Cancer, and me.

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  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    hedonist said:
    Hey all, letting you know that I’ll be out of the hospital shortly and going home to hospice care. Just buying time now but no more treatment for the cancer itself. 

    It’s been a true pleasure knowing you all and I really appreciate all you’ve done to boost me up when I needed it. Thank you 🙂
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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Gosh you all are as amazing as you you claim I am 🙂

    mickey, tough question! I would say Puscifer’s Dear Brother. I’m sure it’ll change as time passes. 
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,408
    edited October 2022
    hedonist said:
    Gosh you all are as amazing as you you claim I am 🙂

    mickey, tough question! I would say Puscifer’s Dear Brother. I’m sure it’ll change as time passes. 

    keep em coming then.
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  • Merkin Baller
    Merkin Baller Posts: 12,781
    Our mutual appreciation for Carina will make it hard NOT to think of you when listening… You’re the only person I’ve come across who appreciates her as much as I do. ❤️
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    edited October 2022
    Love it, Merk. You and my husband, for me. 

    It’s surreal knowing I may not be able to hear her very soon ☹️
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  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    That would be surreal, hedo. If you want to talk about it, we're here to listen. 
  • oftenreading
    oftenreading Victoria, BC Posts: 12,856
    I am really sorry to have to let everyone know that Hedo died this afternoon with her husband Dan, the love of her life, by her side. 

    Dan and I had a conversation this morning and he asked if I would be willing to let everyone here know when the time came, as he is not on the forum. I agreed but I had no idea that it would be so soon. 

    People may wish to make a donation to an animal shelter or pit bull rescue in Hedo's name, if you want to honour her in that way.

    Listen to some Puscifer this evening and think about our amazing, funny, fierce, and loyal Hedo. Goodbye for now. 
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  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,811
    Peace to all, hug your loved ones.
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  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,408
    wel fuck.
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  • Merkin Baller
    Merkin Baller Posts: 12,781
    I’m so sorry, Dan. 
  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    Hedo... ❤️🥺
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  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434

    She was on this morning.  
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  • lolobugg
    lolobugg BLUE RDGE MTNS Posts: 8,195
    I can't find the words.... we lost a great person today.

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  • mickeyrat
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  • GlowGirl
    GlowGirl New York, NY Posts: 12,086
    edited October 2022
    Devastating 😢. 

    My condolences to Dan, George, and little Flea. We all feel your loss. Hedo will be missed for sure. 
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  • Wobbie
    Wobbie Posts: 31,274
    edited October 2022
    you all gave all the support you could. I know hedo appreciated that. yes, we lost a really good one today. so, so unfair.
    If I had known then what I know now...

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  • It still doesn’t seem real. And I so wish it wasn’t.
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  • I'm so sorry for the loss to her nearest and dearest and for us. Absolutely gutted.
  • nicknyr15
    nicknyr15 Posts: 9,221
    Man that’s so tough to read. So sorry to hear this. 
  • markymark550
    markymark550 Columbia, SC Posts: 5,217
    So sorry to read this. Prayers for her and her family.