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  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    drtyfrnk29 wrote:
    Wow. She sounds nuttier than squirrel shit, dude. This may be a blessing in disguise. Think about what could happen if she did move in and found your porn stash or old letters. She obviously has no concept of time considering she got all ruffled over messages sent to women before you got together. I just dont wanna read or hear about you getting sliced up by a katana sword (is that right?) for having Naughty Nurses still in the DVD player.

    My porn stash is unfortunately non-existent right now though, as I don't have a p.c, or video recorder in my crappy apartment up here. So I'm o.k on that score. But I do get your drift. :)
  • Urban HikerUrban Hiker Posts: 1,312
    Byrnzie wrote:
    I thought about that. She's a singer in a hotel. I thought about just going down there anyway and seeing her this weekend. I don't want to look like a stalker though - I mean, how do you think she'd react if I just turned up? Maybe I'll go...I dunno.

    She'd probably eat that up. If you want her to talk to you, that's a good way to get what you want.
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  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    So what dya'll reckon? Should I just go down there this Saturday anyway? Would she freak? Or would she be impressed at my...perseverance/determination?
  • my2handsmy2hands Posts: 17,117
    naughty nurses...

    now that is some funny shit :)
  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Urban Hiker wrote:
    She'd probably eat that up. If you want her to talk to you, that's a good way to get what you want.

    I reckon I may give that a go then.
  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    I wouldn't read the messages on someone's phone like that w/o permission no matter how long I knew them.

    wait, did you get your phone back?
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
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  • drtyfrnk29drtyfrnk29 Posts: 846
    Byrnzie wrote:
    So what dya'll reckon? Should I just go down there this Saturday anyway? Would she freak? Or would she be impressed at my...perseverance/determination?
    Let me tell you what it would do. In her head it would seem like she's got some kind of power over you. Whether it be love or lust or pure of insanity seeing you walk through those doors is going to impower her with the ability to withhold very important aspects of a relationship. Like trust. Wherein you are no longer allowed to have women's phone numbers in your phone, your house or memory for that matter. You will no longer be able to think about another woman. You will have to get a male nurse, uroligist, and massuese (sp?). Just think about how important these last six weeks and the future are when it comes to your temperature being taken and your wang and backside being man handled by some big burly dude.
    I'm so dangerous I smoke dynamite.

  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Allie wrote:
    wait, did you get your phone back?

    Not yet. She said her mate was gonna drop it into the pub in Seoul where I drink and leave it behind the bar. She was supposed to have done this on Tuesday evening. I'll pick it up Saturday and see what all - if any - the fuss is about.
  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    Byrnzie wrote:
    So what dya'll reckon? Should I just go down there this Saturday anyway? Would she freak? Or would she be impressed at my...perseverance/determination?
    she won't talk to you or answer her phone? Will she answer YOUR phone? You didn't even get your phone back?

    how did she break up with you then? Did she text you? LOl, j/k.
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    Byrnzie wrote:
    I thought about that. She's a singer in a hotel. I thought about just going down there anyway and seeing her this weekend. I don't want to look like a stalker though - I mean, how do you think she'd react if I just turned up? Maybe I'll go...I dunno.

    i dont know how she'd react. im not a mind reader. but if she can't be naffed to return your phonecalls then you have to weigh up the effort required. and whether its worth it to you. as far as i can see she's putting nothing in and expecting what? who knows? what does your gut say steve?
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  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    Byrnzie wrote:
    Not yet. She said her mate was gonna drop it into the pub in Seoul where I drink and leave it behind the bar. She was supposed to have done this on Tuesday evening. I'll pick it up Saturday and see what all - if any - the fuss is about.

    what? but I thought she wouldn't talk to you?
    I don't get the whole thing. SHe read your private messages w/o permission. then she doesn't like what she found, but won't tell you what the problem is. Um, yeah, ok.
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
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  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Allie wrote:
    she won't talk to you or answer her phone? Will she answer YOUR phone? You didn't even get your phone back?

    how did she break up with you then? Did she text you? LOl, j/k.

    She e-mailed me. I spoke to her on Saturday and she was gonna come to Seoul to see me. When it got late I called and asked where she was and she said that she was mad at me coz she'd read my messages. She wasn't specific. The next day she said she'd see me the following weekend - this coming weekend - but then e-mailed me to say she didn't wanna see me again.
    I do think she's just overreacting though.
  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Allie wrote:
    what? but I thought she wouldn't talk to you?

    She e-mailed me.
    Allie wrote:
    I don't get the whole thing. SHe read your private messages w/o permission. then she doesn't like what she found, but won't tell you what the problem is. Um, yeah, ok.

    I know. It's bizarre. It's doing my head in. I don't get it either. I mean, she should at least tell me exactly what it is that upset her.
  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    catefrances wrote:
    i dont know how she'd react. im not a mind reader. but if she can't be naffed to return your phonecalls then you have to weigh up the effort required. and whether its worth it to you. as far as i can see she's putting nothing in and expecting what? who knows? what does your gut say steve?

    My gut says '50/50'. I think she's worth it. I may just go down there and give it one last shot. If that doesn't work out, then fuck it.
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    Byrnzie wrote:
    My gut says '50/50'. I think she's worth it. I may just go down there and give it one last shot. If that doesn't work out, then fuck it.

    cool, do that then steve. youre comfortable doing that, then tis all good. :)

    can i ask how she got ahold of your phone in the first place?.
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  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    catefrances wrote:
    cool, do that then steve. youre comfortable doing that tis all good. :)

    can i ask how she got ahold of your phone in the first place?.

    I lost it down her way, and then someone handed it in at her hotel.
  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    Byrnzie wrote:
    She e-mailed me.



    I know. It's bizarre. It's doing my head in. I don't get it either. I mean, she should at least tell me exactly what it is that upset her.
    well I hope you find out

    good luck! let us know what happens!
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
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    and Metsy!
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    Byrnzie wrote:
    I lost it down her way, and then someone handed it in at her hotel.

    shit, talk about bad luck. or maybe it was meant to be. :)
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  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    catefrances wrote:
    shit, talk about bad luck. or maybe it was meant to be. :)

    I know. I kind of wish now that it'd stayed lost.
    But maybe it was meant to be.
  • JennytreeJennytree Posts: 5,340
    :( sounds a bit shitty m'dear... she looks lovely :)

    But she shouldn't have read your personal messages if she wasn't prepared to deal with the consequences. We all have a past, yours seems fairly innocent, just tryin yer luck with a few people!

    She said she loves you, yet she goes this mental when she reads something that has nothing to do with her and gets upset?? If they were sent while you guys were together, then fair enough (ish), but she's completely over-reacting and if she does this with something fairly minor, what will she be like with something a li'l more serious??
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  • dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    was one of the texts about me asking for that film with Andie McDowall and Gerard Depardieu for me Xmas????

    i've just checked and your reply was "there's no fucking way i'm getting you Green Card" ;)






    sounds shit though Stevesters... really hope it works out amigo. :):)
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    dunkman wrote:
    was one of the texts about me asking for that film with Andie McDowall and Gerard Depardieu for me Xmas????

    i've just checked and your reply was "there's no fucking way i'm getting you Green Card" ;)






    sounds shit though Stevesters... really hope it works out amigo. :):)

    Thanks Dunk and Jenny. I hope so too.
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    Byrnzie wrote:
    She's 23.

    Isn't she a bit young for you anyway? ;)
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Byrnzie wrote:
    The thing is, I know there were messages on there telling a couple of other girls that I thought they were lovely e.t.c, and just the usual flirtation stuff - and there may be a message to a mate of mine bragging about how many girls I met when I moved to Seoul - but this was before we'd met. So I don't know what her problem is. I mean, why would such stuff bother her?
    Maybe she is just being immature...I dunno.
    :o byrnzie, how many messages telling other girls they're lovely? And how many girls did you meet when you moved to Seoul? :D
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  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Byrnzie wrote:
    I did think it was odd that she found my Myspace address before I gave it to her - but then I suppose there aren't that many people called Byrnzie.
    I reckon she was just after you for your phone in the first place :o now she's got what she wants.

    What kinda phone was it? Musta been something special. :o

    Just kidding Byrnzie, ya know I love ya :o
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Byrnzie wrote:
    She e-mailed me. I spoke to her on Saturday and she was gonna come to Seoul to see me. When it got late I called and asked where she was and she said that she was mad at me coz she'd read my messages. She wasn't specific. The next day she said she'd see me the following weekend - this coming weekend - but then e-mailed me to say she didn't wanna see me again.
    I do think she's just overreacting though.
    perhaps she called some of the numbers on the phone? :o
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    :o byrnzie, how many messages telling other girls they're lovely? And how many girls did you meet when you moved to Seoul? :D

    A fair few I reckon. I went a bit berserk when I first got here. :)

    I'm pretty sure there was nothing bad on my phone though. I Just the normal flirty kind of nonsense.
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Byrnzie wrote:
    A fair few I reckon. I went a bit berserk when I first got here. :)

    I'm pretty sure there was nothing bad on my phone though. I Just the normal flirty kind of nonsense.
    :D a fair few? Sounds like she's seriously overreacting and a wee bit immature :o
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    :D a fair few? Sounds like she's seriously overreacting and a wee bit immature :o

    Do I detect an element of sarcasm here? :confused:;)
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Byrnzie wrote:
    Do I detect an element of sarcasm here? :confused:;)
    actually :o no! That was my one non sarcastic post of the day (seriously... no sarcasm)

    I have friends who do things like that... read messages, hack into email and voicemail and stuff and the whole thing just makes me quite uncomfortable :o
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
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