriend/boyfriend is definitely a shitty thing to do...but does it qualify as cheating?

    I tihnk the answer will change with each person

    if i found out that a girl i was dating was having or had phone sex with another guy i would deal with it exactly like i would if she had sex with him...things would be over. guess that's a yes for me then
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    I think phone sex seems worse than cyber sex for some reason......
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    Enkidu wrote:
    Phone sex doesn't seem like cheating to me - unless it's somebody you know.

    What if it's repeated phone sex with the same person that they don't personally know?
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  • BenzorBenzor Posts: 886
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Enkidu wrote:
    Phone sex doesn't seem like cheating to me - unless it's somebody you know.

    What if it's repeated phone sex with the same person that they don't personally know?

    i don't think it should even matter if they know the person or not. to be honest i dont see how anyone could say it's not cheating...just think how you would feel if you caught your girlfriend having phone sex with another guy.
  • ZiggyStar wrote:
    I think phone sex seems worse than cyber sex for some reason......
    depence the partner..
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    Benzor wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Enkidu wrote:
    Phone sex doesn't seem like cheating to me - unless it's somebody you know.

    What if it's repeated phone sex with the same person that they don't personally know?

    i don't think it should even matter if they know the person or not. to be honest i dont see how anyone could say it's not cheating...just think how you would feel if you caught your girlfriend having phone sex with another guy.

    Yeah....I don't think I'd be too keen on my bf having phone sex.

    What are your thoughts on cyber sex?
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  • Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 13,379
    wouldn't you say that sharing a orgasm with person other than your significant other is cheating?
    even if its in cyberspace, telephonic or anonymous?

    ladies please say no :D:D:lol:
  • BenzorBenzor Posts: 886
    ZiggyStar wrote:


    Yeah....I don't think I'd be too keen on my bf having phone sex.

    What are your thoughts on cyber sex?

    i would still see it as cheating...perhaps not quite as bad though. never been in either situation thankfully so im not really sure.
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    Get_Right wrote:
    wouldn't you say that sharing a orgasm with person other than your significant other is cheating?
    even if its in cyberspace, telephonic or anonymous?

    ladies please say no :D:D:lol:

    Hmmm.....yes, I'd probably say it was cheating if you shared an orgasm....maybe. I don't know. I'm kinda in the middle with all this.

    What if you didn't orgasm though? haha When does it cross the line to cheating?
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  • Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 13,379
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Hmmm.....yes, I'd probably say it was cheating if you shared an orgasm....maybe. I don't know. I'm kinda in the middle with all this.

    What if you didn't orgasm though? haha When does it cross the line to cheating?
    well then whats the frigging point :lol::lol:

    somewhere between watching an XXX movie, calling an anonymous phone sex line and having cam to cam cybersex the line gets crossed me thinks

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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    Get_Right wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Hmmm.....yes, I'd probably say it was cheating if you shared an orgasm....maybe. I don't know. I'm kinda in the middle with all this.

    What if you didn't orgasm though? haha When does it cross the line to cheating?
    well then whats the frigging point :lol::lol:

    somewhere between watching an XXX movie, calling an anonymous phone sex line and having cam to cam cybersex the line gets crossed me thinks

    I know someone whose gf feels that when he watches porn he's effectively cheating on her. :shock: Good luck with that one I said to him! haha :?
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  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    I know someone whose gf feels that when he watches porn he's effectively cheating on her. :shock: Good luck with that one I said to him! haha :?

    is her name Ima Painindass? ;):lol:
  • Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 13,379
    ZiggyStar wrote:

    I know someone whose gf feels that when he watches porn he's effectively cheating on her. :shock: Good luck with that one I said to him! haha :?
    depriving her yes, cheating nahhhh
    send her a couple of vids :lol:
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    norm wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    I know someone whose gf feels that when he watches porn he's effectively cheating on her. :shock: Good luck with that one I said to him! haha :?

    is her name Ima Painindass? ;):lol:

    hahaha It should be! Fuck that.....I couldn't handle being with someone so insecure!
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  • ZiggyStar wrote:
    What if it's repeated phone sex with the same person that they don't personally know?

    I misplaced your number...what is it again? :lol:
  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    Get_Right wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:

    I know someone whose gf feels that when he watches porn he's effectively cheating on her. :shock: Good luck with that one I said to him! haha :?
    depriving her yes, cheating nahhhh
    send her a couple of vids :lol:

    Depriving her? She should be fucking sitting down watching it with him!! She's only depriving herself imo!
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    edited October 2009
    its quite simple people. if you do something you cant tell your partner about without there being repurcussions or without it being preagreed upon, then yes any sexual activity with someone other then your partner, whether it be phone sex,a one night stand, a handjob blowjob, a continued relationship with an other or cybersex, is cheating.
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  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    its quite simple people. if you do something you cant tell your partner about without there being repurcussions or without it being preagreed upon, then yes any sexual activity with someone other then your partner, whether it be phone sex,a one night stand, a handjob blowjob, a continued relationship with an other or cybersex, its cheating.

    :thumbup:
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