I need a girls advice about something

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  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    Cosmo wrote:
    ...
    No... speaking for all men.. Men are DUMB... when it comes to your language. We're the dogs of the human world. Speak to is in clear, short, precise commands... Come here... Kiss me... Touch this... Don't touch that... NO!!! Good boy... Bang me... Go away.
    Those are basically all you need to say to us.
    ...
    All these non-verbal 'signs' you think you are saying to us... you may as well be speaking in the language they speak on the planet Jupiter of the parallel universe. We don't get it.

    i would use another word here that's been used before you simple, straight forward people...women however like to complicate it.

    i pretty much tell it like it is usually, i can't be bothered with sending off signals and all that crap. if i'm impressed i'll say so, if i don't like i'll mention it to the guy, unless if it were to hurt him or is not so important.

    So your plan of commands sounds prefect to me, what would also be cool if you can keep those commands under specific numbers: example kiss = number 1. so that all i have to do is say few numbers :D
  • This thread is such a cock tease
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



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  • KosmicJelliKosmicJelli Posts: 1,855
    havent heard that since i was 18.... hahaha
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    inmyrvm wrote:
    it's not that we're dumb, it's the women's inability to clearly communicate. for starters, for how girls look nowadays, the young ones should be forced to wear their age on their shirts so WE don't make any mistakes (i haven't, seriously, just saying). the question that should be asked is why do women play head games with men? either they do it on purpose or it is because of the inept communication abilities. there should be one big women's conference. any signals they give out must be given like they are a nfl referee. everything would be communicated clearly then. and be official. i am pissy over the head games they play though. seriously, enough already.

    i hate head games and manipulation, so thank god i'm a woman! cause all i'm going to get is simple answers :p
  • havent heard that since i was 18.... hahaha

    Sorry :(

    I'm old...I'm not hip with the young slang anymore
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • KosmicJelliKosmicJelli Posts: 1,855
    thing about head games is that you men pick the dummy broads whom are only capable of playing games because they are used to manipulation to get what they want... and men put up with it because they will do anything to have the trophy wife/girlfriend... arm candy... whatever you want to call it...


    UGH.. now I said it...
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    This thread is such a cock tease

    and i'm not proud of it :( , but then it out weighted what i got in return, so all in all it was fun...........for me! :p
  • InHiding19InHiding19 Posts: 2,385
    Ok, so I've been seeing this girl for probably a month now. I met her out at the bar one night, but come to find out I went to college with her. I never knew her in college, but she recognized me. Anyways, we really hit it off and got really drunk. Long story short she gave me her phone number and we had long phone conversations like 3 times. After one of them she texted me and said she had a boyfriend, so I was like what the fuck. Anyways, she said she still wanted to hang out and get a drink the next night. We go out the next night and get totally blitzed of jager and what not, and had a great time. We go back to my place and have sex. Anyways, we started hanging out regularly, but we only had sex when she's drunk because she felt guilty. Her boyfriend of 2 years was a piece of shit and rarely called her treating her like shit. So, finally she decides to break up with him and we still hung out for a while. Then she just stoped calling me for like 2 weeks, so I sent her a long message on myspace explaining that it really bothers me. She apologized and has been better since. We started hanging out again (and sleeping together), but last night we went to the bar and we both got really drunk. She started crying and told me she's not over it yet. I just don't know what the fuck to do, because I really like this girl. I know she really likes me too, but is just confused.

    P.S. I can't believe I just posted this on a message board.
    Out of the Blue and Into the Black................Uncle Neil Philly 08 here I come!!!!
  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    inmyrvm wrote:
    it's not that we're dumb, it's the women's inability to clearly communicate. for starters, for how girls look nowadays, the young ones should be forced to wear their age on their shirts so WE don't make any mistakes (i haven't, seriously, just saying). the question that should be asked is why do women play head games with men? either they do it on purpose or it is because of the inept communication abilities. there should be one big women's conference. any signals they give out must be given like they are a nfl referee. everything would be communicated clearly then. and be official. i am pissy over the head games they play though. seriously, enough already.
    ...
    Imagine this... you're playing baseball. You get to first Base. A girl you are sweet on is coaching at third. The signal to steal Second Base is a brush across the bill of the cap, followed by crossed arms and two hand claps.
    ...
    What is she doing? Flipping her hair back... turning away, smiling at you and digging through her purse. WHAT THE HELL KIND OF SIGN IS THAT? You have absolute NO IDEA because her signs make no sense to you. and... they don't even standardize their signals from girl to girl. We're supposed to recognize these signs.. yet, they are never explained to us.
    And forget about rounding Third and heading for Home... we never get that signal right except when we guess right and are lucky. and gals wonder why we make those funny faces when we're having sex with them. we are actually SURPRIZED that we are having sex with them.
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  • KosmicJelliKosmicJelli Posts: 1,855
    Sorry :(

    I'm old...I'm not hip with the young slang anymore

    haha me too cause it was like 20 years ago...
  • haha me too cause it was like 20 years ago...


    Truthfully...

    I just like saying the word cock in a public forum

    :p
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    thing about head games is that you men pick the dummy broads whom are only capable of playing games because they are used to manipulation to get what they want... and men put up with it because they will do anything to have the trophy wife/girlfriend... arm candy... whatever you want to call it...


    UGH.. now I said it...

    hmm...i don't think so, to play a mind games person has to be witty and know how to say things to their advantage. i think it's a skill
  • KosmicJelliKosmicJelli Posts: 1,855
    OMg dump her she is a psycho....
  • Oxxys wrote:
    Ok, so I've been seeing this girl for probably a month now. I met her out at the bar one night, but come to find out I went to college with her. I never knew her in college, but she recognized me. Anyways, we really hit it off and got really drunk. Long story short she gave me her phone number and we had long phone conversations like 3 times. After one of them she texted me and said she had a boyfriend, so I was like what the fuck. Anyways, she said she still wanted to hang out and get a drink the next night. We go out the next night and get totally blitzed of jager and what not, and had a great time. We go back to my place and have sex. Anyways, we started hanging out regularly, but we only had sex when she's drunk because she felt guilty. Her boyfriend of 2 years was a piece of shit and rarely called her treating her like shit. So, finally she decides to break up with him and we still hung out for a while. Then she just stoped calling me for like 2 weeks, so I sent her a long message on myspace explaining that it really bothers me. She apologized and has been better since. We started hanging out again (and sleeping together), but last night we went to the bar and we both got really drunk. She started crying and told me she's not over it yet. I just don't know what the fuck to do, because I really like this girl. I know she really likes me too, but is just confused.

    P.S. I can't believe I just posted this on a message board.

    Run away as fast as you can. This will lead to nothing but problems. My crystal ball sees a train-wreck in the future if you keep this up.

    I speak from experience. Stay away.
    I'll ride the wave where it takes me.
  • InHiding19InHiding19 Posts: 2,385
    OMg dump her she is a psycho....

    She's not psycho just confused
    Out of the Blue and Into the Black................Uncle Neil Philly 08 here I come!!!!
  • KosmicJelliKosmicJelli Posts: 1,855
    Truthfully...

    I just like saying the word cock in a public forum

    :p


    I dont blame you... something about that word has a gagging quality to it...
  • KosmicJelliKosmicJelli Posts: 1,855
    well then play the game..
  • Oxxys wrote:
    Ok, so I've been seeing this girl for probably a month now. I met her out at the bar one night, but come to find out I went to college with her. I never knew her in college, but she recognized me. Anyways, we really hit it off and got really drunk. Long story short she gave me her phone number and we had long phone conversations like 3 times. After one of them she texted me and said she had a boyfriend, so I was like what the fuck. Anyways, she said she still wanted to hang out and get a drink the next night. We go out the next night and get totally blitzed of jager and what not, and had a great time. We go back to my place and have sex. Anyways, we started hanging out regularly, but we only had sex when she's drunk because she felt guilty. Her boyfriend of 2 years was a piece of shit and rarely called her treating her like shit. So, finally she decides to break up with him and we still hung out for a while. Then she just stoped calling me for like 2 weeks, so I sent her a long message on myspace explaining that it really bothers me. She apologized and has been better since. We started hanging out again (and sleeping together), but last night we went to the bar and we both got really drunk. She started crying and told me she's not over it yet. I just don't know what the fuck to do, because I really like this girl. I know she really likes me too, but is just confused.

    P.S. I can't believe I just posted this on a message board.

    Dude, stay away you're only going to get hurt

    She's not over her B/F and you're the rebound

    Maybe in time you can be back in the picture when she's ready, but i wouldn't hold my breath and wait for her...it may never happen
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • KosmicJelliKosmicJelli Posts: 1,855
    Dude, stay away you're only going to get hurt

    She's not over her B/F and you're the rebound

    Maybe in time you can be back in the picture when she's ready, but i wouldn't hold my breath and wait for her...it may never happen

    I was being short and sweet


    but he is already sticking up for her... then he can go play the game and see what happens... in which case your absolutely correct.. Mr Pain
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    Oxxys wrote:
    Ok, so I've been seeing this girl for probably a month now. I met her out at the bar one night, but come to find out I went to college with her. I never knew her in college, but she recognized me. Anyways, we really hit it off and got really drunk. Long story short she gave me her phone number and we had long phone conversations like 3 times. After one of them she texted me and said she had a boyfriend, so I was like what the fuck. Anyways, she said she still wanted to hang out and get a drink the next night. We go out the next night and get totally blitzed of jager and what not, and had a great time. We go back to my place and have sex. Anyways, we started hanging out regularly, but we only had sex when she's drunk because she felt guilty. Her boyfriend of 2 years was a piece of shit and rarely called her treating her like shit. So, finally she decides to break up with him and we still hung out for a while. Then she just stoped calling me for like 2 weeks, so I sent her a long message on myspace explaining that it really bothers me. She apologized and has been better since. We started hanging out again (and sleeping together), but last night we went to the bar and we both got really drunk. She started crying and told me she's not over it yet. I just don't know what the fuck to do, because I really like this girl. I know she really likes me too, but is just confused.

    P.S. I can't believe I just posted this on a message board.

    haha, what a mind fuck. i suggest you to run from her as fast as you can, she will ruin your mental well being. she is fucked up and emotional, and NEEDS someone.
  • inmyrvminmyrvm Posts: 933
    thing about head games is that you men pick the dummy broads whom are only capable of playing games because they are used to manipulation to get what they want... and men put up with it because they will do anything to have the trophy wife/girlfriend... arm candy... whatever you want to call it...


    UGH.. now I said it...
    or there's the chance that we put up with it because we actually care about someone.............. not all men are idiots.
    "Fuck the talkin' let's start rockin" - Eddie Vedder 9-5-00 Pittsburgh
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  • Oxxys wrote:
    She's not psycho just confused

    She does sound confused, and she is being very inconsiderate of your feelings while she works this out.

    I think you should slowly back away from this situation. If you stay, you're setting yourself up to get hurt.

    Sorry, I know this isn't what you want to hear. She may very well be a nice person who doesn't intend to hurt you. But while she is working all of this stuff out with the bf, she is poised to do just that.
  • KosmicJelliKosmicJelli Posts: 1,855
    inmyrvm wrote:
    or there's the chance that we put up with it because we actually care about someone.............. not all men are idiots.



    okay... show me the one man... post his pic.. cause i wanna see what he looks like ;)
  • I was being short and sweet


    but he is already sticking up for her... then he can go play the game and see what happens... in which case your absolutely correct.. Mr Pain

    yeah, he has feelings for her already obviously which sucks

    But he should heed my advice and back off for awhile or not get so attached

    Mr. Pain...I like it..unless you mean it as Mr. Pain in the arse

    ;)
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    Oxxys wrote:
    She's not psycho just confused

    oh yes, she is helpless only hero that can save her is you. wake up! you should not make an excuse for her
  • She does sound confused, and she is being very inconsiderate of your feelings while she works this out.

    I think you should slowly back away from this situation. If you stay, you're setting yourself up to get hurt.

    Sorry, I know this isn't what you want to hear. She may very well be a nice person who doesn't intend to hurt you. But while she is working all of this stuff out with the bf, she is poised to do just that.


    One more till 5,000 !! :p

    I agree, I've been there in his shoes its awful

    I still haven't forgiven you....
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • KosmicJelliKosmicJelli Posts: 1,855
    yeah, he has feelings for her already obviously which sucks

    But he should heed my advice and back off for awhile or not get so attached

    Mr. Pain...I like it..unless you mean it as Mr. Pain in the arse

    ;)

    not a pain in the ASS at all


    PS I like posting the word ass... ;)
  • Cosmo wrote:
    Hell... if this guy ain't gonna ask... i will.
    ...
    Gals... what do you do to show an interest in a guy?
    And how can we tell if you are serious.. or just flirting?
    ...

    I don't know, I try not to show interest unless I am already dating them. if I like someone I know I pretend I don't so they won't hate me.
  • inmyrvminmyrvm Posts: 933
    Cosmo wrote:
    ...
    Imagine this... you're playing baseball. You get to first Base. A girl you are sweet on is coaching at third. The signal to steal Second Base is a brush across the bill of the cap, followed by crossed arms and two hand claps.
    ...
    What is she doing? Flipping her hair back... turning away, smiling at you and digging through her purse. WHAT THE HELL KIND OF SIGN IS THAT? You have absolute NO IDEA because her signs make no sense to you. and... they don't even standardize their signals from girl to girl. We're supposed to recognize these signs.. yet, they are never explained to us.
    And forget about rounding Third and heading for Home... we never get that signal right except when we guess right and are lucky. and gals wonder why we make those funny faces when we're having sex with them. we are actually SURPRIZED that we are having sex with them.
    hahahahah that's so true. that's why there would be a book released. when they do the kicking motion that means u r shit outta luck. facemask means u get to make out. holding means u win.
    "Fuck the talkin' let's start rockin" - Eddie Vedder 9-5-00 Pittsburgh
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    friends don't let friends listen to good charlotte
  • Oxxys wrote:
    Ok, so I've been seeing this girl for probably a month now. I met her out at the bar one night, but come to find out I went to college with her. I never knew her in college, but she recognized me. Anyways, we really hit it off and got really drunk. Long story short she gave me her phone number and we had long phone conversations like 3 times. After one of them she texted me and said she had a boyfriend, so I was like what the fuck. Anyways, she said she still wanted to hang out and get a drink the next night. We go out the next night and get totally blitzed of jager and what not, and had a great time. We go back to my place and have sex. Anyways, we started hanging out regularly, but we only had sex when she's drunk because she felt guilty. Her boyfriend of 2 years was a piece of shit and rarely called her treating her like shit. So, finally she decides to break up with him and we still hung out for a while. Then she just stoped calling me for like 2 weeks, so I sent her a long message on myspace explaining that it really bothers me. She apologized and has been better since. We started hanging out again (and sleeping together), but last night we went to the bar and we both got really drunk. She started crying and told me she's not over it yet. I just don't know what the fuck to do, because I really like this girl. I know she really likes me too, but is just confused.

    P.S. I can't believe I just posted this on a message board.
    I can't say how many times I've heard a cheater say their current boyfriend/girlfriend is a prick and what not....but it's a LOT.
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