Thanks to all and an update on my wife

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  • StillHere
    StillHere Posts: 7,795
    i'm just seeing this tonight
    and feeling the love for you and your wife from all around on here
    just letting you know that i'm doing my small part from my heart to yours
    hope things look up for the two of you
    we're here whenever you need us
    peace,
    jo

    http://www.Etsy.com/Shop/SimpleEarthCreations
    "How I choose to feel is how I am." ~ EV/MMc
    "Some people hear their own inner voices with great clearness and they live by what they hear. Such people become crazy, or they become legends." ~ One Stab ~
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    new day,hope that brings good news..one step at the time..
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    new day,hope that brings good news..one step at the time..

    Thanks for checking in. This site is my strength. The emotional aspect is very overwhelming at this point. She is so tired of going through all of this. The tears are hard to hold back more and more as time passes and the anticipation grows as the crossroad gets closer. On Monday the 30 we will find out if the antibiotics have worked or not. The treatment of the meds last six weeks and as of the four week period the 3 1/2 inch infection was still very dominantly in her heart. So the rest of this week is very crucial to her healing. Thank you and everybody for your strength and support. I am barely keeping it together at this point. It is so hard to see Shawna like this. I don't think I could make it if something happens to her. She is my heart, soul mate and the reason why my life is so good. When I met her almost 10 years ago she saved me from myself. Gave me the light to see through the darkness to the other side. She made me successful and the man I am today. Please keep us in your thoughts for these days are hard to imagine.
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    SxDx1982 wrote:
    Hi... I just wanted to tell you that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
    I know someone who is on dialysis, and while it isn't as scary as what you guys are going through, it's still something that I can't stop worrying about, because I know that my friend is going to have to have transplant surgery at some point.
    I know it's hard, but you have to trust the doctors. The person who called you could even be lying, some people get real bitter about things and blame the doctors even when it's not their fault.

    Love & Light,

    Marja

    Very good point. People who suffer are sometimes blinded by the reality of truth. People mean well but the mind can be hazed when they are in a state of love and trust. Thank you for your light maybe it'll help me see a little more clearer today.
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Vedderlover1, Best wishes to you and your family will life bring you and yours the happiness and fulfillment that you so truly deserve.
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    StillHere wrote:
    i'm just seeing this tonight
    and feeling the love for you and your wife from all around on here
    just letting you know that i'm doing my small part from my heart to yours
    hope things look up for the two of you
    we're here whenever you need us

    Hi there, It's nice hearing from you again. You were there for us in thoughts when all this first started. Thank you for your kind words and reminder of how much support is here. :D
    John and Shawna
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    paysonites wrote:
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    new day,hope that brings good news..one step at the time..

    Thanks for checking in. This site is my strength. The emotional aspect is very overwhelming at this point. She is so tired of going through all of this. The tears are hard to hold back more and more as time passes and the anticipation grows as the crossroad gets closer. On Monday the 30 we will find out if the antibiotics have worked or not. The treatment of the meds last six weeks and as of the four week period the 3 1/2 inch infection was still very dominantly in her heart. So the rest of this week is very crucial to her healing. Thank you and everybody for your strength and support. I am barely keeping it together at this point. It is so hard to see Shawna like this. I don't think I could make it if something happens to her. She is my heart, soul mate and the reason why my life is so good. When I met her almost 10 years ago she saved me from myself. Gave me the light to see through the darkness to the other side. She made me successful and the man I am today. Please keep us in your thoughts for these days are hard to imagine.
    now,you have one more in tears after read that....

    i know is hard to imagine...but i believe in miracles..ill wait for the next miracle at Monday 30th
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • StillHere
    StillHere Posts: 7,795
    paysonites wrote:
    StillHere wrote:
    i'm just seeing this tonight
    and feeling the love for you and your wife from all around on here
    just letting you know that i'm doing my small part from my heart to yours
    hope things look up for the two of you
    we're here whenever you need us

    Hi there, It's nice hearing from you again. You were there for us in thoughts when all this first started. Thank you for your kind words and reminder of how much support is here. :D

    always with you
    hang in there
    peace,
    jo

    http://www.Etsy.com/Shop/SimpleEarthCreations
    "How I choose to feel is how I am." ~ EV/MMc
    "Some people hear their own inner voices with great clearness and they live by what they hear. Such people become crazy, or they become legends." ~ One Stab ~
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    StillHere wrote:
    paysonites wrote:
    StillHere wrote:
    i'm just seeing this tonight
    and feeling the love for you and your wife from all around on here
    just letting you know that i'm doing my small part from my heart to yours
    hope things look up for the two of you
    we're here whenever you need us

    Hi there, It's nice hearing from you again. You were there for us in thoughts when all this first started. Thank you for your kind words and reminder of how much support is here. :D

    always with you
    hang in there

    :D:D +10,000
    John and Shawna
  • Paul Andrews
    Paul Andrews Posts: 2,489
    edited January 2012
    Even though the battle may be long, and often appear to be bigger than you both, if you make sure every step is a step forward and a step together, you will make your way through this difficult path. Sometimes the road may be far longer and bumpier than you wish, but you are already further along that path than you were a month ago, and closer to the destination. Stay positive and look at how far you've come rather than how far you have to go.

    In the 'immortal' words of Rocky Balboa

    "Life will bring you to your knees and keep you there. Permanently. If you let it.
    It's not about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit. And keep moving forward.
    Keep moving forward.
    If you know what you're worth, go out and get it. But you have to be willing to take the hit. "
    Post edited by Paul Andrews on
    http://longroad.com.au
  • vedderlover1
    vedderlover1 Posts: 178
    paysonites wrote:
    Vedderlover1, Best wishes to you and your family will life bring you and yours the happiness and fulfillment that you so truly deserve.

    You truly are an amazing man to say such kind words and be thinking of my family when yours is in such turmoil. Every morning brings new hope and a fresh start. Your wife is a lucky woman to have found such a selfless life partner. Continued healing thoughts for your hearts, bodies and souls.
    Amy
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    paysonites wrote:
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    new day,hope that brings good news..one step at the time..

    Thanks for checking in. This site is my strength. The emotional aspect is very overwhelming at this point. She is so tired of going through all of this. The tears are hard to hold back more and more as time passes and the anticipation grows as the crossroad gets closer. On Monday the 30 we will find out if the antibiotics have worked or not. The treatment of the meds last six weeks and as of the four week period the 3 1/2 inch infection was still very dominantly in her heart. So the rest of this week is very crucial to her healing. Thank you and everybody for your strength and support. I am barely keeping it together at this point. It is so hard to see Shawna like this. I don't think I could make it if something happens to her. She is my heart, soul mate and the reason why my life is so good. When I met her almost 10 years ago she saved me from myself. Gave me the light to see through the darkness to the other side. She made me successful and the man I am today. Please keep us in your thoughts for these days are hard to imagine.
    now,you have one more in tears after read that....

    i know is hard to imagine...but i believe in miracles..ill wait for the next miracle at Monday 30th

    Thank you for your compassion it feels like an energizing strength today. Mornings are hard for me but all I have to do is come here.. :D
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Paul Andrews wrote:
    Even though the battle may be long, and often appear to be bigger than you both, if you make sure every step is a step forward and a step together, you will make your way through this difficult path. Sometimes the road may be far longer and bumpier than you wish, but you are already further along that path than you were a month ago, and closer to the destination. Stay positive and look at how far you've come rather than how far you have to go.

    In the 'immortal' words of Rocky Balboa

    "Life will bring you to your knees and keep you there. Permanently. If you let it.
    It's not about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit. And keep moving forward.
    Keep moving forward.
    If you know what you're worth, go out and get it. But you have to be willing to take the hit. "

    Good morning,

    Sorry for taking so long to respond to you here. It's probably because I've been reading it over and over each time I've come on here. You've got a gift with words your son is very lucky to have you. Very strengthening, very eye opening....I used to think that leaving my past behind was a good idea but for now it is that light to help break through this haze. You're right we've made it through a lot here and we're going to make it the rest of the way.

    Who would of thought that so many years later R.B.'s words could be delivered once again and in this way. Thank you again for your strengthening words and kindness. You have no idea how much it means to me right now. :D

    John
    John and Shawna
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    vedderlover1 wrote:
    paysonites wrote:
    Vedderlover1, Best wishes to you and your family will life bring you and yours the happiness and fulfillment that you so truly deserve.

    You truly are an amazing man to say such kind words and be thinking of my family when yours is in such turmoil. Every morning brings new hope and a fresh start. Your wife is a lucky woman to have found such a selfless life partner. Continued healing thoughts for your hearts, bodies and souls.
    Amy

    Your kindness truly overwhelmed me this morning. Mornings are difficult because of the long nights. I really appreciate your thoughtfulness. :D
    John and Shawna
  • Suziemay
    Suziemay Posts: 11,168
    I'm so sorry it's taken me so long to get to your thread. Prayers for you and Shawna for a positive outcome on the 30th.
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Suziemay wrote:
    I'm so sorry it's taken me so long to get to your thread. Prayers for you and Shawna for a positive outcome on the 30th.

    Oh, it's good to here from you. Now we're all here. Thank you for your prayers. Shawna's determined this morning to go to our son's award ceremony in about 40 min. He's 12 years old going on 15. He is an amazing and compassionate person. So we can't wait to find out what he's being acknowledged for. Have a great day...
    John and Shawna
  • Suziemay
    Suziemay Posts: 11,168
    paysonites wrote:
    Suziemay wrote:
    I'm so sorry it's taken me so long to get to your thread. Prayers for you and Shawna for a positive outcome on the 30th.

    Oh, it's good to here from you. Now we're all here. Thank you for your prayers. Shawna's determined this morning to go to our son's award ceremony in about 40 min. He's 12 years old going on 15. He is an amazing and compassionate person. So we can't wait to find out what he's being acknowledged for. Have a great day...
    Wow, a surprise award? Is this from school? That's awesome, congratulations. You and Shawna must be so proud of him.

    Funny how some kids are just old souls, I was one of those. Enjoy the day, take things one day at a time.
  • StillHere
    StillHere Posts: 7,795
    Just saying good morning
    Its going to be a wonderful day
    Awards and all
    maybe even lunch? if she's up to it
    I've got a feelin' a feelin' deep inside..oh yeah...
    Make the best of today and every day
    Hugs,
    jo
    peace,
    jo

    http://www.Etsy.com/Shop/SimpleEarthCreations
    "How I choose to feel is how I am." ~ EV/MMc
    "Some people hear their own inner voices with great clearness and they live by what they hear. Such people become crazy, or they become legends." ~ One Stab ~
  • he.who.forgets
    he.who.forgets Posts: 4,593
    Sending my very best thoughts, prayers and vibes to Shawna and your family. It just crushses me to hear of your struggle. I hope that 2012 brings good health and an end to these difficult times.
    Jamie
    We were but stones your light made us stars
  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Suziemay wrote:
    paysonites wrote:
    Suziemay wrote:
    I'm so sorry it's taken me so long to get to your thread. Prayers for you and Shawna for a positive outcome on the 30th.

    Oh, it's good to here from you. Now we're all here. Thank you for your prayers. Shawna's determined this morning to go to our son's award ceremony in about 40 min. He's 12 years old going on 15. He is an amazing and compassionate person. So we can't wait to find out what he's being acknowledged for. Have a great day...
    Wow, a surprise award? Is this from school? That's awesome, congratulations. You and Shawna must be so proud of him.

    Funny how some kids are just old souls, I was one of those. Enjoy the day, take things one day at a time.

    Good morning,

    Took a while to respond here we had a very busy and long day yesterday. Our son got a school pride award (safety,respectful,responsible). We are very proud of him. He's had a very tough year with all that is going on but we are as involved with him as ever. He is a very gentle,funny and loving person.... :D
    John and Shawna

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