My girlfriend read my messages

norm

get the phone back......and call the girls from the other messages.....mind as well do the crime for the time your already serving....;)

i kid.....hopefully she'll calm down after a while.....:)

Urban Hiker

She's 23, said she loves you, wants to move in and reads your messages?

Fucking run!!!

I'm totally not cool with reading messages and I'm more than nine years into a relationship. Six weeks??? See ya.

It's a matter of trust. If I want somebody to know about my conversations I'll tell them about it.

Ahnimus

Keep your email inbox clean too.

My ex was as dumb as a brick, but she was obsessive compulsive and if she wanted to read my email she would. I don't know how but she cracked my password which was 10 characters long, alphanumeric. Either that, or I forgot to log-out before going to work that day....

Byrnzie

Ahnimus wrote:

Keep your email inbox clean too.

My ex was as dumb as a brick, but she was obsessive compulsive and if she wanted to read my email she would. I don't know how but she cracked my password which was 10 characters long, alphanumeric. Either that, or I forgot to log-out before going to work that day....

I did think it was odd that she found my Myspace address before I gave it to her - but then I suppose there aren't that many people called Byrnzie.

Byrnzie

catefrances wrote:

23 year olds can be a tad flighty steve. if you sit down with her and show her WHEN these messages are from she, will either be reasonable and accept that or be unreasonable and not. if she can't accept your explanation on this, what else would she be unreasonable about, you know?

I'd love to be able to reason it out with her in person, but she lives a two hour bus ride away, and even though I've explained myself to her by e-mail, she's not responded and won't answer her phone. Ah well...so it goes.

Ahnimus

Byrnzie wrote:

I did think it was odd that she found my Myspace address before I gave it to her - but then I suppose there aren't that many people called Byrnzie.

Yea, it's scarey, I have a lot of profiles online, almost all under the name Animus or Ahnimus. I should have a dig-up dirt on Ahnimus thread. Maybe I'll meet my next girlfriend on AshleyMadison.com to ensure her secrets are darker than mine.

catefrances

Byrnzie wrote:

I'd love to be able to reason it out with her in person, but she lives a two hour bus ride away, and even though I've explained myself to her by e-mail, she's not responded and won't answer her phone. Ah well...so it goes.

well steve if you really wanted her in your life you'd take that 2 hour busride. if only so you'd know you tried it all and it was her who wouldn't come to the party. but if you feel it's be a wasted trip then forget about her. sometimes chicks are more trouble than they're worth.

Byrnzie

catefrances wrote:

well steve if you really wanted her in your life you'd take that 2 hour busride. if only so you'd know you tried it all and it was her who wouldn't come to the party. but if you feel it's be a wasted trip then forget about her. sometimes chicks are more trouble than they're worth.

I thought about that. She's a singer in a hotel. I thought about just going down there anyway and seeing her this weekend. I don't want to look like a stalker though - I mean, how do you think she'd react if I just turned up? Maybe I'll go...I dunno.

Urban Hiker

catefrances wrote:

did i mention i dont even have a mobile/cell phone?

Electronic leashes, I call them.

drtyfrnk29

Wow. She sounds nuttier than squirrel shit, dude. This may be a blessing in disguise. Think about what could happen if she did move in and found your porn stash or old letters. She obviously has no concept of time considering she got all ruffled over messages sent to women before you got together. I just dont wanna read or hear about you getting sliced up by a katana sword (is that right?) for having Naughty Nurses still in the DVD player.

Byrnzie

drtyfrnk29 wrote:

Wow. She sounds nuttier than squirrel shit, dude. This may be a blessing in disguise. Think about what could happen if she did move in and found your porn stash or old letters. She obviously has no concept of time considering she got all ruffled over messages sent to women before you got together. I just dont wanna read or hear about you getting sliced up by a katana sword (is that right?) for having Naughty Nurses still in the DVD player.

My porn stash is unfortunately non-existent right now though, as I don't have a p.c, or video recorder in my crappy apartment up here. So I'm o.k on that score. But I do get your drift.

Urban Hiker

Byrnzie wrote:

I thought about that. She's a singer in a hotel. I thought about just going down there anyway and seeing her this weekend. I don't want to look like a stalker though - I mean, how do you think she'd react if I just turned up? Maybe I'll go...I dunno.

She'd probably eat that up. If you want her to talk to you, that's a good way to get what you want.

Byrnzie

So what dya'll reckon? Should I just go down there this Saturday anyway? Would she freak? Or would she be impressed at my...perseverance/determination?

my2hands

naughty nurses...

now that is some funny shit

Byrnzie

Urban Hiker wrote:

She'd probably eat that up. If you want her to talk to you, that's a good way to get what you want.

I reckon I may give that a go then.

Allie

I wouldn't read the messages on someone's phone like that w/o permission no matter how long I knew them.

wait, did you get your phone back?

drtyfrnk29

Byrnzie wrote:

So what dya'll reckon? Should I just go down there this Saturday anyway? Would she freak? Or would she be impressed at my...perseverance/determination?

Let me tell you what it would do. In her head it would seem like she's got some kind of power over you. Whether it be love or lust or pure of insanity seeing you walk through those doors is going to impower her with the ability to withhold very important aspects of a relationship. Like trust. Wherein you are no longer allowed to have women's phone numbers in your phone, your house or memory for that matter. You will no longer be able to think about another woman. You will have to get a male nurse, uroligist, and massuese (sp?). Just think about how important these last six weeks and the future are when it comes to your temperature being taken and your wang and backside being man handled by some big burly dude.

Byrnzie

Allie wrote:

wait, did you get your phone back?

Not yet. She said her mate was gonna drop it into the pub in Seoul where I drink and leave it behind the bar. She was supposed to have done this on Tuesday evening. I'll pick it up Saturday and see what all - if any - the fuss is about.

Allie

Byrnzie wrote:

So what dya'll reckon? Should I just go down there this Saturday anyway? Would she freak? Or would she be impressed at my...perseverance/determination?

she won't talk to you or answer her phone? Will she answer YOUR phone? You didn't even get your phone back?

how did she break up with you then? Did she text you? LOl, j/k.

catefrances

Byrnzie wrote:

I thought about that. She's a singer in a hotel. I thought about just going down there anyway and seeing her this weekend. I don't want to look like a stalker though - I mean, how do you think she'd react if I just turned up? Maybe I'll go...I dunno.

i dont know how she'd react. im not a mind reader. but if she can't be naffed to return your phonecalls then you have to weigh up the effort required. and whether its worth it to you. as far as i can see she's putting nothing in and expecting what? who knows? what does your gut say steve?