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  • Toronto, ON Posts: 9,400
    ecdanc said:
    Dude, fourteen pages ago I said "we're not expecting P to stay gender neutral forever. We're waiting for them to express their gender identity." Was that unclear?
    It was on page 1 out of 30 (and counting) that you raised your initial objection. It took you 14 pages of arguing back and forth with individuals to get the same message across that oftenreading did in one post. No, that doesn't exude initial clarity to me. To add to this, I think you probably did a good job of dissuading anyone from reading your subsequent comments by being argumentative, arrogant, and condescending to any with the audacity to disagree or not understand your point. 

    FWIW, I wanted to mention that while I clearly have no passion for the way you debate/discuss on here, I find it really admirable how you're raising your child to be gender-neutral until they present their own gender to you as parents; that's a major commitment to letting your child walk their own walk.
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  • Moving through All Kinds of Terrain. Posts: 43,677
    ecdanc said:
    How many of those 226 posts are from people who don’t think climate change is a problem?

    I don't have time to count but look at the stats- the point I made is about what people are more concerned or interested in.  I think that's very plane to see.  Climate change involves less drama and is less sensationalist than gender issues.  Our priorities leave me scratching my head. 
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    benjs said:
    It was on page 1 out of 30 (and counting) that you raised your initial objection. It took you 14 pages of arguing back and forth with individuals to get the same message across that oftenreading did in one post. No, that doesn't exude initial clarity to me. To add to this, I think you probably did a good job of dissuading anyone from reading your subsequent comments by being argumentative, arrogant, and condescending to any with the audacity to disagree or not understand your point. 

    FWIW, I wanted to mention that while I clearly have no passion for the way you debate/discuss on here, I find it really admirable how you're raising your child to be gender-neutral until they present their own gender to you as parents; that's a major commitment to letting your child walk their own walk.
    C'mon, that's a gross mischaracterization of this thread. The first few pages had nothing to do with gender neutral parenting. We got to that topic on p. 4, where you'll find my post that says:

    "Children are not born with a gender identity they can express. They are assigned a gender at birth (or, often now, before birth). I’m purposely sidestepping “sex” here to focus on gender, but generally speaking the assigned gender aligns with the child’s genitals (penis = boy, etc.). Gender identity comes later—while there isn’t a great deal of research in this area, some experts suggest this happens as early as three years old. So, while I’m oversimplifying things slightly, a child will express their identity at the same age, regardless of whether they are assigned a gender at birth. Does that help make things clearer?" 

    Am I being argumentative, arrogant, and/or condescending there? Trolls, my friend. 

    And FWIW, thank you. 
  • Posts: 1,814
    brianlux said:

    I don't have time to count but look at the stats- the point I made is about what people are more concerned or interested in.  I think that's very plane to see.  Climate change involves less drama and is less sensationalist than gender issues.  Our priorities leave me scratching my head. 
    And my point is, the number of posts in this thread doesn't imply more people are concerned about transgender people/issues than climate change. I'd say the number of posts here suggests the exact opposite--a whole bunch of people explaining why they aren't concerned. 
  • Posts: 44,819
    brianlux said:

    I don't have time to count but look at the stats- the point I made is about what people are more concerned or interested in.  I think that's very plane to see.  Climate change involves less drama and is less sensationalist than gender issues.  Our priorities leave me scratching my head. 
    fully half of the posts in this thread are useless to the overall topic and conversation imo. some of which I own too so I'm not slinging mud just to sling it.
    I had hoped for better discourse though. We've seen its possible ........

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    edited February 2020
    I have had a 90-95% quality level on my posts in this thread. I am proud to say.

    my board average is 63%.
    "Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
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    I have had a 90-95% quality level on my posts in this thread. I am proud to say.

    my board average is 63%.
    Fake news 
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  • Fake news 
    No need to try to tank your average like this cincy.
    "Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
  • Posts: 30,922
    brianlux said:
    I changed it to "some people" so no one will think I'm talking about YOU.  I'm not. 

    This whole thread occupies way more space than I would really think is justifiable in a world with so many more pressing issues... like, your planet if being fucked and your kids will have to deal with that!
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    I have had a 90-95% quality level on my posts in this thread. I am proud to say.

    my board average is 63%.
    This is funny.  I dare to say that maybe I like the new SC. 
  • Posts: 9,478
    brianlux said:

    I don't have time to count but look at the stats- the point I made is about what people are more concerned or interested in.  I think that's very plane to see.  Climate change involves less drama and is less sensationalist than gender issues.  Our priorities leave me scratching my head. 
    I care way more about climate issues. Posting in a thread is a terrible metric to measure how much people care.
  • Posts: 16,895
    No need to try to tank your average like this cincy.
    No we are both dropping ;)


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    I wonder what, if any , accommodations will be made once he reaches prison. Would assume he starts out in a juvenile facility intil 18.......


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  • Posts: 13,576
    ecdanc said:
    Again, scientists everywhere are cringing. 
    Dude, no they aren't lol
    I know a few naturalists and a population geneticist and they would laugh at what you are saying and tell you to drink a beer, burn one, put down the philosophy books and get your hands dirty lol 
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  • Posts: 1,814
    rgambs said:
    Dude, no they aren't lol
    I know a few naturalists and a population geneticist and they would laugh at what you are saying and tell you to drink a beer, burn one, put down the philosophy books and get your hands dirty lol 
    Huh. So if everyone is doing science, why should anyone listen to scientists?                      

  • Posts: 13,576
    ecdanc said:
    No, amongst scholars, mine is the more common position. 

    Maybe amongst scholars who talk about science and research, but not likely among those who actually engage in scientific research...
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  • Posts: 13,576
    ecdanc said:
    Huh. So if everyone is doing science, why should anyone listen to scientists?                      

    Well, because they are much better at it than everyone else, of course.
    I'm a pretty good cook, I still use recipes from top chefs.  I used to do my own taxes, I never thought of myself as an economist.  I am pretty insightful with the emotions of my friends and family, I don't claim to be a psychiatrist.  
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  • Posts: 1,814
    rgambs said:
    Maybe amongst scholars who talk about science and research, but not likely among those who actually engage in scientific research...
    Read the entire thread. You’re agreeing with me. 
  • Posts: 1,814
    rgambs said:
    Well, because they are much better at it than everyone else, of course.
    I'm a pretty good cook, I still use recipes from top chefs.  I used to do my own taxes, I never thought of myself as an economist.  I am pretty insightful with the emotions of my friends and family, I don't claim to be a psychiatrist.  
    Those scientists do not conflate reality and science. That’s where in this conversation you’ve intervened. 

  • Posts: 13,576
    ecdanc said:
    Read the entire thread. You’re agreeing with me. 
    Maybe, but I don't generally give much credence to the opinions of "experts" who don't actually engage in their field of "study"
    I grew tired of philosophy in my teens, it's a big circle-jerk that leads nowhere.  It can be a ton of fun to run in circles, but that gets old.  Ontology and epistemology are the most classic examples of intellectualism put to no use at all.
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