Dating as A PJ Fan

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  • ratmando
    ratmando Outside of Portland, or somewhere like that Posts: 347
    (Fwiw, I'm 5 3, and use a cane/wheelchair at times- depending upon the seasons)
    When I hear music, I fear no danger. I am invulnerable. I see no foe. I am related to the earliest times, and to the latest.

    Henry David Thoreau
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,011
    edited November 2017
    If the European tour ever happens we are fucked now as a pj couple WITH a baby. Im now out of the game . Gone from sleeping iut the night before in the queue to not being even able to go for a ticket .How i will handle this does not compute :s
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    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • rgambs
    rgambs Posts: 13,576
    lastexitlondon said:
    If the European tour ever happens we are fucked now as a pj couple WITH a baby. Im now out of the game . Gone from sleeping iut the night before in the queue to not being even able to go for a ticket .How i will handle this does not compute :s
    Where there's a will, there's a way!
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  • Shyner
    Shyner Posts: 1,226
    I believe that a love for any music is vital to any 2 but i know they're are so many people that aren't into jamming
  • The Juggler
    The Juggler Posts: 49,599
    Dr. Delight said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Dr. Delight said:
    ^^
    Good point on the travelling issue. But it also might be a good way to give each other some space and do things on your own. Of course it is fun to experience music together, especially when its mutually loved.
    I'm all for space and doing things on my own (it's actually why I'm single!), but if I were crazy enough to get into a relationship, haha, my love of music is something I would need to share with my partner, at least a fair bit of the time - it's not like I would require we attend every single show together or anything level-5 clinger, lol, but it would have to be a common addiction. If I didn't share that love there would just be a big void between us. It's too big a part of my life and too great a source of joy to not share with my S.O. I'd rather be single forever than separate that part of my life from my loved one. Plus, a couple would need to have a fair bit of money for one to be travelling for concerts, the other to perhaps travel alone for something else, and then, presumably, try to find time and money to travel together as well. I just don't see how that would work in a normal budget for two people who work full time, lol.
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  • Wma31394
    Wma31394 Posts: 3,045
    Certain music someone listens to or likes a deal breaker?? Sounds like a recipe for staying single... 
    "Going where the water tastes like wine!"
  • rgambs
    rgambs Posts: 13,576
    Wma31394 said:
    Certain music someone listens to or likes a deal breaker?? Sounds like a recipe for staying single... 
    Or a recipe for finding someone you can bond with on very deep levels.

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  • Vitalogensia
    Vitalogensia Posts: 2,228
    I'd say someone not letting me have at least some of my posters up would be a deal breaker.  I dated a girl who walked into my place for the first time and basically said if we were living together, there wouldn't be nearly as many posters.  :o
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,011
    Vitalogensia said:
    I'd say someone not letting me have at least some of my posters up would be a deal breaker.  I dated a girl who walked into my place for the first time and basically said if we were living together, there wouldn't be nearly as many posters.  :o
    No deal


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • JOEJOEJOE
    JOEJOEJOE Posts: 10,840
    I am lucky enough to have married someone who has seen more PJ shows than me.

    We met through a friend in 2006, and ran into each other at a few of the PJ shows that summer. 
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,882
    edited November 2017
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    As long as she's no shorter than 6 feet.
    Wow. I understand liking tall women if you're very tall, but geez, that really limits your options. There aren't very many women who are taller than 6'.... unless you mean when they wear heels (hubba hubba btw - sounds like you're really really tall; that is very attractive to me - I like extremely tall men ... but I'm "only" 5'10" :lol:;) ).
    Post edited by PJ_Soul on
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  • ratmando
    ratmando Outside of Portland, or somewhere like that Posts: 347
    rgambs said:
    Wma31394 said:
    Certain music someone listens to or likes a deal breaker?? Sounds like a recipe for staying single... 
    Or a recipe for finding someone you can bond with on very deep levels.

    EXACTLY my point.
    When I hear music, I fear no danger. I am invulnerable. I see no foe. I am related to the earliest times, and to the latest.

    Henry David Thoreau
  • KC138045
    KC138045 Columbus, OH Posts: 2,716
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    As long as she's no shorter than 6 feet.
    Hahahaha......personally I like short women and I'm 6'2".  My ex wife is only 5'4"
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  • darwinstheory
    darwinstheory LaPorte, IN Posts: 7,480
    I really prefer that they just be breathing and willing. :blush: Hahahaha
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  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,011
    ^^^^came in like a wrecking ball


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,882
    darwinstheory said:
    I really prefer that they just be breathing and willing. :blush: Hahahaha
    :lol:
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,952
    darwinstheory said:
    I really prefer that they just be breathing and willing. :blush: Hahahaha
    When in college I had two basic rules for the end of the night rounds.
    1)  Weighed less than I did
    2)  Were willing participants


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  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,011
    Fussy then? =)


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • darwinstheory
    darwinstheory LaPorte, IN Posts: 7,480
    F Me In The Brain said:
    darwinstheory said:
    I really prefer that they just be breathing and willing. :blush: Hahahaha
    When in college I had two basic rules for the end of the night rounds.
    1)  Weighed less than I did
    2)  Were willing participants


    I have a feeling you were pretty lax on the first rule. Just a hunch.

    I should note that heels are a plus....not a requirement. 


    "A smart monkey doesn't monkey around with another monkey's monkey" - Darwin's Theory
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,882
    Heels are just horrible for women's health. :frowning:
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata

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