Smoking during pregnancy

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  • polaris_x
    polaris_x Posts: 13,559
    positive reinforcement?

    i am gonna guess that if she does end up quitting smoking - it will be for the unborn child in her belly ... so, maybe go pick up something for the kid and show her ... this would kinda show her how important the kid is to you and hopefully remind her why she's going thru what she's probably going thru ...
  • jordan k
    jordan k Posts: 196
    I have no advice other than be supportive and also consider what many people have said about a baby being born healthily after someone smoked during pregnancy. My mom did (they knew no better then) and I grew up tall and big with no health problems whatsoever.

    Supportive is the key I think.
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  • PearlJamDowner
    PearlJamDowner Posts: 171
    just a quick update....I said she quit for a few days, well thats all that really lasted. She has continued to smoke past week 18 so fuck her I hate her now, fuck me, and fuck my life. Anyone who thinks smoking during pregnancy is ok can fuck off.
    im messed
  • Drowned Out
    Drowned Out Posts: 6,056
    PearlJamDowner wrote:
    just a quick update....I said she quit for a few days, well thats all that really lasted. She has continued to smoke past week 18 so fuck her I hate her now, fuck me, and fuck my life. Anyone who thinks smoking during pregnancy is ok can fuck off.
    :roll:
    Well, since I spent a lot of time in this thread not defending her actions, but trying to gain some empathy for her, and to make you feel less stressed about the situation, I'll assume I'm one of the people you're directing your comments at...
    Since it's christmas eve and I still, for some reason, have a shred of empathy for YOU, I'll bit my tongue on all the shit I really want to say and leave it at this: You have issues man. Get help.
  • PearlJamDowner
    PearlJamDowner Posts: 171
    you couldnt be more wrong
    im messed

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