Jaegarmeister. Lowering women's standards for years.
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You know the older you get.. the less you put up with when it comes to dating... soon you start easily seeing the red flags of the psychos and jerks...
there are plenty of fish in the sea.. I know sounds so cliche... but true
You know the older you get.. the less you put up with when it comes to dating... soon you start easily seeing the red flags of the psychos and jerks...
there are plenty of fish in the sea.. I know sounds so cliche... but true
he never called her or hung out with her, I guess I just filled that void
let's put it this way.....there are low odds that you two will live happily ever after....whether her bf was a jerk or not she cheated on him and might do the same to you as well....you might be in for more bs and pain by sticking it out with her....
You know the older you get.. the less you put up with when it comes to dating... soon you start easily seeing the red flags of the psychos and jerks...
there are plenty of fish in the sea.. I know sounds so cliche... but true
ya i just found out the ugly truth with one girl today. but i was glad to know that it wasn't my fault at all. i hope i catch a marlin! they are sweet!
"Fuck the talkin' let's start rockin" - Eddie Vedder 9-5-00 Pittsburgh
4/26/03 Pittsburgh 5/3/03 State College 7/12/03 Hershey 10/1/04 Reading 9/28/05 Pittsburgh 5/20/06 Cleveland 6/23/06 Pittsburgh 6/22/08 DC
friends don't let friends listen to good charlotte
ya i just found out the ugly truth with one girl today. but i was glad to know that it wasn't my fault at all. i hope i catch a marlin! they are sweet!
good luck with the marlin... maybe you get a mermaid on your pole instead... lol
My guess is that b/c she is not getting any attention from the guy she wants/loves whatever, she is taking it from someone who will give it to her - ie you.
She is confused and probably feels horrible about herself at the moment - and guess what? you were there.
If you really like her try being her friend right now. Give her some space. Let her get past him on her own. But sleeping w/her is only going to confuse things for the both of you. Unless that is all you are looking for out of it.
Ok, so I've been seeing this girl for probably a month now. I met her out at the bar one night, but come to find out I went to college with her. I never knew her in college, but she recognized me. Anyways, we really hit it off and got really drunk. Long story short she gave me her phone number and we had long phone conversations like 3 times. After one of them she texted me and said she had a boyfriend, so I was like what the fuck. Anyways, she said she still wanted to hang out and get a drink the next night. We go out the next night and get totally blitzed of jager and what not, and had a great time. We go back to my place and have sex. Anyways, we started hanging out regularly, but we only had sex when she's drunk because she felt guilty. Her boyfriend of 2 years was a piece of shit and rarely called her treating her like shit. So, finally she decides to break up with him and we still hung out for a while. Then she just stoped calling me for like 2 weeks, so I sent her a long message on myspace explaining that it really bothers me. She apologized and has been better since. We started hanging out again (and sleeping together), but last night we went to the bar and we both got really drunk. She started crying and told me she's not over it yet. I just don't know what the fuck to do, because I really like this girl. I know she really likes me too, but is just confused.
P.S. I can't believe I just posted this on a message board.
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No.. the girl is NOT psycho.
But, seriously... think about it... you're hanging out with a girl who has a boyfriend. Regardless of what you think of the guy, he is her boyfriend. Could it possibly be that you are probably the reason why she split up with him? You say she is confused... are you part of that confusion?
Plus.. it seems like everything surrounding your acquaintance requires alcohol.... you meet at a bar where she gives you her number.. you're drunk at a bar and go home and fuck. And from my experience... booze and sex leads to regrets in many cases.
My advice... as a guy? Leave her be. If she wants to come around, she will. If not... then you need to find one of the millions of girls out there who do NOT have a boyfriend.
Good luck with that.
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Don't be too easily rushed to the conclusion that the gal in this case is a psycho or nuts. You are only hearing one side of the story. And I suspect that side is slanted towards the poster.
I think rendering advice is good... as long as you understand that the girl (and her boyfriend) do not have a say in this and formulate your thoughts and responses accordingly.
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4/26/03 Pittsburgh 5/3/03 State College 7/12/03 Hershey 10/1/04 Reading 9/28/05 Pittsburgh 5/20/06 Cleveland 6/23/06 Pittsburgh 6/22/08 DC
friends don't let friends listen to good charlotte
Jaegarmeister. Lowering women's standards for years.
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I just crossed the 5,000 threshold in a thread about anxiety. Boo! That wasn't fun.
I'm gonna really live it up when I hit 10,000. ;D
You dirty girl
Funny enough I like your ASS
The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill
A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
shut up
he never called her or hung out with her, I guess I just filled that void
there are plenty of fish in the sea.. I know sounds so cliche... but true
haha I never got this...if you never see the guy, they're not you're boyfriend!
good point
4/26/03 Pittsburgh 5/3/03 State College 7/12/03 Hershey 10/1/04 Reading 9/28/05 Pittsburgh 5/20/06 Cleveland 6/23/06 Pittsburgh 6/22/08 DC
friends don't let friends listen to good charlotte
let's put it this way.....there are low odds that you two will live happily ever after....whether her bf was a jerk or not she cheated on him and might do the same to you as well....you might be in for more bs and pain by sticking it out with her....
4/26/03 Pittsburgh 5/3/03 State College 7/12/03 Hershey 10/1/04 Reading 9/28/05 Pittsburgh 5/20/06 Cleveland 6/23/06 Pittsburgh 6/22/08 DC
friends don't let friends listen to good charlotte
good luck with the marlin... maybe you get a mermaid on your pole instead... lol
aawwwww... starting to feel sad for you...u be fine
4/26/03 Pittsburgh 5/3/03 State College 7/12/03 Hershey 10/1/04 Reading 9/28/05 Pittsburgh 5/20/06 Cleveland 6/23/06 Pittsburgh 6/22/08 DC
friends don't let friends listen to good charlotte
don't feel sad for me there is people with far worse problems
She cheated on him with you, and I'm pretty sure she'd do it again. She doesn't know what she wants and you have to realize that.
She is confused and probably feels horrible about herself at the moment - and guess what? you were there.
If you really like her try being her friend right now. Give her some space. Let her get past him on her own. But sleeping w/her is only going to confuse things for the both of you. Unless that is all you are looking for out of it.
Good luck.
PS - Cosmo - you are one funny man
No.. the girl is NOT psycho.
But, seriously... think about it... you're hanging out with a girl who has a boyfriend. Regardless of what you think of the guy, he is her boyfriend. Could it possibly be that you are probably the reason why she split up with him? You say she is confused... are you part of that confusion?
Plus.. it seems like everything surrounding your acquaintance requires alcohol.... you meet at a bar where she gives you her number.. you're drunk at a bar and go home and fuck. And from my experience... booze and sex leads to regrets in many cases.
My advice... as a guy? Leave her be. If she wants to come around, she will. If not... then you need to find one of the millions of girls out there who do NOT have a boyfriend.
Good luck with that.
Hail, Hail!!!
I think rendering advice is good... as long as you understand that the girl (and her boyfriend) do not have a say in this and formulate your thoughts and responses accordingly.
Hail, Hail!!!
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or a blow job.
Hail, Hail!!!