what does this saying mean to you?

justjoshingu

actually it was supposed to be a more "kevin smith" rage.

gue_barium

gue_barium wrote:

The easter bunny has spoken. In a "nice" easter bunny jealous rage.

Q: Really?
A: Really what?
Q: the 200 thing...
A: well, it wasn't my imagination.
Q: That's not what I meant.
A: What did you mean?
Q: I meant, do you feign to believe that the easter bunny is upset with that figure? Not so much what the figure represents...
A: I think he's expressing it represents BS in which case I find it hard to believe a bunny would think 200 partners hard to come by.
Q: C'mon.
A: C'mon what? There aren't people in America who have had 200 partners? Or more?
Q: Well, of course there are.
A: Really?

prism

justjoshingu wrote:

have the nice guy thats slept with 200 women come over my house. me, him, the easter bunny, and santa clause will have a poker game. and you know who'd win? me. why? cause the rest are "figments of your fucking imagination"

what if you're related to that nice manwhore?

*disclaimer: I have no problem calling him an asshole for the way that he treats women

gue_barium

prism wrote:

what if you're related to that nice manwhore?

*disclaimer: I have no problem calling him an asshole for the way that he treats women

Who are you talking about?

prism

gue_barium wrote:

Who are you talking about?

my brother.

gue_barium

prism wrote:

my brother.

He's a slut.

prism

gue_barium wrote:

He's a slut.

no shit. in one weekend he had eleven chicks trying to hook up with him...I had to take the phone calls

RolandTD20Kdrummer

It basically means nice guys are boring and usually push overs at times of conflict. Replace finish last with wimpy and boring.

It's a loose association that fits overall due to the fact that women are swayed by alpha type dominant personalities.

Evolutionary trait courtesy of natural selection.

Heineken Helen

Brain of J.Lo wrote:

To me, it means that nice people don't compromise their niceness to get ahead...and, sadly, they suffer for it.

I do think it's true in a lot of situations. But, I'd rather be nice than "successful", if I have to choose between the two.

EXACTLY! And I also think that many guys who come last automatically place themselves in the 'nice' basket and presume that's why they come last. I also think that some people confuse 'nice' for 'well I've nothing else going for me so I MUST be nice' OR the kinda guy who doesn't know how to act with women... so they may finish 'last' just because he hasn't managed to convey his niceness and the girl's not bloody psychic.

I think I'm nice but I don't blame my single status on the fact that I'm nice :rolleyes: just haven't met the right person yet.

Heineken Helen

justjoshingu wrote:

i dont think its a dumb saying.
i think its true.

if two people get bad service at a restaraunt and one is a loud obnoxious jerk and demands it get taken care of and the other person says, "excuse me miss, but i would like this please taken care of"

who gets served first?

and in relationships especially, the girl will 99% of the time go for the jerk.

i once was going after this girl with the usualy way i am. treating her well. i wrote poetry. i knew her favorite color, favorite beer, favorite song, etc...
we got along very well. we could talk for hours. then i got the you're such a good friend i could never think of you that way.

then some crappy stuff happened in my life and i was in a "fuck the world" mood for like 6months.

i went up to the same girl and said, "hey this friday, wear something nice about 7pm, we're going out to eat at xyz place" there was nothing from her but a big smile and an ok. i wasnt rude to her but i wasnt exactly nice. there was a lot more of me not really paying attention when she was talking. looking at another girl that walked by. no please, or thank you's to anyone helping us when we went out to eat or went to the movies (my picks). we generally did what i wanted to. the chemistry between us was almost instantly better. until i found out that her life ambition was to be a female body builder and be a triathlete. i mean really, fuck that.

dude... female body builder? She wasn't into you cos she's a lesbian :cool:

brain of c

prism wrote:

no shit. in one weekend he had eleven chicks trying to hook up with him...I had to take the phone calls

he's not bad.......his sister is better!

MattCameronKicksButt

I also think that it's easier for people to tread on those that are nice because maybe they think they can get away with it.

I also remember Henry Rollins saying 'they mistake kindness with weakness' which is something worth having a think about.

Heineken Helen

MattCameronKicksButt wrote:

I also think that it's easier for people to tread on those that are nice because maybe they think they can get away with it.

I seriously think we need to define 'nice'

There are several self proclaimed nice guys here whose internet personas are anything BUT... sure they can say 'well I'm not like that in REAL life' but hte fact that they can even bring themselves to say or type certain things, whether in jest or not, suggests the thoughts are there anyway.

So yeh... how many GENUINE nice guys finish last? and I mean LONG term last... I think the assholes are the ones who REALLY finish last in the end.

genie

Phantom Pain wrote:

Usually the nice guys are the ones that get shit on

Or the ones that dont get the girl, they'd rather go for the asshole rather then the nice guy

oh, please someone give me a nice guy, i'm serious i want a sweet, caring boyfriend. :(

genie

Phantom Pain wrote:

I think it goes both ways as welll with guys and girls

so true. why do people like to be treated badly, and still lust after that person?????

i always wonder

Heineken Helen

genie wrote:

so true. why do people like to be treated badly, and still lust after that person?????

i always wonder

it's a sign of seriously low self esteem. You go for what you think you deserve

Hinny

If finishing last means being continuously fucked over, then no, it's bollocks.

I would not be close to being anywhere near I am, which is in a happy place, if I set out to be a prick.

MattCameronKicksButt

Heineken Helen wrote:

I seriously think we need to define 'nice'

There are several self proclaimed nice guys here whose internet personas are anything BUT... sure they can say 'well I'm not like that in REAL life' but hte fact that they can even bring themselves to say or type certain things, whether in jest or not, suggests the thoughts are there anyway.

So yeh... how many GENUINE nice guys finish last? and I mean LONG term last... I think the assholes are the ones who REALLY finish last in the end.

I think what you've just said is very true.

I mentioned my mum once before. She's had to struggle and fight for everything in her life. She's only just started to make a good life for herself.

Maybe it's not true. Nice guys don't always finish last.

nothingman44

speaking as someone who just recently got dumped, i understand this statement.

Heineken Helen

MattCameronKicksButt wrote:

I think what you've just said is very true.

I mentioned my mum once before. She's had to struggle and fight for everything in her life. She's only just started to make a good life for herself.

Maybe it's not true. Nice guys don't always finish last.

No it's not true... if you're STILL finishing last perhaps you should question the type of girl you're going for... if you go for equally nice girls, they won't treat you like shit... if you're still finishing last perhaps you need to question how nice you REALLY are.