what does this saying mean to you?
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Indian Summer wrote:Nice guys finish first...after college. The bitchy women gotta whore around with the assholes first...then when they're left all alone and vulnerable, they get with the nice guy they should have been with all along.
nope, when everyone grows up, the nice people find eachother.
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Verona??? it's all surmountable
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Heineken Helen wrote:so ya reckon the bitchy women shoulda been with the nice guys?
nope, when everyone grows up, the nice people find eachother.
I'm hoping I'll meet someone 'nice' some day.'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
- the great Sir Leo Harrison0 -
Heineken Helen wrote:so ya reckon the bitchy women shoulda been with the nice guys?
nope, when everyone grows up, the nice people find eachother.
harmless_little_f*** wrote:I'm hoping I'll meet someone 'nice' some day.
You probably have. But they usually already have a partner.~AKA Dave-of-the-dead~
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harmless_little_f*** wrote:I'm hoping I'll meet someone 'nice' some day.
audiodave, that's true... could be why I'm still singlealthough I'm not entirely sure I fall under the 'nice' category anyway
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you0 -
oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.0
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dunkman wrote:you've met me
i'm nice
I meant EXCEPT you, Dunk. We have an open relationship, remember? You said you liked swinging.'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
- the great Sir Leo Harrison0 -
Restless Soul wrote:I think its true but is also from bitterness from A LOT of nice guys. It's a bit unfair on them I know.
I mean I know one guy who is perfectly nice, earns a lot, has good conversation, solvent, has own car and hair, but he can never get a girlfriend. I don't know why but maybe it's because he is slightly "boring".
But when I say boring I don't mean boring as in boring personality, I mean boring as in he doesn't fire a girl's imagination. A boring persona maybe? I think that's the problem with nice guys. You can imagine them paying all the bills on time and driving carefully, and treating you right as well (which counts for a lot). But you can't see him being spontaneous, taking you roughly up against a wall or something lol.
It's a sad but true fact that nice men don't satisfy a girl's "inner cave girl" need for a bit of action sometimes. Take Eddie for example. He's definitely someone who you can see is a nice person but is not a "nice guy". He has a mean and moody side and you just don't know what he's thinking, or what he's going to do next. He's not predictable, (even though in reality he could be). He just doesn't come across that way. It's not in his "persona".
I don't know if I'm answering the question right or anything, it's just my take on it as a female who is often attracted to "bad guys" - which is not a good thing btw. I hope I grow out of it soon!
well said. that goes both ways too. cos i hear nice girls complain about getting dumped for bitches and it's for the same reaons. like the perfectly sweet girl i've got now, who is just plain kinda boring.0 -
rarghrargh-brownstar wrote:I never got it either.....good call.
I think it means, that two guys are in a race. The friendlier guy stops to drink some lemonade, whilst creating a rapport with the onlookers/drink-giving-outers. He was friendly.......he was nice.
He finished last.
duh.Rarghstarfarian.0 -
rarghrargh-brownstar wrote:wow. no one is with me on this?
no.0 -
rarghrargh-brownstar wrote:I never got it either.....good call.
I think it means, that two guys are in a race. The friendlier guy stops to drink some lemonade, whilst creating a rapport with the onlookers/drink-giving-outers. He was friendly.......he was nice.
He finished last.
duh.
i'm not either, but i do like your imagination, and your weird train of thought.0 -
soulsinging wrote:well said. that goes both ways too. cos i hear nice girls complain about getting dumped for bitches and it's for the same reaons. like the perfectly sweet girl i've got now, who is just plain kinda boring.
Is she boring boring, or just has a boring persona?
Cos if it's the latter maybe you could try spicing things up a little?
If its the former then well, I can't help you sorry!"We have to change the concept of patriotism to one of “matriotism” — love of humanity that transcends war. A matriarch would never send her own children off to wars that kill other people’s children." Cindy Sheehan
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genie wrote:i do like your imagination, and your weird train of thought.Rarghstarfarian.0
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Restless Soul wrote:Is she boring boring, or just has a boring persona?
Cos if it's the latter maybe you could try spicing things up a little?
If its the former then well, I can't help you sorry!
i'd have to refer to your well spoken definitions, but i think the latter. just a total lack of spontaneity, willingness to take risks, etc. very predictable. we can't go out to dinner without her first looking up their menu and deciding before we've left what she wants to eat. like you said, it's utterly predictable. and that bores anyone, male or female. that's what hurts "nice guys"... insecurity and a fear of taking risks that might surprise her lest she not like it. they're too safe to be much fun.0 -
soulsinging wrote:well said. that goes both ways too. cos i hear nice girls complain about getting dumped for bitches and it's for the same reaons. like the perfectly sweet girl i've got now, who is just plain kinda boring.
and too even if a girl is sweet and lots of fun, a guy will dump her in a split second for a pretty, brain-dead, gold-digging, psycho bitch*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
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prism wrote:and too even if a girl is sweet and lots of fun, a guy will dump her in a split second for a pretty, brain-dead, gold-digging, psycho bitch
that's what I hope to be when I grow up...........Baby, You Wouldn't Last a Minute on The Creek......
Together we will float like angels.........
In the moment that you left the room, the album started skipping, goodbye to beauty shared with the ones that you love.........0 -
writersu wrote:that's what I hope to be when I grow up...........
if need be go get plastic surgery, then practice behaving bitchy, stupid, vapid, materialistic, and psycho until you have it down-pat and men will pay attention to you*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
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prism wrote:if need be go get plastic surgery, then practice behaving bitchy, stupid, vapid, materialistic, and psycho until you have it down-pat and men will pay attention to you
yes, a stiff pr--k has NO conscience...........Baby, You Wouldn't Last a Minute on The Creek......
Together we will float like angels.........
In the moment that you left the room, the album started skipping, goodbye to beauty shared with the ones that you love.........0 -
gue_barium wrote:"Nice guys finish last."
I've never really been able to fathom the logic behind this old saying.
What it means to me is in order to get the girl, the job or what ever in life you got to be an ass. Most girls like the bad ass over nice guy. Alot of jobs want a mean ass person rather a nice guy. Thats just what I feel.I'll be back0 -
prism wrote:and too even if a girl is sweet and lots of fun, a guy will dump her in a split second for a pretty, brain-dead, gold-digging, psycho bitch
and too even is a guy is nice and has a great sense of humor, a girl will dump him in a split second for a handsome, meathead, wealthy, asshole machoman.0 -
writersu wrote:that's what I hope to be when I grow up...........
have i mentioned i'm in law school? if you've got the looks, i've got the gold for you to dig.0
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