My girlfriend read my messages

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  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    Byrnzie wrote:
    Not yet. She said her mate was gonna drop it into the pub in Seoul where I drink and leave it behind the bar. She was supposed to have done this on Tuesday evening. I'll pick it up Saturday and see what all - if any - the fuss is about.

    what? but I thought she wouldn't talk to you?
    I don't get the whole thing. SHe read your private messages w/o permission. then she doesn't like what she found, but won't tell you what the problem is. Um, yeah, ok.
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  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Allie wrote:
    she won't talk to you or answer her phone? Will she answer YOUR phone? You didn't even get your phone back?

    how did she break up with you then? Did she text you? LOl, j/k.

    She e-mailed me. I spoke to her on Saturday and she was gonna come to Seoul to see me. When it got late I called and asked where she was and she said that she was mad at me coz she'd read my messages. She wasn't specific. The next day she said she'd see me the following weekend - this coming weekend - but then e-mailed me to say she didn't wanna see me again.
    I do think she's just overreacting though.
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Allie wrote:
    what? but I thought she wouldn't talk to you?

    She e-mailed me.
    Allie wrote:
    I don't get the whole thing. SHe read your private messages w/o permission. then she doesn't like what she found, but won't tell you what the problem is. Um, yeah, ok.

    I know. It's bizarre. It's doing my head in. I don't get it either. I mean, she should at least tell me exactly what it is that upset her.
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    catefrances wrote:
    i dont know how she'd react. im not a mind reader. but if she can't be naffed to return your phonecalls then you have to weigh up the effort required. and whether its worth it to you. as far as i can see she's putting nothing in and expecting what? who knows? what does your gut say steve?

    My gut says '50/50'. I think she's worth it. I may just go down there and give it one last shot. If that doesn't work out, then fuck it.
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    Byrnzie wrote:
    My gut says '50/50'. I think she's worth it. I may just go down there and give it one last shot. If that doesn't work out, then fuck it.

    cool, do that then steve. youre comfortable doing that, then tis all good. :)

    can i ask how she got ahold of your phone in the first place?.
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  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    catefrances wrote:
    cool, do that then steve. youre comfortable doing that tis all good. :)

    can i ask how she got ahold of your phone in the first place?.

    I lost it down her way, and then someone handed it in at her hotel.
  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    Byrnzie wrote:
    She e-mailed me.



    I know. It's bizarre. It's doing my head in. I don't get it either. I mean, she should at least tell me exactly what it is that upset her.
    well I hope you find out

    good luck! let us know what happens!
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    Byrnzie wrote:
    I lost it down her way, and then someone handed it in at her hotel.

    shit, talk about bad luck. or maybe it was meant to be. :)
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  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    catefrances wrote:
    shit, talk about bad luck. or maybe it was meant to be. :)

    I know. I kind of wish now that it'd stayed lost.
    But maybe it was meant to be.
  • Jennytree
    Jennytree Posts: 5,340
    :( sounds a bit shitty m'dear... she looks lovely :)

    But she shouldn't have read your personal messages if she wasn't prepared to deal with the consequences. We all have a past, yours seems fairly innocent, just tryin yer luck with a few people!

    She said she loves you, yet she goes this mental when she reads something that has nothing to do with her and gets upset?? If they were sent while you guys were together, then fair enough (ish), but she's completely over-reacting and if she does this with something fairly minor, what will she be like with something a li'l more serious??
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  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    was one of the texts about me asking for that film with Andie McDowall and Gerard Depardieu for me Xmas????

    i've just checked and your reply was "there's no fucking way i'm getting you Green Card" ;)






    sounds shit though Stevesters... really hope it works out amigo. :):)
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    dunkman wrote:
    was one of the texts about me asking for that film with Andie McDowall and Gerard Depardieu for me Xmas????

    i've just checked and your reply was "there's no fucking way i'm getting you Green Card" ;)






    sounds shit though Stevesters... really hope it works out amigo. :):)

    Thanks Dunk and Jenny. I hope so too.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    Byrnzie wrote:
    She's 23.

    Isn't she a bit young for you anyway? ;)
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Byrnzie wrote:
    The thing is, I know there were messages on there telling a couple of other girls that I thought they were lovely e.t.c, and just the usual flirtation stuff - and there may be a message to a mate of mine bragging about how many girls I met when I moved to Seoul - but this was before we'd met. So I don't know what her problem is. I mean, why would such stuff bother her?
    Maybe she is just being immature...I dunno.
    :o byrnzie, how many messages telling other girls they're lovely? And how many girls did you meet when you moved to Seoul? :D
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  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Byrnzie wrote:
    I did think it was odd that she found my Myspace address before I gave it to her - but then I suppose there aren't that many people called Byrnzie.
    I reckon she was just after you for your phone in the first place :o now she's got what she wants.

    What kinda phone was it? Musta been something special. :o

    Just kidding Byrnzie, ya know I love ya :o
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Byrnzie wrote:
    She e-mailed me. I spoke to her on Saturday and she was gonna come to Seoul to see me. When it got late I called and asked where she was and she said that she was mad at me coz she'd read my messages. She wasn't specific. The next day she said she'd see me the following weekend - this coming weekend - but then e-mailed me to say she didn't wanna see me again.
    I do think she's just overreacting though.
    perhaps she called some of the numbers on the phone? :o
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    :o byrnzie, how many messages telling other girls they're lovely? And how many girls did you meet when you moved to Seoul? :D

    A fair few I reckon. I went a bit berserk when I first got here. :)

    I'm pretty sure there was nothing bad on my phone though. I Just the normal flirty kind of nonsense.
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Byrnzie wrote:
    A fair few I reckon. I went a bit berserk when I first got here. :)

    I'm pretty sure there was nothing bad on my phone though. I Just the normal flirty kind of nonsense.
    :D a fair few? Sounds like she's seriously overreacting and a wee bit immature :o
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    :D a fair few? Sounds like she's seriously overreacting and a wee bit immature :o

    Do I detect an element of sarcasm here? :confused:;)
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Byrnzie wrote:
    Do I detect an element of sarcasm here? :confused:;)
    actually :o no! That was my one non sarcastic post of the day (seriously... no sarcasm)

    I have friends who do things like that... read messages, hack into email and voicemail and stuff and the whole thing just makes me quite uncomfortable :o
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you

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