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  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Comatose11 wrote:
    Are you kidding me? You're in!! If he didn't think the same, he wouldn't have come over. Well, I wouldn't anyways.....
    exactly! and he gave you his business card. Take a chance. Let him know you enjoyed meeting him and want to know if he's interested in meeting up again.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • Black Diamond
    Black Diamond Posts: 25,109
    comebackgirl wrote:
    exactly! and he gave you his business card. Take a chance. Let him know you enjoyed meeting him and want to know if he's interested in meeting up again.
    As I guy, he is probably wondering if you got the card and why didn't you call.

    He is gonna get over that quickly though. So I wouldn't take too long if you want to go out with him
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  • Comatose11
    Comatose11 Posts: 77
    Also, if you get to talking, tell him that it's cheesy as shit to give out a business card to someone you are interested in (if that was his intention)

    Whatever happened to waking up with someones name scrawled on your back in lipstick.............. no romance anymore.......
    I'll end up alone like I began...
  • CityMouse
    CityMouse Posts: 1,010
    Black Diamond wrote:
    As I guy, he is probably wondering if you got the card and why didn't you call.

    He is gonna get over that quickly though. So I wouldn't take too long if you want to go out with him

    right. I'm gonna do it today. I was in montreal the whole weekend for the EV shows.
  • CityMouse
    CityMouse Posts: 1,010
    Comatose11 wrote:
    Are you kidding me? You're in!! If he didn't think the same, he wouldn't have come over. Well, I wouldn't anyways.....

    well yeah but then I think I acted dorky or annoying or stupid or something once I was talking to him because...well I think I had something like 6 or 7 drinks by that point.
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Black Diamond wrote:
    As I guy, he is probably wondering if you got the card and why didn't you call.

    He is gonna get over that quickly though. So I wouldn't take too long if you want to go out with him
    I agree. If too much time goes by it starts feeling like games are being played.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    just write what Trixie wrote
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • riffrandall
    riffrandall Posts: 685
    If he was that interested he would've asked for your number & would've called by now.
    "If you're looking for someone to pull you out of that ditch, you're out of luck."
  • CityMouse
    CityMouse Posts: 1,010
    riffrandall wrote:
    If he was that interested he would've asked for your number & would've called by now.

    As I said I don't think he is.
  • Comatose11
    Comatose11 Posts: 77
    CityMouse wrote:
    As I said I don't think he is.

    Guys can be shy too. I'd hate to see you both miss oout on an opportunity just because you are both afraid to call.

    What's the worst that could happen?
    I'll end up alone like I began...
  • CityMouse
    CityMouse Posts: 1,010
    Comatose11 wrote:
    Guys can be shy too. I'd hate to see you both miss oout on an opportunity just because you are both afraid to call.

    What's the worst that could happen?

    well that's sort of why I asked if people would bother responding to reject someone. I was thinking that I can send the email and I'll never hear anything again. but then I thought, shit, what if he finds it necessary to respond and says something mean? I know that's also not a very bad thing to have happen, but I'm hoping that he just ignores me.
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    CityMouse wrote:
    As I said I don't think he is.
    There's only one way to find out...
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • Black Diamond
    Black Diamond Posts: 25,109
    Comatose11 wrote:
    Guys can be shy too. I'd hate to see you both miss oout on an opportunity just because you are both afraid to call.

    What's the worst that could happen?
    Beat me to it. He did not have to give you the card. What do you have to lose. At worst, he blows you off and you are at the same place you were at from the beginning, but you have gotten a valuable lesson in not giving up.

    As a guy, I like women who are aggressive (My wife of 10 years for example). She told me we were going on a date.
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    you know what?

    id rather be stabbed through the heart than die wondering.
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • riffrandall
    riffrandall Posts: 685
    catefrances wrote:
    you know what?

    id rather be stabbed through the heart than die wondering.

    There's really no need to wonder. Pretty cut and dried.
    Not trying to be harsh, just telling it like it is.
    Guys are not shy when they like you. If a guy is interested, he asks for your number, and then he calls.

    I've never- and I mean NEVER- had it work out where I called or emailed a guy first.

    Guys who hand out their business cards are bullshit. Move on.
    "If you're looking for someone to pull you out of that ditch, you're out of luck."
  • saveuplife
    saveuplife Posts: 1,173
    riffrandall wrote:
    There's really no need to wonder. Pretty cut and dried.
    Not trying to be harsh, just telling it like it is.
    Guys are not shy when they like you. If a guy is interested, he asks for your number, and then he calls.

    I've never- and I mean NEVER- had it work out where I called or emailed a guy first.

    Guys who hand out their business cards are bullshit. Move on.


    Depends on the guy. I kind of agree from my personal vantage point... but, some guys are shy. I could see one or two of my friends being like this.
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    riffrandall wrote:
    There's really no need to wonder. Pretty cut and dried.
    Not trying to be harsh, just telling it like it is.
    Guys are not shy when they like you. If a guy is interested, he asks for your number, and then he calls.

    I've never- and I mean NEVER- had it work out where I called or emailed a guy first.

    Guys who hand out their business cards are bullshit. Move on.

    well good for you but some of us require definite endings. for our own piece of mind, you know. it deosnt matter of its a no or a yes, some of us just need to know to be able to close the circle and move the fuck on.
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • failedpersephone
    failedpersephone Posts: 3,424
    why did you wait so long to email him?

    now that you are going to email him - you should just keep it simple, and don't be disappointed if he doesnt respond (I would say within 2 business days)
    IF YOU WANT A PLATE OF MY BEEF SWELLINGTON, YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO PAY THE COVERCHARGE.
  • CityMouse
    CityMouse Posts: 1,010
    catefrances wrote:
    well good for you but some of us require definite endings. for our own piece of mind, you know. it deosnt matter of its a no or a yes, some of us just need to know to be able to close the circle and move the fuck on.

    yeah I don't really care what the outcome is, I just want to do it because I've never really asked anyone out before, and I don't want to seem to too lame in the process.
  • CityMouse
    CityMouse Posts: 1,010
    so my friend said I should mention grabbing a drink some night next week, but I'm at this stupid-ass conference all next week. So is mentioning grabbing lunch over the weekend a no-no?

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