Cancer, and me.

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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Thank you.

    I’m working on my “must-do” list this weekend 😛
  • Sorry to read this. Sending you positive thoughts and wishing you all the best.
  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    Someone in my family has been doing Immunotherapy for awhile now, and it has been working wonders. I hope it does the same for you. :rose:
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Someone in my family has been doing Immunotherapy for awhile now, and it has been working wonders. I hope it does the same for you. :rose:
    Thank you — that’s my hope as well 🙂
  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    hedonist said:
    Had a meeting with my oncologist earlier and unfortunately, the cancer has metastasized to my lung, maybe to the bone as well.

    As this is all puts me in stage 4, it makes no sense to go with a targeted treatment such as chemo (plus i’m not wasting precious time feeling like shit); same with radiation. Immunotherapy is the way to go without major side effects.

    So that’s that; my head is, surprisingly, in a good place and I aim to keep it that way as long as I can 🙂
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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Amy 😘♥️
  • Goodness me, stay strong and keep us updated please @hedonist xxxxxxxxxxx
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Trying, WCD! 🙂
  • Malroth
    Malroth broken down chevrolet Posts: 2,557
    I've always enjoyed your blend of thought, humor, and attitude on these boards.
    May you never die!
    The worst of times..they don't phase me,
    even if I look and act really crazy.
  • Fifthelement
    Fifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,965
    hedonist said:
    Had a meeting with my oncologist earlier and unfortunately, the cancer has metastasized to my lung, maybe to the bone as well.

    As this is all puts me in stage 4, it makes no sense to go with a targeted treatment such as chemo (plus i’m not wasting precious time feeling like shit); same with radiation. Immunotherapy is the way to go without major side effects.

    So that’s that; my head is, surprisingly, in a good place and I aim to keep it that way as long as I can 🙂
    @hedonist Gutted to read this.  Sending love and hugs to you and your loved ones as you continue on this journey. 

    S xx 
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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Thanks, both of you.

    I’m not quite ready to say “hey” to the Grim Reaper just yet :wink:
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,619
    hedonist said:
    Thanks, both of you.

    I’m not quite ready to say “hey” to the Grim Reaper just yet :wink:

    how about 'HEY!!! FUCK YOU!!!!"
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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    mickeyrat said:
    hedonist said:
    Thanks, both of you.

    I’m not quite ready to say “hey” to the Grim Reaper just yet :wink:

    how about 'HEY!!! FUCK YOU!!!!"
    Ha! That, I would love to do. 
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,717
    hedonist said:
    Had a meeting with my oncologist earlier and unfortunately, the cancer has metastasized to my lung, maybe to the bone as well.

    As this is all puts me in stage 4, it makes no sense to go with a targeted treatment such as chemo (plus i’m not wasting precious time feeling like shit); same with radiation. Immunotherapy is the way to go without major side effects.

    So that’s that; my head is, surprisingly, in a good place and I aim to keep it that way as long as I can 🙂

    Oh Hedo, I'm so sorry that this is the news that you got. My heart goes out to you. I admire your attitude so much - stay strong sister.
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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    PJ_Soul said:
    hedonist said:
    Had a meeting with my oncologist earlier and unfortunately, the cancer has metastasized to my lung, maybe to the bone as well.

    As this is all puts me in stage 4, it makes no sense to go with a targeted treatment such as chemo (plus i’m not wasting precious time feeling like shit); same with radiation. Immunotherapy is the way to go without major side effects.

    So that’s that; my head is, surprisingly, in a good place and I aim to keep it that way as long as I can 🙂

    Oh Hedo, I'm so sorry that this is the news that you got. My heart goes out to you. I admire your attitude so much - stay strong sister.
    Thank you. I hate this news but had a sense. Damn you, gut feeling!

    Doing my damnedest to keep courageous :)
  • Halifax2TheMax
    Halifax2TheMax Posts: 42,438
    hedonist said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    hedonist said:
    Had a meeting with my oncologist earlier and unfortunately, the cancer has metastasized to my lung, maybe to the bone as well.

    As this is all puts me in stage 4, it makes no sense to go with a targeted treatment such as chemo (plus i’m not wasting precious time feeling like shit); same with radiation. Immunotherapy is the way to go without major side effects.

    So that’s that; my head is, surprisingly, in a good place and I aim to keep it that way as long as I can 🙂

    Oh Hedo, I'm so sorry that this is the news that you got. My heart goes out to you. I admire your attitude so much - stay strong sister.
    Thank you. I hate this news but had a sense. Damn you, gut feeling!

    Doing my damnedest to keep courageous :)
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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    hedonist said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    hedonist said:
    Had a meeting with my oncologist earlier and unfortunately, the cancer has metastasized to my lung, maybe to the bone as well.

    As this is all puts me in stage 4, it makes no sense to go with a targeted treatment such as chemo (plus i’m not wasting precious time feeling like shit); same with radiation. Immunotherapy is the way to go without major side effects.

    So that’s that; my head is, surprisingly, in a good place and I aim to keep it that way as long as I can 🙂

    Oh Hedo, I'm so sorry that this is the news that you got. My heart goes out to you. I admire your attitude so much - stay strong sister.
    Thank you. I hate this news but had a sense. Damn you, gut feeling!

    Doing my damnedest to keep courageous :)
    Damnedest? You're the definition of courageous.
    😘
  • Halifax2TheMax
    Halifax2TheMax Posts: 42,438
    hedonist said:
    hedonist said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    hedonist said:
    Had a meeting with my oncologist earlier and unfortunately, the cancer has metastasized to my lung, maybe to the bone as well.

    As this is all puts me in stage 4, it makes no sense to go with a targeted treatment such as chemo (plus i’m not wasting precious time feeling like shit); same with radiation. Immunotherapy is the way to go without major side effects.

    So that’s that; my head is, surprisingly, in a good place and I aim to keep it that way as long as I can 🙂

    Oh Hedo, I'm so sorry that this is the news that you got. My heart goes out to you. I admire your attitude so much - stay strong sister.
    Thank you. I hate this news but had a sense. Damn you, gut feeling!

    Doing my damnedest to keep courageous :)
    Damnedest? You're the definition of courageous.
    😘
    And you’ve got the golden touch, oh yea!
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  • hedonist
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    hedonist said:
    hedonist said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    hedonist said:
    Had a meeting with my oncologist earlier and unfortunately, the cancer has metastasized to my lung, maybe to the bone as well.

    As this is all puts me in stage 4, it makes no sense to go with a targeted treatment such as chemo (plus i’m not wasting precious time feeling like shit); same with radiation. Immunotherapy is the way to go without major side effects.

    So that’s that; my head is, surprisingly, in a good place and I aim to keep it that way as long as I can 🙂

    Oh Hedo, I'm so sorry that this is the news that you got. My heart goes out to you. I admire your attitude so much - stay strong sister.
    Thank you. I hate this news but had a sense. Damn you, gut feeling!

    Doing my damnedest to keep courageous :)
    Damnedest? You're the definition of courageous.
    😘
    And you’ve got the golden touch, oh yea!
    Queen Midas!
  • tempo_n_groove
    tempo_n_groove Posts: 41,537
    hedonist said:
    Had a meeting with my oncologist earlier and unfortunately, the cancer has metastasized to my lung, maybe to the bone as well.

    As this is all puts me in stage 4, it makes no sense to go with a targeted treatment such as chemo (plus i’m not wasting precious time feeling like shit); same with radiation. Immunotherapy is the way to go without major side effects.

    So that’s that; my head is, surprisingly, in a good place and I aim to keep it that way as long as I can 🙂
    Don't come on this thread much because I dont like sad news and I come to this...

    I have never met you, but I do feel like I know you.    The fentanyl comments made me circle back. I will be around to hear you.