what does this saying mean to you?

prism

soulsinging wrote:

and too even is a guy is nice and has a great sense of humor, a girl will dump him in a split second for a handsome, meathead, wealthy, asshole machoman.

nah...I left behind the handsome, meathead, wealthy, asshole machoman (you forgot "rides a Harley") by the time that I was 24. unfortunately by that time I already had two kids(not that i regret my kids in the slightest) with the idiot.

I'll take a nice guy over that shit anytime. must be why i'm alone cause all the nice guys are taken and I'll take being alone over being with an asshole

soulsinging

prism wrote:

nah...I left behind the handsome, meathead, wealthy, asshole machoman (you forgot "rides a Harley") by the time that I was 24. unfortunately by that time I already had two kids(not that i regret my kids in the slightest) with the idiot.

I'll take a nice guy over that shit anytime. must be why i'm alone cause all the nice guys are taken and I'll take being alone over being with an asshole

and many other guys have left behind the "pretty, brain-dead, gold-digging, psycho bitch" for a girl who is sweet and fun. what's your point?

prism

soulsinging wrote:

and many other guys have left behind the "pretty, brain-dead, gold-digging, psycho bitch" for a girl who is sweet and fun. what's your point?

that's why so many guys leave the nice, sweet, fun wife/s.o. that stood next to him and may have taken care of any kids as he worked his way up into a profitable career for the 20 year-old "pretty, brain-dead, gold-digging, psycho bitch"
and of course there's the guys that once the 20 year old "pretty, brain-dead, gold-digging, psycho bitch" hit's her mid 30's he dumps her for another 20 year old of the same variety of bitch

despite their age most men don't give a flying fuck about a sweet and fun girl, all they want is the trophy. where as if a woman has half-a-brain she figures out that assholes aren't worth it by the time they hit their mid-20's or so

harmless_little_f***

prism wrote:

that's why so many guys leave the nice, sweet, fun wife/s.o. that stood next to him and may have taken care of any kids as he worked his way up into a profitable career for the 20 year-old "pretty, brain-dead, gold-digging, psycho bitch"
and of course there's the guys that once the 20 year old "pretty, brain-dead, gold-digging, psycho bitch" hit's her mid 30's he dumps her for another 20 year old of the same variety of bitch

despite their age most men don't give a flying fuck about a sweet and fun girl, all they want is the trophy. where as if a woman has half-a-brain she figures out that assholes aren't worth it by the time they hit their mid-20's or so

A sweet and fun girl sounds like a nice prospect to me.

soulsinging

prism wrote:

that's why so many guys leave the nice, sweet, fun wife/s.o. that stood next to him and may have taken care of any kids as he worked his way up into a profitable career for the 20 year-old "pretty, brain-dead, gold-digging, psycho bitch"
and of course there's the guys that once the 20 year old "pretty, brain-dead, gold-digging, psycho bitch" hit's her mid 30's he dumps her for another 20 year old of the same variety of bitch

despite their age most men don't give a flying fuck about a sweet and fun girl, all they want is the trophy. where as if a woman has half-a-brain she figures out that assholes aren't worth it by the time they hit their mid-20's or so

well hey, on the bright side, at least you're not bitter about your past. think he's bangin the trophy wife now?

prism

harmless_little_f*** wrote:

A sweet and fun girl sounds like a nice prospect to me.

that makes you an unique guy

prism

soulsinging wrote:

well hey, on the bright side, at least you're not bitter about your past. think he's bangin the trophy wife now?

nah....I'm sure that she can't be bothered to actually give him any

soulsinging

prism wrote:

nah....I'm sure that she can't be bothered to actually give him any

yeah, clearly you're over it.

Restless Soul

soulsinging wrote:

i'd have to refer to your well spoken definitions, but i think the latter. just a total lack of spontaneity, willingness to take risks, etc. very predictable. we can't go out to dinner without her first looking up their menu and deciding before we've left what she wants to eat. like you said, it's utterly predictable. and that bores anyone, male or female. that's what hurts "nice guys"... insecurity and a fear of taking risks that might surprise her lest she not like it. they're too safe to be much fun.

Well that is kind of boring boring! Male or female. Looking up menus and deciding what you want before you even get there is a bit wierd! Do you think you're compatible ? How long have you been going out with her?

writersu

soulsinging wrote:

have i mentioned i'm in law school? if you've got the looks, i've got the gold for you to dig.

Ok are you going to be a divorce attorney?

harmless_little_f***

prism wrote:

that makes you an unique guy

.

Maybe.

Cosmo

Hey... I'm the nicest guy I know... just ask me... I'll tell you. It's true.
And I've slept around... I'll admit it... I'm a slut. The difference between me and those so-called, 'Jerks' is... I care about the gals I sleep with. I always hope they are going to be the one I will live forever with. I'm not a one night stand kind of guy because I don't fall for the one night stand kind of women. I want the gal to see me in the daylight... sober... (and I want to see what she is like in the daylight... sober).
My problem is... I still haven't met her yet. I thought I did... but, it wasn't her.... and I think I might have met her... but, let her go. Something I regret.
So, if 'Nice Guys Finish Last' means you are the kind of guy that'll go South on your gal and make sure she cums before you even get to bang away, doggy style like sex-crazed weasles... then yeah... I'm a nice guy. A helluva nice fucking guy.

rarghrargh-brownstar

Cosmo wrote:

So, if 'Nice Guys Finish Last' means you are the kind of guy that'll go South on your gal and make sure she cums before you even get to bang away, doggy style like sex-crazed weasles... then yeah... I'm a nice guy. A helluva nice fucking guy.

ding dong. winner. take notes guys.

*makes dunkman proud*

writersu

soulsinging wrote:

i'd have to refer to your well spoken definitions, but i think the latter. just a total lack of spontaneity, willingness to take risks, etc. very predictable. we can't go out to dinner without her first looking up their menu and deciding before we've left what she wants to eat. like you said, it's utterly predictable. and that bores anyone, male or female. that's what hurts "nice guys"... insecurity and a fear of taking risks that might surprise her lest she not like it. they're too safe to be much fun.

yeah, on a really good date, you can skip the food and go onto the dessert or maybe the dinner is kind of fourplay as long as it isn't Italian food (it tends to bloat you and give you bad breath.........) but chinese food is ok, right?

I guess because I am currently not dating anyone I think of dating is really hot...........I once had this really cute neighbor that I still think about......wonder if his marriage is over yet........

Spunkie

I think it it means, sometimes, I like it rough, pinned down, can't move, choke my neck style. So not nice...

inmyrvm

Phantom Pain wrote:

Usually the nice guys are the ones that get shit on

Or the ones that dont get the girl, they'd rather go for the asshole rather then the nice guy

u summed it up there and saved me work.

soulsinging

writersu wrote:

Ok are you going to be a divorce attorney?

im considering it. i figure it would be a good way to exorcise my demons. destroythe lives and happiness of other couples the way it happened to me

Snake

I think it means sometimes you have to be willing to play dirty, cheat, or KILL... Ok maybe not the last one! But you get it!

gue_barium

Snake wrote:

I think it means sometimes you have to be willing to play dirty, cheat, or KILL... Ok maybe not the last one! But you get it!

To get the girl?

Nah.

Snake

gue_barium wrote:

To get the girl?

Nah.

Well I wouldnt (Maybe thats why im single?)